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Munthu amene ali m’chikondi chokhota amayembekezera zambiri kuchokera ku “chinthu cholambiridwa” ndipo safuna zochepa kwa iye.
Kufunafuna chikondi choyenera
Mwamuna yemwe ali m'chikondi choyenera amapanga zofuna poyamba kwa inu nokhaosati kwa wokondedwa.
Ndili ndi udindo kwa ine ndekha. Momwe ine ndimakhalira, momwe ine ndimakukonderani inu, momwe ine ndimachitira chinachake kwa inu…Ndizo zonse. ndiri nazo zanga kwa ine ndekha, koma osati kwa inu;
Kodi wokondedwayo amachita bwanji, amachita chilichonse chomwe ndimaona kuti ndiyenera kuchita? Sindingaganize za izi, ndidzichotsa mwachidziwitso pa zomwe ndimamukonda. Kodi wokondedwayo azichita 100%, 80% kapena 30% - sindikuyang'ana. Ntchito ya wokondedwa ndi chabe KUKHALA. Ndikokwanira kuti ndidziwe kuti NDI.
Ndikudziwa kuti mumandikonda ndendende momwe mungathere. Ndikudziwa, ndikuwona kuti mukuzifuna, kuti mukuzifuna. Ndiyeno - mafunso a thanzi, chikhalidwe, maganizo, kutopa, etc. Ntchito yanga ndi kukuthandizani. Koma sindingathe kukuyesani ndikukuyesani. Izi nzolakwika kwenikweni, ndipo sindidzifunsa mafunso oterowo.
Pali kuwunika kumodzi kokha ndi kulondola: wokondedwa sayenera kuwoloka malire ena otsika.
Ngati wokondedwa ayamba kumwa mowa, kuyankhula zaphokoso kapena zotukwana, ndiye kuti izi sindimakonda. Wokondedwa ali ndi ntchito imodzi - kukhalabe yekha, yomwe ndikudziwa kale ndikuikonda. Osasintha nokha, musagwere pamlingo wina. Ndizofunikira. Koma ndizo zonse. Onani →
Chikondi chimene chimakula kuchokera ku chiyani
Chikondi chamtundu wanji - zimatengera zomwe zimayambira: physiology kapena chikhalidwe, malingaliro kapena malingaliro, moyo wathanzi ndi wolemera - kapena wosungulumwa komanso wodwala ... ndi zotheka ndi zofera chikhulupiriro.
Chikondi choyenera chili m’kusamalira amene ali moyo, osati kulira kwa amene wapita ndi amene watayika. Munthu amene ali m’chikondi choyenera amadzifunira yekha zofuna zake, osati kwa wokondedwa wake.
Chikondi-ndimafuna nthawi zambiri chimakula kuchokera ku chilakolako chogonana. Chikondi chodwala pafupifupi nthawi zonse chimakula chifukwa chokondana kwambiri, chikondi chimakhala chowawa, nthawi zina chimakwiriridwa ndi kukhudza kwachikondi.
Chikondi cha aliyense wa ife ndi chiwonetsero cha umunthu wathu, ndipo wamba wathu kwa anthu ndi moyo, chitukuko cha maganizo athu makamaka chimatsimikizira mtundu ndi chikhalidwe cha chikondi chathu. Onani →