Zamkatimu
Zindikirani zomwe mwakwaniritsa, tsindikani nyonga, osati zolakwa ndipo musamadzudzule. Timatha kuchepetsa kupsinjika kwa sukulu kwa mwana wanu, akatswiri athu ali otsimikiza. Kukhala wovuta.
Malingaliro Oyambira
- Pangani chidaliro: kuthandizira ngakhale zolakwika. Thandizani kuthana ndi zovuta. Osatsutsa.
- Limbikitsani: zindikirani chilichonse, osati maphunziro okha, chidwi cha mwanayo. Ganizirani za luso lake: chidwi, nthabwala, ukadaulo ...
- Limbikitsani: Muziona sukulu monga gawo la moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa mwana wanu. Ayenera kudziwa kuti kuyesetsa kumayembekezeredwa kwa iye ndikumvetsetsa kuti akungopeza chidziwitso mpaka pano.
Osathamanga
“Mwana amakula nthaŵi zonse,” akukumbutsa motero katswiri wa zamaganizo a ana Tatyana Bednik. - Njirayi ikhoza kukhala yogwira ntchito kwambiri, koma nthawi zina imawoneka ngati ikuzizira, ikupeza mphamvu kuti ipite patsogolo. Choncho, akuluakulu ayenera kulola kuti "agwirizane" ndi zomwe mwanayo ali nazo tsopano. Osathamangira, osaumirira, osakakamiza chilichonse kuti chiwongoleredwe nthawi yomweyo, kuti mukhale wosiyana. Ndikoyenera, m'malo mwake, kumvetsera kwa mwanayo, kuyang'ana, kumuthandiza kudalira mbali zake zabwino, ndi kumuthandiza pamene zofooka zikuwonekera.
Gwiritsani ntchito zolakwa
Osalakwitsa, monga mukudziwa, amene sachita kalikonse. Chotsaliracho ndi chowonanso: amene achita chinachake ndi cholakwika. Nthawi zina. "Phunzitsani mwana wanu kupenda zomwe zimayambitsa kulephera - motere mudzamuphunzitsa kuti amvetse bwino chomwe chinayambitsa kulakwitsa," akulangiza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo Andrey Podolsky. - Fotokozani zomwe zatsala zosamvetsetseka, funsani kuti mubwereze zolimbitsa thupi kunyumba, fotokozaninso zomwe simunaphunzire bwino. Khalani okonzeka kufotokozanso tanthauzo la mfundo zomwe zaphunziridwa posachedwapa. Koma musachite ntchitoyo m'malo mwake - chitani ndi mwanayo. “Zimakhala bwino ngati luso lopanga zinthu limodzi likukhudza ntchito zovuta komanso zopanga zinthu,” akufotokoza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo Tamara Gordeeva, “ntchito ya biology, kubwereza bukhu, kapena nkhani ya mutu waulere. Kambiranani naye malingaliro atsopano, fufuzani mabuku, zambiri pa intaneti pamodzi. Zochitika zoterezi ("bizinesi") zolankhulana ndi makolo, luso latsopano lidzathandiza mwanayo kukhala wodzidalira, kuyesa, kulakwitsa ndi kuyang'ana njira zatsopano payekha.
Werengani zambiri:
- Phunzirani mayeso: Njira 5 zokonzekera ndi ndemanga za akatswiri amisala
Tatyana Bednik anawonjezera kuti: “Palibe chinthu cholimbikitsa komanso chotsitsimula kuposa nthawi yochitira zinthu limodzi ndi banja lathu. "Kuphika, kupanga, kusewera limodzi, kuwonera ndi kuyankha limodzi pawonetsero kapena kanema - njira zambiri zosawoneka koma zofunika kwambiri zophunzirira!" Kugawana malingaliro, kudzifananiza ndi ena, nthawi zina kutsutsana wina ndi mzake - zonsezi zimathandiza kuti mukhale ndi maganizo ovuta, omwe, nawonso, adzakuthandizani kuyang'ana mkhalidwewo kumbali ndikusunga maganizo patali.
Kodi muli ndi funso?
- Center for Psychological and Pedagogical Rehabilitation and Correction "Strogino", t. (495) 753 1353, http://centr-strogino.ru
- Psychological Center IGRA, t. (495) 629 4629, www.igra-msk.ru
- Center for Adolescents "Crossroads", t. (495) 609 1772, www.perekrestok.info
- Center for Psychological Counselling and Psychotherapy "Genesis", tel. (495) 775 9712, www.ippli-genesis.ru
Ndemanga ya Andrei Konchalovsky
"Ndikuganiza kuti ntchito yaikulu ya makolo ndi kupanga mikhalidwe yabwino kwa mwana wawo. Chifukwa chakuti munthu amanyozetsa m’zabwino kotheratu, monga momwe zilili ndi zosayenera konse. Ndiko kuti, kusakhale kozizira kwambiri kapena kutentha kwambiri. Simungakhale nazo zonse. Simungathe kupita kulikonse kapena kudya chilichonse chomwe mukufuna. Sizingatheke kuti zonse ndi zotheka - pali zinthu zosatheka! Ndipo pali zinthu zomwe zingatheke, koma ziyenera kupezedwa. Ndipo pali zinthu zomwe muyenera kuchita, ngakhale simukufuna. Kholo siliyenera kungokhala bwenzi. Moyo umakhala ndi malire ambiri chifukwa nthawi zonse timafuna zomwe tilibe. M’malo mokonda zimene tili nazo, timafuna kukhala ndi zimene timakonda. Ndipo pali zinthu zambiri zosafunikira. Ndipo moyo sumagwirizana ndi zomwe tikufuna. Tiyenera kupeza chinthu, ndikuzindikira chinthu chomwe sitidzakhala nacho. Ndipo ntchito ya kholo ndi kuonetsetsa kuti mwanayo aphunzira mfundo imeneyi. Inde, ndizovuta. Koma popanda izi, munthu sangakhale munthu.
Konzekerani Pamodzi
Kodi nthawi yabwino yochitira homuweki ndi iti; tenga chophweka kapena chovuta kwambiri choyamba; momwe angakonzekerere bwino ntchito - ndi makolo omwe ayenera kuphunzitsa mwanayo kukonzekera moyo wawo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, - adatero katswiri wa zamaganizo kusukulu Natalya Evsikova. "Izi zimuthandiza kupanga zosankha mosavuta, kukhala wodekha - amasiya kukhala patebulo lake mphindi yomaliza asanagone." Kambiranani naye za ntchito yake, fotokozani zimene zikufunika, chifukwa chake, chifukwa chake ziyenera kulinganizidwa mwanjira imeneyo. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mwanayo adzaphunzira paokha kukonzekera nthawi yawo ndi kukonza malo. Koma choyamba, makolo ayenera kusonyeza mmene zimachitikira, ndi kuchitira limodzi naye.
Pangani zolimbikitsa
Mwanayo amasangalala ngati akumvetsa chifukwa chake akuphunzira. Tamara Gordeeva anati: “Lankhulani naye za chilichonse chimene chimamusangalatsa. "Ndikumbutseni: kupambana kumabwera ngati timakonda zomwe timachita, kusangalala nazo, kuona tanthauzo lake." Izi zidzathandiza mwanayo kumvetsa zokhumba zake, kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe amakonda. Osafuna zambiri ngati inuyo mulibe chidwi kwambiri ndi kuphunzira, kuwerenga, kuphunzira zinthu zatsopano. Komanso, sonyezani chidwi chanu pa zinthu zatsopano ngati ndinu wophunzira moyo wonse. "Mutha kutengera chidwi chake ku chidziwitso ndi luso lomwe adzafunikira kuti akwaniritse maloto ake aubwana," akufotokoza momveka bwino Andrey Podolsky. Kodi mukufuna kukhala wotsogolera mafilimu kapena dokotala? Oyang'anira dipatimenti amaphunzira mbiri yaukadaulo ndi zolemba. Ndipo dokotala ayenera kudziwa biology ndi chemistry… Pakakhala chiyembekezo, mwana amakhala ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chofikira ku maloto ake posachedwa. Mantha amatha ndipo kuphunzira kumakhala kosangalatsa kwambiri. ”
Phunzirani popanda kuponderezedwa
Kusakwiyitsidwa ndi zolephera komanso kupewa chitetezo chopitilira muyeso kumatha kupangidwa ngati lamulo lapawiri la kuphunzitsa. Natalya Evsikova akupereka fanizo: “Mwana amaphunzira kukwera njinga. Ikagwa, kodi timakwiya? Inde sichoncho. Timamutonthoza ndi kumulimbikitsa. Ndiyeno timathamanga mbali ndi mbali, kuthandizira njinga, ndi zina zotero mpaka itakwera yokha. Zomwezo ziyenera kuchitidwa ponena za nkhani za sukulu za ana athu: kufotokoza zomwe ziri zosamvetsetseka, kulankhula za zosangalatsa. Chitani nawo zinthu zosangalatsa kapena zovuta kwa iwo. Ndipo, titamva zochita za mwanayo, zimafooketsa zathu pang'onopang'ono - motere tidzamasula danga kuti adzipanga yekha.
Marina, wazaka 16: "Amangoganizira za kupambana kwanga"
“Makolo anga amangokonda magiredi anga, kupambana pa Olympiads. Anali ophunzira a A kusukulu ndipo lingaliro silivomereza kuti ndikhoza kuphunzira moipitsitsa. Amaona B mu physics kukhala yapakati! Amayi ndi otsimikiza: kuti mukhale ndi ulemu, muyenera kuima. Mediocrity ndi mantha ake okhazikika.
Kuyambira giredi XNUMX ndakhala ndikuphunzira ndi mphunzitsi wa masamu, kuyambira giredi XNUMX – chemistry ndi English, biology – ndi bambo anga. Mayi amalamulira mosamalitsa magiredi onse akusukulu. Kumayambiriro kwa teremu iliyonse, amalankhulana ndi aphunzitsi onse kwa ola limodzi, amafunsa mafunso masauzande ambiri ndikulemba zonse mu kope. Mphunzitsi wa ku Russia nthaŵi ina anayesa kumuletsa kuti: “Usade nkhawa, zonse zikhala bwino!” Ndinachita manyazi chotani nanga! Koma tsopano ndikuganiza kuti ndikuyamba kuoneka ngati makolo anga: kumapeto kwa chaka ndinapeza B mu chemistry ndipo ndinamva zowawa m'chilimwe chonse. Nthawi zonse ndimaganizira zimene ndingachite kuti ndisachite zimene iwo amafuna.”
Alice, wazaka 40: "Magiredi ake sanachepe!"
"Kuyambira mu giredi yoyamba, zidachitika motere: Fedor adachita homuweki ataweruka kusukulu, ndipo ine ndimawayang'ana madzulo. Anakonza zolakwa, kundiuza ntchito zapakamwa. Sipanapitirire ola limodzi, ndipo ndinaganiza kuti ndapeza njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira mwana wanga. Komabe, pofika m’giredi XNUMX, anayamba kuterereka mowonjezereka, nachita homuweki mwanjira inayake, ndipo madzulo aliwonse tinali kukangana. Ndinaganiza zokambitsirana zimenezi ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo wapasukuluyo ndipo ndinadabwa pamene anandifotokozera chimene chinali kuchitikadi. Zinapezeka kuti tsiku lililonse mwana wanga anali kuyembekezera kuwunika kwanga ndipo amatha kumasuka nditamaliza kuyang'ana maphunziro. Posafuna zimenezi, ndinamuika m’kamwa mpaka madzulo! Katswiri wa zamaganizo anandilangiza kuti ndisinthe zochita zanga pasanathe mlungu umodzi. Ndinafotokozera mwana wanga kuti ndimamukhulupirira ndipo ndikudziwa kuti angathe kupirira yekha. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, ndikubwerera kuchokera kuntchito, ndinangofunsa Fedor ngati panali zovuta zilizonse ndi maphunziro komanso ngati pakufunika thandizo. Ndipo m'masiku ochepa, zonse zidasintha - ndi mtima wopepuka, adatenga maphunzirowo, podziwa kuti sadzayenera kubwereza mobwerezabwereza. Magiredi ake sanayende bwino.