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Mnzanga wongoganizira: chifukwa chiyani ana amabwera ndi amayi osiyana
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti si nthaŵi zonse ana amaona mabwenzi ongopeka kukhala ongopeka. M'malo osawoneka.
Malinga ndi kafukufuku, ana nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mabwenzi ongoyerekeza azaka zapakati pa zitatu ndi zisanu. "Ubwenzi" ukhoza kukhala kwa nthawi yaitali, mpaka zaka 10-12. Nthawi zambiri, mabwenzi osawoneka ndi anthu. Koma pafupifupi 40 peresenti ya milandu, ana amalingalira mizukwa, zolengedwa zanthano, nyama - agalu, mwa njira, nthawi zambiri kuposa amphaka ngati mabwenzi. Chodabwitsa ichi chimatchedwa Carlson's syndrome.
Akatswiri amati palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa mabwenzi ongoyerekeza. Mwana samabwera nawo nthawi zonse chifukwa ali yekhayekha. Koma nthawi zina palibe amene angasewere naye, nthawi zina muyenera kuuza wina "chinsinsi choopsa kwambiri", ndipo nthawi zina bwenzi losaoneka ndiwe mwini kapena banja lonse. Palibe cholakwika ndi izi, ndipo ndi msinkhu, mwanayo adzayiwalabe za bwenzi lolingalira.
M'malo mwake, zopeka zili ndi kuphatikiza: kumvetsera zomwe mwana wanu akukhala nazo ndi bwenzi longoyerekeza, mudzamvetsetsa vuto lomwe akuda nkhawa nalo, kwenikweni. Mwina amafunikira chitetezo, mwina watopa kwambiri, kapena mwina ndi nthawi yoti akhale ndi chiweto. Komanso - ndi makhalidwe ati omwe mwana amawona kuti ndi abwino komanso ofunika kwambiri.
Blogger Jamie Kenny, ataphunzira kuti mwana wake wamkazi ali ndi bwenzi losaoneka - Creepy Polly, ndi chigoba, amadya akangaude ndipo amakonda Halowini - adaganiza zofunsa makolo ena ndikupeza kuti ana ena ndi "abwenzi" omwe. Zotsatira zake zinali zoseketsa.
Kuchokera ku chinjoka kupita ku mzimu
"Mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi Pixie unicorn yowuluka. Nthawi zambiri zimawulukira limodzi. Pixie ali ndi mwana, mwana wamng'ono wa unicorn wotchedwa Croissant. Akadali wamng'ono kwambiri, choncho sangawulukebe. “
“Mwana wanga wamkazi ankasewera ndi chinjoka chongoyerekezera. Tsiku lililonse iwo anali ndi mtundu wina wa ulendo, wosiyana nthawi zonse. Kamodzi anapulumutsa kalonga ndi mwana wamkazi mu nkhalango yakuya. Chinjokacho chinali ndi mamba apinki ndi ofiirira, okongoletsedwa ndi miyala yamtengo wapatali. Nthawi zina mnzake wa chinjoka amawulukira kwa iye.
“Anzake a mwana wanga wamkazi ndi njoka! Pali ambiri, mazana a iwo. Amadziwa kuyendetsa galimoto. Nthawi zina mwana wamkazi amakonza maphunziro pamene njoka zikuchita molakwika. “
“Mwana wanga wamkazi anandiuza kuti anali ndi mnzanga amene sitinkamuona, ndipo zimenezi zinandikwiyitsa. Ndinaganiza zomufunsa mmene amaonekera. Zinapezeka kuti shaki yofiirira-yoyera, dzina lake ndi Didi, ndipo samabwera kawirikawiri. “
"Mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi bwenzi - mphaka wamatsenga wotchedwa TT. Mwana wanga wamkazi amamugudubuza pa swing ndipo nthawi zambiri amamutayira zamatsenga. “
Mzinda wonse
“Mwana wanga wamkazi alibe bwenzi lotero, koma ali ndi banja lonse longoyerekezera. Nthawi zambiri amati ali ndi bambo wina dzina lake Speedy, yemwe ali ndi tsitsi la utawaleza, malaya ofiirira, ndi mathalauza alalanje. Alinso ndi mlongo wake, Sok, ndi mchimwene wake, Jackson, nthawi zina amayi ena amawonekera, dzina lake ndi Rosie. “Bambo” wake Speedy ndi kholo lopanda thayo. Amamulola kudya maswiti tsiku lonse ndikukwera ma dinosaurs. “
“Mnzanga wosaoneka wa mwana wanga wamkazi amatchedwa Coco. Iye anawonekera pamene mwana wake wamkazi anali pafupi zaka ziwiri zakubadwa. Iwo ankawerenga komanso kusewera limodzi nthawi zonse. Coco sanali wopangidwa mopusa, anali bwenzi lenileni ndipo anakhala ndi mwana wake wamkazi kwa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi. Kuti mumvetse, Coco anaonekera pamene ndinapita padera. Ngati mimbayo ikanaperekedwa, ndikanamuitana mwana wanga wamkazi wachiŵiri, Collette, ndipo kwathu timamutcha kuti Coco. Koma mwana wanga wamkazi sankadziwa kuti ndili ndi pakati. “
“Mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi mzinda wonse wa mabwenzi ongoyerekeza. Pali ngakhale mwamuna, dzina lake Hank. Tsiku lina anandijambula: ndevu, magalasi, malaya amtundu wa cheki, amakhala kumapiri ndipo amayendetsa galimoto yoyera. Pali Nicole, ndi wometa tsitsi, wamtali, wowonda wa blonde wovala zodula kwambiri komanso wamawere akulu. Dr. Anna, mphunzitsi wa kuvina wa Daniel yemwe amaika mawonetsero tsiku lililonse. Palinso ena, koma awa ndi okhazikika. Onse ankakhala pakhomo pathu kuyambira pamene mwana wamkazi anali ndi zaka ziwiri, tonse tinkadziwana ndipo timalankhula nawo ngati kuti ndi enieni. Tsopano mwana wanga wamkazi ali ndi zaka 7,5, ndipo anzake sabwera kawirikawiri. Ndimawasowa ngakhale. “
“Mwana wanga wamwamuna ali ndi zaka 4. Ali ndi mnzake wongoganiza dzina lake Datos. Amakhala pa mwezi. “
"Mwana wanga wamwamuna ali ndi chibwenzi chongoyerekeza dzina lake Apple. Sitingalowe m'galimoto mpaka nditamanga, sitingathe kuika chikwama m'malo mwake. Anaonekera mnzathu atamwalira mwadzidzidzi. Ndipo Apple wakhala akumwalira pa ngozi, nayenso. Ndikuganiza kuti umu ndi mmene mwanayo anayesera kupirira maganizo ake atamwalira bwenzi lake. Ndipo mwana wamkaziyo ali ndi mayi wongoyerekezera amene amakambirana naye mosalekeza. Amamufotokozera mwatsatanetsatane, amafotokoza zonse zomwe "amayi" amamulola kuchita: kudya mchere wowonjezera, kukhala ndi mphaka. “