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Malangizo ena owathandiza kupirira bwino ndi ziwengo
Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa, pafupifupi 70% ya makolo amapeza zimenezo ziwengo zimakhudza umoyo wa ana awo. Kukhumudwa, kudzipatula, mantha, sikuli kosavuta kupirira. Ziyenera kunenedwa kuti kuyang'ana mwana wanu akudwala mphumu kungakhale kochititsa chidwi. Koma monga momwe Aurore Lamouroux-Delay, mkulu wa Sukulu ya Chifuwa cha Marseille, akugogomezera kuti: “Mosiyana ndi zimene anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, mwachibadwa ana amene ali ndi vuto linalake sali okhudzidwa kwambiri ndi maganizo kapena ofooka m’maganizo kuposa ena. Iyi ndi mbali yosinthasintha ya izi matenda osachiritsika, kusinthana pakati pa nthawi zamavuto, zochitika zosayembekezereka komanso nthawi "monga wina aliyense" zomwe zimakhudza chithunzi chomwe ana amakhala nacho. ”
Sitiyenera kuchita sewero, ndikofunikira
Matenda a mphumu kapena ziwengo ndizochititsa chidwi, zimatha kuyika moyo wa mwanayo pachiwopsezo. Mwadzidzidzi, pali sewero la chizindikirocho. Kudzimva kukhala wosalamulira, kukhala tcheru nthawi zonse kumakhala kovutitsa ana; ndi kwa makolo amene amakhala mwamantha. Zotsatira zake ndi chizolowezi choteteza kwambiri mwana wawo. Amaletsedwa kuthamanga, kusewera masewera, kutuluka chifukwa cha mungu, kupita kumasiku obadwa a bwenzi lomwe ali ndi mphaka. Izi ndi zomwe ziyenera kupeŵedwa, chifukwa zikhoza kuonjezera kumverera kwake kuti akunyozedwa ndi ziwengo zake.
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Zodziwikiratu kumbali ya psycho
Momwe mungatetezere ndikutsimikizira popanda mantha? Ndilo vuto lonse! Ngakhale kuti sikofunikira kuchita sewero, komabe ndikofunikira kumudziwitsa mwanayo zomwe akudwala, komanso kumuthandiza kuti adziwe bwino za matenda ake. Kuti asakwiye. m'pofunika kuyankha mafunso anu, kulankhula za iwo popanda taboos. Titha kugwiritsa ntchito mabuku ngati chothandizira pazokambirana, titha kupanga nkhani kuti tifikitse mauthenga. Maphunziro achire imadutsa m'mawu osavuta. Ndi bwino kuyamba pa zolankhula zawo, afunseni poyamba kuti anene zizindikiro zawo ndi mmene akumvera mumtima mwawo: “Chavuta ndi chiyani ndi inu? Kodi zimakupwetekani penapake? Zimakhala bwanji ngati mukuchita manyazi? Ndiye mafotokozedwe anu akhoza kubwera.
M'buku lake labwino kwambiri "Les allergies" (ed. Gallimard Jeunesse / Giboulées / Mine de rien), Dr Catherine Dolto akufotokoza momveka bwino: " Matendawa ndi pamene thupi lathu likwiya. Iye savomereza zinthu zimene timapuma, zimene timadya, zimene timakhudza. Kotero iye amachita mochuluka kapena mocheperapo mwamphamvu: timakhala ndi chimfine choyipa kwambiri, mphumu, ziphuphu, zofiira. Ndizosautsa chifukwa muyenera kuyang'ana "allergen", yomwe imayambitsa ziwengo, ndikumenyana nayo. Nthawi zina zimakhala zazitali pang'ono. Ndiye timadetsedwa ndipo timachira. Kupanda kutero, nthawi zonse tiyenera kulabadira zakudya zina, ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana zomwe tikudziwa zingatidwalitse. Pamafunika kulimba mtima, kulimba mtima, koma abale ndi abwenzi alipo kuti atithandize. “
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Limbikitsani mwana yemwe sali bwino
Kuyambira wazaka 2-3, mwana amatha kuphunzira kumvetsera. Allergist akapeza zomwe muyenera kupewa, Muyenera kunena motsimikiza kuti: “Izi nzoletsedwa kwa inu chifukwa nzoopsa! “ Bwanji ngati atafunsa kuti, “Kodi ndingafe nditadya izi?” », Ndi bwino kuti musazengereze, kumuuza kuti zikhoza kuchitika, koma kuti si mwadongosolo. Makolo akamauzidwa zambiri komanso kukhala odekha ndi matendawa, ndipamenenso anawo amachuluka. Kukhala ndi chikanga, kusadya chinthu chofanana ndi ena, kumapatula gulu. Komabe, pa msinkhu uwu, n’kofunika kwambiri kukhala ngati wina aliyense. Makolo ali ndi ntchito yolemekeza mwana : “Ndinu wapadera, koma mukhoza kusewera, kudya, kuthamanga ndi ena! M'pofunikanso kuti azikambirana yekha ndi anzake. Mphumu kungakhale koopsa, chikanga kungakhale konyansa ... Kuti amuthandize kuthana ndi zochita za kukanidwa, ayenera kufotokoza kuti si opatsirana, kuti si chifukwa ife Kukhudza iye kuti tigwire chikanga. Ngati ziwengozo zimamveka bwino, zimavomerezedwa, zimayendetsedwa bwino, mwanayo amakhala ndi matenda ake bwino ndipo amasangalala ndi ubwana wake mwamtendere.