"Chiwawa sichoyipa nthawi zonse?"

Pamene mkazi akudziyesa yekha mayi, amadzijambula yekha zithunzi mu mzimu wa Instagram (bungwe lonyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) - kumwetulira, zidendene zokongola. Ndipo amakonzekera kukhala wachifundo, wosamala, woleza mtima ndi wovomera.

Koma limodzi ndi khandalo, mayi wina amawonekera mwadzidzidzi, nthaŵi zina amakhumudwa kapena kukhumudwa, nthaŵi zina amakwiya. Ziribe kanthu momwe mungafune, ndizosatheka kukhala wabwino komanso wokoma mtima nthawi zonse. Kunja, zochita zake zina zingaoneke ngati zopweteka, ndipo wakunja nthaŵi zambiri amalingalira kuti iye ndi mayi woipa. Koma ngakhale kwambiri «zoipa» mayi ali ndi zotsatira zabwino pa mwanayo.

Monga wokoma mtima «mayi-fairy» nthawi zina amachita destructively, ngakhale iye konse wosweka ndipo alibe kukuwa. Kukoma mtima kwake kofowoka kungapweteke.

Kodi maphunziro nawonso achiwawa?

Tiyeni tiyerekeze banja limene chilango chakuthupi sichimagwiritsiridwa ntchito, ndipo makolo ali amatsenga kotero kuti satulutsa kutopa kwawo pa ana. Ngakhale mu Baibuloli, mphamvu imagwiritsidwa ntchito nthawi zambiri pa maphunziro. Mwachitsanzo, makolo amakakamiza mwana m’njira zosiyanasiyana kuti azichita zinthu motsatira malamulo enaake ndipo amamuphunzitsa kuchita zinthu monga mwachizolowezi m’banja lawo, osati mwanjira ina.

Kodi izi zimawonedwa ngati zachiwawa? Malinga ndi matanthauzo operekedwa ndi World Health Organization, chiwawa ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu iliyonse yakuthupi kapena mphamvu, zotsatira zake zomwe zimakhala zovulaza thupi, imfa, kuvulala m'maganizo kapena kulemala kwachitukuko.

Koma n’zosatheka kuneneratu zoopsa zimene zingachitike chifukwa chogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zilizonse. Nthawi zina makolo amayeneranso kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zakuthupi - kuti agwire mwamsanga komanso mwano mwana yemwe wathamangira pamsewu, kapena kuti apite kuchipatala.

Zikuoneka kuti maphunziro nthawi zambiri samatha popanda chiwawa. Kotero sizoyipa nthawi zonse? Choncho, n'kofunika?

Ndi nkhanza zotani zomwe zimapweteka?

Imodzi mwa ntchito za maphunziro ndi kupanga mwa mwana lingaliro la mafelemu ndi malire. Chilango chakuthupi ndi chowawa chifukwa ndikuphwanya kwambiri malire a thupi la mwanayo ndipo sikuti ndi chiwawa, koma nkhanza.

Russia ili pachiwopsezo tsopano: chidziwitso chatsopano chikuwombana ndi zikhalidwe ndi mbiri yakale. Kumbali imodzi, maphunziro amafalitsidwa pa kuopsa kwa chilango chakuthupi komanso kuti kulemala kwachitukuko ndi chimodzi mwa zotsatira za "lamba lachikale".

Kumbali ina, mwambo: "Ndinalangidwa, ndipo ndinakulira." Makolo ena ali otsimikiza kotheratu kuti iyi ndiyo njira yokhayo yolerera: “Mwanayo amadziŵa bwino lomwe kuti pa zolakwa zina malamba amamuwalira, amavomereza ndipo amalingalira zimenezo mwachilungamo.”

Ndikhulupirireni, mwana woteroyo alibe chochita. Ndipo ndithudi padzakhala zotsatira. Akadzakula, adzakhala wotsimikiza kuti kuphwanya malire kwakuthupi kuli koyenera, ndipo sadzachita mantha kuigwiritsa ntchito kwa anthu ena.

Momwe mungachokere ku chikhalidwe cha «lamba» kupita ku njira zatsopano za maphunziro? Chofunikira si chilungamo cha ana, chimene ngakhale makolo amene amaphulitsa fumbi kwa ana awo amawopa. Gulu lathu silinakonzekere malamulo otere, tikufunika maphunziro, maphunziro ndi chithandizo chamaganizo kwa mabanja.

Mawu akhozanso kuwawa

Kukakamiza kuchitapo kanthu mwa kunyozetsa mawu, kukakamizidwa ndi kuwopseza ndi nkhanza zomwezo, koma zamalingaliro. Kutchula mayina, kutukwana, kunyozedwa ndi nkhanza.

Osati kuwoloka mzere? Ndikofunikira kulekanitsa momveka bwino mfundo za ulamuliro ndi ziwopsezo.

Malamulowo amaganiziridwa pasadakhale ndipo ayenera kugwirizana ndi msinkhu wa mwanayo. Panthawi ya khalidwe loipa, mayi amadziwa kale kuti ndi lamulo liti lomwe laphwanyidwa komanso chilango chomwe chidzatsatidwe kumbali yake. Ndipo ndikofunikira - amaphunzitsa lamulo ili kwa mwanayo.

Mwachitsanzo, muyenera kusiya zoseweretsa musanagone. Ngati izi sizichitika, zonse zomwe sizinachotsedwe zimasamutsidwa kumalo osafikirika. Ziwopsezo kapena "kusakhulupirika" ndiko kuphulika kwamalingaliro kopanda mphamvu: "Ngati simulanda zoseweretsa pakali pano, sindikudziwa nkomwe! Sindikulolani kuti mudzacheze nawo Loweruka ndi Lamlungu!”

Kuwonongeka kwachisawawa ndi zolakwika zakupha

Okhawo amene sachita kalikonse salakwitsa. Ndi ana, izi sizingagwire ntchito - makolo nthawi zonse amacheza nawo. Chotero, zolakwa n’zosapeŵeka.

Ngakhale mayi woleza mtima kwambiri angakweze mawu ake kapena kumenya mwana wake m’mitima mwawo. Magawo awa atha kuphunziridwa kukhala osachita zoopsa. Chidaliro chimene munthu amalephera nacho chifukwa cha kupsa mtima kwa apo ndi apo kungayambitsidwenso. Mwachitsanzo, kunena zoona: “Pepani, sindikanakwapula. Sindinathe kudziletsa, pepani. " Mwanayo amamvetsa kuti anam’lakwira, koma anamupepesa, ngati kuti abweza chiwonongekocho.

Kuyanjana kulikonse kumatha kusinthidwa ndikuphunzira kuwongolera kuwonongeka kwachisawawa. Kuti muchite izi, kumbukirani mfundo zitatu zofunika:

1. Palibe wand wamatsenga, kusintha kumatenga nthawi.

2. Malingana ngati kholo likusintha mayankho awo, kubwereranso ndi kukwapula kungabwerenso. Muyenera kuvomereza kuwononga uku mwa inu nokha ndikudzikhululukira nokha zolakwa. Kuwonongeka kwakukulu ndi zotsatira za kuyesa kuchita zonse 100% nthawi imodzi, kuti mukhalebe ndi mphamvu ndipo kamodzi kokha mudziletse "kuchita zoipa".

3. Zothandizira ndizofunikira pakusintha; kusintha mu mkhalidwe wa kutopa kwathunthu ndi kutopa sikuthandiza.

Chiwawa ndi mutu umene nthawi zambiri mulibe mayankho osavuta komanso omveka bwino, ndipo banja lililonse liyenera kupeza mgwirizano wake pamaphunziro kuti lisagwiritse ntchito njira zankhanza.