Psychology

The replica "Ndiwe katswiri!" kuyandikira ndikuyandikira kukhala chipongwe. Monga ngati anthu opanda malingaliro akufuna kudzikhazika mtima pansi ponyoza omwe sanasiye kuyesa kuwapeza ...

Ngati simunakonzekere kugonjera tsogolo, mumatchedwa idealist: chabwino, wolota wopanda pake, poipa kwambiri, mtundu woopsa wokhala ndi malingaliro. Pakalipano, okhawo omwe ali ndi malingaliro amasintha bwino dziko lapansi, ndipo nthawi yomweyo sali "malingaliro" konse.

Woganiza bwino kapena woganiza bwino?

Ideologue ndi amene amakhalabe akapolo ku "lingaliro la lingaliro limodzi." Ndipo idealist, m'malo mwake, akulimbana kuti asinthe zenizeni m'dzina la malingaliro ake. Kotero ngati mumakhulupirira mphamvu ya malingaliro: feminism, humanism, liberalism, Buddhism, Christianity - fulumirani kuti mudziwe ngati choyenera chikukutsogolerani m'moyo kapena mwatsekeredwa m'malingaliro.

Ichi ndi mayeso ophweka kwambiri. Ngati mutha kuwona ndendende zomwe chikhulupiliro muzabwino chimakhala bwino m'moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku, ndiye kuti ndinu katswiri wodziwa bwino. Ngati mumangonena kuti muli ndi zikhulupiriro, koma osawona momwe chikhulupiriro chanu chimathandizira kupita patsogolo, ndiye kuti muli pachiwopsezo chotengera malingaliro.

Kupha anthu ambiri m'zaka za zana la XNUMX kudachitika ndi anthu oganiza bwino, osati oganiza bwino. Mkristu amene amapita ku tchalitchi Lamlungu, amalankhula za makhalidwe achikristu patebulo, ndipo pamene kuyang’anira kampani yake sikumatsogozedwa ndi chikondi kwa mnansi wake, sali wongolingalira chabe, koma wamalingaliro. Mkazi yemwe pa mpata uliwonse amatchula kuti ndi mkazi, koma akupitiriza kutumikira mwamuna wake ndikugwira ntchito zonse zapakhomo, sali woganiza bwino, ali ndi malingaliro.

Kuchita kapena kunena?

M’lingaliro lina, timayamba kukaikira tikamalankhula kwambiri za makhalidwe amene timawakonda. Ndi bwino kumatsatira mfundo zimenezi, kuzitsatira m’malo mongolankhula za izo. Kodi ndichifukwa choti timamva kufunika kolankhula za iwo kotero kuti sitimamasulira zikhalidwe kukhala zochita mokwanira ndipo ifeyo timadziwa za izo?

Timalipira kusowa kwa zochita ndi mawu owonjezera: kugwiritsa ntchito mawu achisoni, omwe pakadali pano amasanduka mawu opanda kanthu.

Ndipo mosemphanitsa: kukhala wowona mtima kumatanthauza kukonda zenizeni mpaka kutheka pang'ono kuti zitheke, kukonda kupita patsogolo panjira yopita patsogolo, ngakhale itakhala patali.

Waya wothina wa malingaliro abwino

Woganiza bwino amadziwa bwino kuti lingaliro lake ndi lingaliro chabe, ndipo zenizenizo zimakonzedwa mosiyana. Ndicho chifukwa chake msonkhano wawo ukhoza kukhala wodabwitsa kwambiri: zenizeni zimatha kusintha zikafika pokhudzana ndi zoyenera, komanso mosiyana.

Kupatula apo, woganiza bwino, mosiyana ndi katswiri wamalingaliro, amatha kukonza malingaliro ake chifukwa chokhudzana ndi zenizeni.

Kusintha zenizeni m'dzina la zabwino: izi ndi zomwe Max Weber adatcha "makhalidwe okopa." Ndipo kusintha zoyenera pokhudzana ndi zenizeni ndi zomwe adazitcha "makhalidwe a udindo."

Zigawo ziwirizi ndizofunikira kuti munthu akhale munthu wochitapo kanthu, wodalirika. Kukhala pa waya wothina uwu, mu golide uyu amatanthauza pakati pa malingaliro ndi kumvera.

Siyani Mumakonda