kuyankhula bwanji kuti mumve?

Pafupifupi, munthu amalandira pafupifupi mauthenga a 3000 masana, koma amangowona 10% ya iwo. Kodi mumayika bwanji uthenga wanu mu 10% imeneyo?

Chifukwa 11 masekondi?

Chiwerengerochi chidandipangira ine ndi kauntala yakuya yowonera pa YouTube. Pambuyo pa masekondi 11, ogwiritsa ntchito amasintha chidwi chawo kuchoka pavidiyo imodzi kupita ku ina.

Kodi tingatani mumasekondi 11?

Nayi poyambira ngati mukufuna kukopa chidwi:

nthabwala. Anthu ali okonzeka kuphonya zambiri zofunika, koma osakonzeka kuphonya nthabwala. Konzekerani nthabwala pasadakhale ngati simuli mtundu wongopanga mosavuta.

Nenani nkhani. Mukayamba ndi mawu akuti "kamodzi", "ingoganizani", ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo mumapeza ngongole yodalirika kwa mphindi ziwiri, osachepera. Wokambirana naye amvetsetsa: simumukweza kapena kumudzudzula, mukungonena nkhani. Ndi bwino kukhala mwachidule. Onetsani kuti mumayamikira nthawi ya interlocutor wanu.

Lowani mukulankhulana - funsani choyamba funso lanu, khalani ndi chidwi ndi bizinesi.

Chodabwitsa. Nenani zochititsa chidwi. Kuphwanya phokoso lachidziwitso pamutu wa munthu wamakono, makamaka wachinyamata, n'kovuta, kotero kumverera kudzakopa chidwi chake.

Nenani nkhani zaposachedwa. “Kodi mukudziwa kuti…”, “Ndikudabwitsani”.

Momwe mungasungire chidwi?

Kutenga chidwi ndi sitepe yoyamba. Kotero kuti chidwi m'mawu anu sichichepa, kumbukirani malamulo a chilengedwe chonse olankhulana. Timamvetsera ngati:

Timasamala zimene amatiuza

- Izi ndi zatsopano komanso / kapena zodabwitsa kwa ife

— Amakamba za ifeyo

- Timauzidwa za chinachake mokondwera, m'maganizo, moona mtima, mwaluso

Choncho musanayambe kulankhula, ganizirani:

N’cifukwa ciani munthu angamvetsele?

- mukufuna kunena chiyani, cholinga chanu ndi chiyani?

- Kodi iyi ndi nthawi?

Kodi iyi ndi njira yoyenera?

Dziyankheni nokha lililonse la mafunsowa, ndiyeno simudzalakwitsa.

Nazi malingaliro enanso:

- Yesetsani kuti ikhale yayifupi, yosangalatsa komanso yofikira. Lankhulani mawu okhawo ofunika. Chotsani njira ndi zomangirira, pewani mawu opanda pake. Kulibwino kaye kaye, kuyang'ana mawu enieniwo. Osathamangira kunena chinthu choyamba chimene chabwera m’maganizo.

- Imvani mphindi yomwe mungathe kufunsa ndikulankhula, komanso pamene kuli bwino kukhala chete.

Yesetsani kumvetsera kuposa kulankhula. Muzifotokoza momveka bwino zimene mwamva ndi kukumbukira zimene munthu winayo akunena za iye mwini. Mungayambe kukambirana ndi funso lokhudza izi: “Munali kupita kwa dokotala dzulo, munapita bwanji?” Mafunso ndi ofunika kwambiri kuposa mayankho.

- Osakakamiza aliyense kulankhula. Ngati mwanayo akufulumira kupita ku filimu, ndipo mwamunayo ali wotopa pambuyo pa ntchito, musayambe kukambirana, dikirani nthawi yoyenera.

Osanama, timamvera mabodza.

Kuchokera ku mawu a Nina Zvereva monga gawo la polojekiti ya Tatyana Lazareva "Weekend with Meaning" pa May 20, 2017.