Wosewerayo adatiitanira kunyumba kwake ndipo adatiuza momwe akulera mwana wazaka 14 pambuyo pa chisudzulo.
Marichi 31 2014
Igor Vernik ndi mwana wake Grisha
“Sindidzakhala ngati abambo amene amangokhalira kulankhula mofuula kuti ali ndi mwana wodabwitsa. Ndingonena kuti: Ndili ndi mwana wanzeru (Grigory ali ndi zaka 14, uyu ndi mwana wa wosewera kuchokera ku ukwati wake ndi Maria. Vernik anamusudzula mu 2009. - Pafupifupi. "Antenna"), - Igor anamwetulira pamene ife anabwera kudzamuona. Koma zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti ndimamukonda mwachimbulimbuli. Ndimatsatira kwambiri zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wa Grisha.
Mwana wanga ndi ine ndi mabwenzi apamtima ndithu. Tinasankha ulendo wopita naye limodzi: pamodzi tinachititsa pulojekiti ya Sukulu ya Nyimbo pa njira ya U (chiwonetsero chenicheni chomwe ana azaka zapakati pa 8 mpaka 14 ankapikisana nawo mumitundu yosiyanasiyana ya nyimbo. - Pafupifupi. "Antennas"). Kwa mwana wake, uku ndikoyamba kwake monga wowonetsa. Koma iye anaimirira bwanji! Khalidwe limamveka. N’zoona kuti si zonse zimene zinayenda bwino. Grisha ali ndi zinthu zamoyo, koma pa siteji poyamba anali woletsedwa. Panalinso mavuto ndi diction: zinkawoneka kwa iye kuti amatchula mawu momveka bwino, koma ndinamuwongolera.
Ine ndekha ndimayenera kugwira ntchito ndi izi nthawi imodzi. Nditalowa m'bwalo la zisudzo, sindinathe kuyankhula chifukwa cha chisangalalo - m'kamwa mwanga munauma. Ndinayesa kutafuna chingamu ndikunyamula madzi kulikonse, koma palibe chomwe chinandithandiza. Ndinalimbana ndi chisangalalocho osati patatha chaka, osati zaka ziwiri pambuyo pake, koma pambuyo pake, pamene ndinazindikira kuti chinthu chachikulu si kulingalira za chisangalalo.
Ndipo, ndikuyang'ana Grisha, ndinalingalira kukula kwa udindo wake: owonerera, oweruza milandu, makamera, zowunikira, ndipo palibe amene angapereke chizoloŵezi. Ndikuganiza mowona mtima kuti kuyesa cholembera ichi chinali phunziro labwino kwa Grisha. Muyenera kuzolowera zochitika, kuti muzindikire. Ndipo zomwe zimathandizanso, pa polojekiti Grisha adawona anyamata omwe ankakonda kwambiri ntchito yawo, ndipo adazindikira kuti ndi bwino bwanji kuchita zomwe mumakonda. “
Grisha:
“Nthawi zina bambo amandifunsa chimene ndikufuna ndikadzakula. Ndipo sindikudziwa choti ndinene panobe. Inde, ndikufuna kutsatira mapazi ake, ndipo ndinakonda udindo wa wowonetsa TV. Zingakhale zachilendo kuganiza za ntchito ya mphunzitsi kapena dokotala ngati mwaleredwa m'malo otero kuyambira ubwana wanu: agogo aamuna ndi mtsogoleri wamkulu wa zolemba ndi zochititsa chidwi pawailesi, tsopano mphunzitsi pa Moscow Art Theatre School. , amalume ndi mtolankhani TV ndi mkonzi wamkulu wa magazini, amalume wina anamaliza sukulu - situdiyo wa Moscow Art Theatre, bambo - wosewera wa Moscow Art Theatre ndi Cinema ".
"Tsopano Grisha akuphunzira nyimbo. Koma ubale wake ndi iye sunakhalebe wachikondi wosweka. Ndibwino kuti tsopano akusewera piyano ndi chisangalalo, osati pansi pa ndodo. Koma nthaŵi zina mwana wa m’khichini anagunditsa mutu wake pa kabati ndi mawu akuti: “Ndimadana ndi nyimbo zimenezi!” Ndipo matalala anatsika m’masaya mwake. Sindinkadziwa kuti misozi ingakhale yaikulu chonchi. Mtima wanga unali kusweka ndi ululu. Koma ndinamvetsetsa kuti sikunali kotheka kuvomereza: ngati nditavomereza, kudzakhala kugonjetsedwa kwake, osati kwanga. Ndipo ngakhale Grisha akanaganiza kuti chifundo akhoza kukwaniritsa chinachake m'moyo. Mwachitsanzo, ndili mwana, mayi anga ankandichititsa kuika machesi pansi maulendo khumi pa seŵero lililonse loimba losakwaniritsidwa. Koma tsopano ndikuthokoza makolo anga chifukwa chakuti m’moyo wanga muli nyimbo, ndimalemba nyimbo ndi kuimba.
Posachedwapa ndinapatsa Grisha gitala ndi mawu akuti: "Si nthawi zonse pamene umakhala wekha ndi mtsikana, padzakhala piyano pafupi, koma gitala angakhale." Anawonetsa nyimbo zingapo, mwanayo adazidziwa bwino ndikuyang'ananso nyimbo zomwe amazikonda kwambiri. Tsopano amatha ngakhale kusewera nawo. Zoonadi, masiku ano gitala alibe mphamvu yofanana ndi kale. Mutha kuyatsa chida chilichonse ndikuyimba nyimbo iliyonse. Tiyeni tiwone ngati Grisha akufuna kuimba gitala.
Koma mwanayo amakonda kuvina kwambiri. Breakdancing imakwera kwambiri. Kuyambira pomwe adavina, mwanayu adasintha mawonekedwe. Izi zisanachitike, anali wonenepa kwambiri, sizikudziwika kuti ndani. Ndili mwana, akuluakulu ankandiyang'ana mwachifundo, nthawi zonse ankayesetsa kundidyetsa ndi chinachake. Ndipo Grisha anatambasula pamene anapita ku zovina, anali ndi minofu ndi abs. Tsoka ilo, tsopano wasiya makalasi okhazikika. Choyamba, maphunziro ambiri atsopano, ovuta a Grisha adawonekera kusukulu, ndipo kachiwiri, adadziwa bwino kuvina kopuma ndipo tsopano akufuna kusintha njira - kupita, kunena, ku hip-hop. Tikukambirana izi. “
"Grisha amaphunzira pasukulu yophunzirira. Ali ndi zovuta ndi physics, chemistry, algebra, geometry. Ndipo pano sindine womuthandizira. Pali atate amene, panthaŵi imene ana amakhoza bwino bwino, amapeza dipuloma yabwino yokhala ndi ma A n’kunena kuti: “Taonani ndi kuphunzira! Ndilibe chilichonse choti ndinenepo: kusukulu ndinali ndi zovuta zomwe mwana wanga anali nazo ndi sayansi yeniyeni. Koma ndimauza Grisha kuti: “Uyenera kudziwa maphunziro a kusukulu ndi kuphunzira pamlingo wofanana ndi wa ophunzira ena. Mukamvetsetsa zomwe mudzachite m'moyo, mavuto ambiri amatha. ”
"Zinachitika kuti Grisha ndi woyendayenda pano - amakhala ndi ine, kenako ndi amayi ake. Inde, moyo m'nyumba ziwiri sikophweka, koma mwana adazolowera. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti Grisha amamva: bambo ndi amayi amamukonda, sali yekha.
Nthaŵi ina mphunzitsi wa m’kalasi anandiitana nati: “Taonani mmene Grisha amachitira. Ngati chinachake chikuchitika m'kalasi, ndiye kuti iye ndiye woyambitsa. ” “Sindikukhulupirira,” ndikutero, ndipo panthaŵi ino ndili ndi déjà vu. Ndimakumbukira mmene atate anaimirira pamaso pa aphunzitsiwo, ndipo amawauza kuti: “Ngati chinachake chichitika m’kalasi, ndiye kuti Igor ndiye walakwa.” Ndipo atate akuyankha, “Sindikukhulupirira.
Ndipo kamodzi mphunzitsi wa kalasi anandiitana kuti tikambirane zovala za Grisha.
"Zonse zimayamba ndi mawonekedwe," adatero. - Palibe tayi, malaya osatsekedwa, ndipo, pambuyo pa zonse, yang'anani nsapato zake, kodi wophunzira angayende mu nsapato zotere? "Ukunena zoona," ndimayankha ndikubisa miyendo yanga pansi pa tebulo, chifukwa ndidabwera kudzacheza ndi nsapato zomwezo. Ngakhale kuti zaka zimasiyana, ine ndi mwana wanga timavala mofanana. Kenako, ine ndi Grisha tikalowa m’galimoto n’kumayendetsa, ndimamuuzabe kuti: “Mwanawe, ukudziwa kuti nsapato n’zabwino komanso zongowakonda. Koma kuganizira ndi zimene muyenera kukulitsa mwa inu nokha. ” Chotero tinakhala ngati kuseka ndi kukambirana mozama. Ndipo pakati pathu palibe khoma. “