Anthu amakhala pakati pa anthu. Ngati simuganizira za hermits ndi amalinyero osungulumwa, nthawi zambiri munthu amakhala atazunguliridwa ndi abwenzi, achibale, ogwira nawo ntchito komanso ongodutsa. Munthawi ya kutopa kwapadera, timalota titakhala tokha chete, koma tikangosiyana ndi okondedwa athu, timalakalaka kusungulumwa. N’chifukwa chiyani timadzizungulira ndi anthu?
Anthu ambiri amadziwa mfundo yokondedwa ndi akatswiri odziwa zachipatala: "Munthu amabadwa yekha ndipo amamwalira yekha." Mwachiwonekere, poganiza za izo, muyenera kudzimva kusungulumwa kwambiri, kutsekedwa mwaumwini wanu komanso udindo waukulu. Koma ngati mumaganiziradi, muyenera kunena moona mtima kuti ichi ndi chithunzithunzi chomwe sichikugwirizana ndi zenizeni.
Ngakhale asanabadwe, munthu amakhala m’mimba mwa mayi modalirana movutikira ndi machitidwe ake onse. Ndipo amayi ake nthawi yomweyo amakhalabe pagulu. Pa nthawi yobereka, mzamba, dokotala, ndipo nthawi zina achibale amakhalapo. Komanso, munthu amafera m'chipatala kapena kunyumba, koma pafupifupi nthawi zonse pakati pa anthu, kupatula nthawi zina.
M’moyo, kusungulumwa kulinso chinthu chongopeka osati chenicheni. Komanso, ngati tidzifunsa funso lofunika kwambiri pamene “ine” wanga amathera ndi ena ayambira, sitingathe kuyankha. Aliyense wa ife amalukidwa mumagulu ovuta a maubwenzi akuthupi, zakudya, zachuma, zamagulu, zamaganizo ndi zina zosiyanasiyana.
Ubongo wathu umangowoneka ngati chiwalo cha thupi, kwenikweni ndizovuta, zomwe zimaphunzira nthawi zonse. Ili ndi chikhalidwe komanso chikhalidwe chochulukirapo kuposa biology ndi physiology. Kuwonjezera apo, ululu wa malo a munthu m'dongosolo la chikhalidwe cha anthu kapena kusagwirizana mu maubwenzi apamtima ndi amphamvu mofanana ndi ululu wakuthupi wokhudzana ndi kusapeza bwino kwa thupi.
Ndipo chisonkhezero chathu champhamvu ndicho kutsanzira. Tiyeni tione zitsanzo ziwiri. Chojambula cha m’nkhalango yamiyala, chimene chinati chaka chatha matani 5 a zinthu zakale zakale anachotsedwa m’malo osungiramo zinthu zakalewa, chinangosonkhezera odzaona malo kutenga zochulukira: “Pajatu, amatero!”
Kuyesera kunachitika: anthu okhala m'chigawo chimodzi adafunsidwa poyera chomwe chingawapangitse kugwiritsa ntchito magetsi mosamala kwambiri: kusamalira chilengedwe, kusunga ndalama zawo, kapena kudziwa kuti anansi awo akuchita izi. Mayankho anali osiyana, koma anansi anafika pomalizira pake.
Kenaka, mapepalawa anatumizidwa kwa aliyense ndi pempho loti asunge magetsi, ndipo chimodzi mwa zifukwa zitatuzi chinasonyezedwa. Ndipo mukuganiza kuti zidakhala bwanji titayezera kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zenizeni? Ndiko kulondola, omwe anansi awo akuyenera kuti adawasamalira adapambana ndi malire.
M’pofunika kwambiri kuti tikhale ngati anthu ena onse. Ichi ndi chifukwa chake ambiri amatembenukira ku chithandizo chamaganizo pamene akumva kuti akuchoka pa chithunzi chovomerezeka cha momwe ena amachitira. Ndipo kawirikawiri, nthawi zambiri amabwera kudzathetsa mavuto a ubale. "Sindingathe kumanga ubale" ndilo pempho lofala kwambiri la akazi. Ndipo amuna nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi vuto posankha maubwenzi akale ndi atsopano.
Zimangowoneka kwa ife kuti tikudzisamalira - nthawi zambiri timayang'anira malo athu m'dongosolo. Chitsanzo china cha mmene chilengedwe chimakhudzira khalidwe lathu. Kusanthula kuchuluka kwa deta kunawonetsa kuti kupambana kwa cholinga chathu chosiya kusuta kumadalira mwachindunji osati kokha ngati mabwenzi amasiya kusuta, komanso amakhudzidwa ndi mabwenzi a mabwenzi omwe sitidziwa kanthu.