Zamkatimu
- Mwana m'chikondi ndi amayi ake: Oedipus si osowa
- Tanthauzo ndi psychoanalysis ya Electra complex: Gawo lofunikira pakumanga kwake
- Ubale wopindika wa oedipa: kukulitsa chidziwitso cha jenda
- Mavuto a Oedipus asinthidwa: momwe mungachitire ngati kholo?
- Momwe mungachitire ndikusintha kwa zovuta za Oedipus: zochitika zingapo, nawonso!
- Kodi kusintha kwa zovuta za Oedipus kumatha bwanji?
Mwana m'chikondi ndi amayi ake: Oedipus si osowa
Anna, wazaka 4, anauza amayi ake kuti: “Ndikadzakula, ndidzakukwatira!” “. Pomwe pakati pa Oedipus, mawu a psychoanalytic omwe adatengera kwa munthu wa nthano yemwe adapha abambo ake kuti akwatire amayi ake, amangofuna kutenga malo a abambo ake. Stéphane Clerget, dokotala wa matenda a maganizo a ana * anati: “Mkhalidwe wokhotakhota umene umapangitsa mwana kuyamba kukondana ndi kholo la amuna kapena akazi okhaokha sadziwika kwenikweni koma kawirikawiri.
Tanthauzo ndi psychoanalysis ya Electra complex: Gawo lofunikira pakumanga kwake
Universal, zovuta za Oedipus zimawonekera pazaka za 3 ndipo zimatha zaka 6. "Nthawi yofunikira, monga kuphunzira luso la magalimoto kapena chinenero, imalola kukhazikitsidwa kwa mgwirizano wachikondi wamtsogolo," akufotokoza Dr Clerget. . Mawuwa amachokera ku nthano za Agiriki komanso khalidwe la Oedipus, mfumu ya ku Thebes yomwe inapha bambo ake ndi kugona ndi amayi ake. Freud anabatizidwa ponena za nthano imeneyi ya Antiquity matenda a maganizo a ubwana. Kuphatikiza apo, zovuta za Oedipus zimatchedwanso Electra complex pamene ndi mtsikana amene amakulitsa.
Ubale wopindika wa oedipa: kukulitsa chidziwitso cha jenda
Chotero kuli kupyolera mwa chikondi chimene ali nacho kwa makolo ake m’mene mwanayo amayambitsidwira ku chikhumbo chakugonana ndi chikondi. Iyi ndi gawo lofunikira pakukula kwa ubwana. Panthaŵiyo, kuti timuthandize kulamulira zilakolako zake ndi zokhumudwitsa, tidzatha kukambitsirana naye zoletsa ziŵiri zazikulu za kugonana kwa munthu: mwana sakwatira ndi munthu wamkulu, kapena ndi chiŵalo cha banja lake. .
Nanga n’cifukwa ciani akuyang’ana kwa ine m’malo mwa bambo ake? Kupezeka, nthabwala kapena kukangalika kwa kholo lokhudzidwa kungakhudze. Chizindikiritso nachonso: Kamtsikana kathu kakufuna kuchita monga abambo ake (kuphatikiza kukondweretsa mitima yathu) ndipo mkati mwake amasewera kutsanzira anthu akulu omwe amakondana!
Mavuto a Oedipus asinthidwa: momwe mungachitire ngati kholo?
Kodi akufuna kutipsompsona pakamwa? Titakumana ndi zovuta za Oedipus zovuta, timayika malire omveka bwino ndipo timamufotokozera kuti kupsompsona kumeneku kumasungidwa kwa okwatirana okondana. Cholinga : "wokhumudwa” mlandu! Ponena za abambo, "asachite mope, mwana wake wamkazi samamukonda pang'ono", akutsimikizira Dr. Clerget. Kodi amakonda kukhala amayi omwe amawerenga nkhaniyi? Mwinamwake timasamalira bwino kuposa iye ... Monga momwe abambo amachitira bwino pakuyimba nyimbo. Zili kwa iye kupeza nthawi yosunga mgwirizano. Ndiyeno, palibe chimene chimatilepheretsa kunena kuti: “Apo, ndi abambo kapena palibe!” “. Ngakhale kuwerenga nkhani pamodzi, kufotokoza, ngati iye balks, kuti tikufuna kukhala ndi mwamuna wathu pambali pathu ... ndiye pang'onopang'ono timamulola kuti atenge ulamuliro.
Momwe mungachitire ndikusintha kwa zovuta za Oedipus: zochitika zingapo, nawonso!
Kuchita zinthu monga banja ndi kukhala ndi zofuna zina kumathandiza mwanayo kumvetsa kuti sikokwanira kudyetsa mayi ake, ndi kusiya munda oedipali amayi.
Kodi kusintha kwa zovuta za Oedipus kumatha bwanji?
Monga momwe zilili ndi Oedipus complex kapena Electra lambda complex, zovuta zosinthika mwa ana zimatha zaka pafupifupi 6. Ndipamene mwana amazindikira kuti kukwatira bambo kapena mayi ake sikutheka.
* Stéphane Clerget ndi amene analemba mabuku angapo kuphatikizapo “Ana athu alinso ndi jenda, umakhala bwanji mtsikana kapena mnyamata? ? ”(Mkonzi. Robert Laffont).