Mafunso a Laëtitia Milot: "Mwana wanga wamkazi Lyana ndi mphatso yochokera kumwamba!"

Kodi ndinu mayi wa fusional?

Laetitia Milot :  Tinamuyembekezera kwambiri. Ndipo akubwera! Tili ndi ubale wamphamvu kwambiri ndi Lyana. Pakubadwa kwake, ndinamupanga opaleshoni. Kupatukana ndi iye m'chipinda chochira kwa maola atatu, sindinathe kudikira: kuti ndimupeze, kumukumbatira ndikumuyamwitsa. Badri adachita khungu ndikuyimba nyimbo yomwe ndidamuyimbira ndili ndi pakati: "Nyimbo Yokoma".

Kodi ndi wogona pang'ono kapena wamkulu?

Laetitia Milot: Amagona kwambiri kuyambira kubadwa, ndipo mwachangu kwambiri pafupifupi maola 5 kapena 6 motsatizana. Tsopano amagona maola 10 motsatizana, ngakhale maola 12!

Kodi ndinu "wogona nawo"?

Laetitia Milot: Tidalemekeza zomwe adalangizidwa, tinali okhwima. Ndinkachita mantha kwambiri ndi kugona limodzi! Ali m'chipinda chathu, m'chibelekero, ndipo apita kwa iye pafupifupi miyezi isanu. Koma timamupatsa chizolowezi chogona kumeneko nthawi yogona.

Munasankha bwanji dzina lake loyamba?

Laetitia Milot: Ndi chisankho chovuta kwambiri! Pamene ndinali ndi pakati, tinali ndi bukhu ndipo usiku uliwonse tinali kuwerenga kalata. Tinafika ku ward ya amayi ndi mndandanda wafupipafupi wa mayina 5 oyambirira. Ambiri amayamba ndi "l". Pambuyo pa masiku atatu, tinauzidwa kuti kubadwa kuyenera kulengezedwa. Mudzachitcha chiyani? Kumeneko, cholakwika chachikulu! Tidatero Liyana. Koma popeza tidatha kusintha mpaka mphindi yomaliza, tinafunsa aliyense kuti atiuze maganizo awo… Ndimakonda nambala 5, kotero dzina loyamba likanakhala ndi zilembo 5! Anali Lyana yemwe tinamusankha.

Badri ndi ndani?

M’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, atate anali chitsanzo chabwino. Pambuyo pa opaleshoni, zimakhala zowawa, simungathe kudzuka ... Badri anasamba koyamba, anamusamalira Lyana, anamubweretsa pa bere langa, anagona nafe m'chipatala! Ngakhale kunyumba, amasamalira kwambiri. Ndife banja lenileni. Timadzipanga tokha ndi madongosolo athu. Webmaster, amagwira ntchito kunyumba, koma kuyambira pomwe adabadwa adayika desiki yake pambali kuti ayang'ane pa Lyana!

Mudawombera gawo lachiwiri la kanema "Mwana wa Khrisimasi" atabadwa ...

Anali ndi miyezi itatu. Kujambula kunatenga masiku 3 mu Ogasiti ku Chamonix. Banja lonse linatsatira. Nditanyamuka mamawa Lyana anagona ndipo nditabwela nayenso anagona. Adanditsimikizira Badri, adanditumizira zithunzi ndipo adamva mawu anga pafoni, nayenso amabwera kudzandiona pa set nthawi ndi nthawi. Sitizindikira kuti tingawasowe bwanji tikapanda kuwawona kwa ola limodzi!

Khalidwe lake ndi lotani?

Lyana akumwetulira kwambiri. Monga agogo ake ndi ine, zikuwoneka, kuyambira m'mawa mpaka usiku akuseka 🙂! Adakhazikitsa chikhulupiriro pakati pa iye ndi ife. Iye ndi wodekha kwambiri. Komanso kuyankha kwambiri. Akandiwona ndikunyamula mpango, akumwetulira. Akudziwa kuti tiyenda! Amatizindikira, amamvetsetsa dzina lake loyamba, amatembenuka tikamutcha. Ndizodabwitsa.

Kodi mwambo wanu wa kugona ndi wotani?

Timakhazikitsa machitidwe ang'onoang'ono. Ndinamuika mu chisa chake cha angelo, ino ndi mphindi ya nkhani. Nditseka chikwama chogona, ndi nthawi yoti ndigone. Ndili ndi bukhu lalikulu la nkhani zakale ndipo ndimawerenga masamba 4 usiku uliwonse. Ndikamuimbira “Nyimbo Yokoma,” amadziŵa kuti yatsala pang’ono kugona. Ndimakonda mphindi ino, kuti ndimugoneke.

Nchifukwa chiyani munkafuna kulankhula za endometriosis yanu?

Ndinasungulumwa pang’ono. Timakhulupilira kuti ndife tokha okhudzidwa. Kwa zaka 10, atolankhani ankaumirira kwambiri kuti adziwe pamene mudzakhala ndi mwana. Zinandipweteka. Tsiku lina, Badri anatsogolera mwa kuuza mtolankhani kuti: “Imani, chifukwa Laetitia ali ndi endometriosis! Ndipo ndinatenga ulamuliro. Munali mu 2013. Tinalandira makalata ambirimbiri. Azimayi ambiri amavutika kuposa ine komanso amakhala chete. Ndinakhudzidwa mtima. Amayi 3 mpaka 6 miliyoni ali ndi nkhawa ku France. Bungwe la EndoFrance * linkafuna wina woti alankhule za nkhaniyi ndikuthandizira kupeza mayankho. Chifukwa Lyana alipo, ndimalimbana kwambiri kuti ndipeze mayankho. Azimayi onsewa safuna kwenikweni kukhala ndi mwana, koma safunanso kuvutika. Zikupita!

(*) Laëtitia Milot wakhala mulungu wa bungwe la EndoFrance kuyambira 2014.

Kodi mwaganiza zokhala ndi mwana?

Kulera, IVF, ... tidaziganizira, inde. Koma tinapatsana nthawi. Ndiyenera kuti ndinamva ... Ndinanenanso kwa mnzako wina wochokera ku Téléstar mu January 2017: "Nditenga mimba chaka chino". Lyana ndi mphatso yochokera kumwamba!

Mafunso pa September 13, 2018