1. Kudzuka molawirira.
Anthu ochita bwino amakhala odzuka koyambirira. Nthawi yamtendere imeneyi mpaka kudzutsidwa kwa dziko lonse lapansi ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri, lolimbikitsa komanso lamtendere la tsikulo. Amene anapeza chizoloŵezichi amanena kuti sanakhale ndi moyo wokhutiritsa kufikira pamene anayamba kudzuka 5 koloko m’mawa tsiku lililonse.
2. Kuwerenga mwachidwi.
Ngati mutasintha mbali ina yakukhala kutsogolo kwa TV kapena kompyuta popanda cholinga ndi kuwerenga mabuku othandiza komanso abwino, mudzakhala munthu wophunzira kwambiri pakati pa anzanu. Mupeza zambiri ngati mwazokha. Pali mawu odabwitsa a Mark Twain: "Munthu amene samawerenga mabuku abwino alibe phindu kuposa munthu wosawerenga."
3. Kupeputsa.
Kutha kufewetsa kumatanthauza kuchotsa zosafunikira kuti zofunikira zithe kuyankhula. Ndikofunikira kutha kufewetsa chilichonse chomwe chingathe komanso choyenera kukhala chosavuta. Izi zimathetsanso zopanda pake. Ndipo kuzimitsa sikophweka - zimatengera kuchita zambiri komanso diso loyenera. Koma njirayi imachotsa kukumbukira ndi kumverera kosafunika, komanso kumachepetsa maganizo ndi nkhawa.
4. Pang'onopang'ono.
Ndizosatheka kusangalala ndi moyo m'malo otanganidwa nthawi zonse, kupsinjika ndi chipwirikiti. Muyenera kupeza nthawi yachete nokha. Chepetsani ndikumvera mawu anu amkati. Chenjerani ndi kutchera khutu ku zinthu zofunika. Ngati mutha kukhala ndi chizolowezi chodzuka molawirira, ino ikhoza kukhala nthawi yoyenera. Iyi idzakhala nthawi yanu - nthawi yopuma mozama, kulingalira, kusinkhasinkha, kulenga. Pang'onopang'ono ndipo chilichonse chomwe mukuchithamangitsa chidzakupezani.
5. Kuphunzitsa.
Kusachita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumawononga thanzi la munthu aliyense, pomwe kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumakuthandizani kuti mukhalebe. Amene amaganiza kuti alibe nthawi yochita masewera olimbitsa thupi adzafunika kupeza nthawi yodwala. Thanzi lanu ndi zomwe mwakwaniritsa. Pezani pulogalamu yanu - mutha kuchita masewera osachoka kunyumba kwanu (mapulogalamu apanyumba), komanso opanda umembala wa masewera olimbitsa thupi (mwachitsanzo, kuthamanga).
6. Zoyeserera zatsiku ndi tsiku.
Pali mfundo yakuti: munthu akamachita zinthu mochuluka, m’pamenenso amapambana. Kodi zinangochitika mwangozi? Mwayi ndi pomwe chizolowezi chimakumana ndi mwayi. Talente singakhale ndi moyo popanda maphunziro. Komanso, luso silifunikira nthawi zonse - luso lophunzitsidwa bwino limatha kuloŵa m'malo mwake.
7. Chilengedwe.
Ichi ndi chizolowezi chofunika kwambiri. Idzafulumizitsa kupambana kwanu monga china chilichonse. Kukuzungulirani ndi anthu owuziridwa ndi malingaliro, chidwi komanso positivity ndiye chithandizo chabwino kwambiri. Apa mupeza malangizo othandiza, ndi kukankha kofunikira, ndi chithandizo chopitilira. Kuwonjezera pa kugwiritsidwa mwala ndi kupsinjika maganizo, nchiyani chimene chidzagwirizanitsidwa ndi anthu amene apitirizabe kugwira ntchito imene amadana nayo? Titha kunena kuti mulingo wa zomwe mungachite m'moyo wanu umagwirizana mwachindunji ndi zomwe mwakwaniritsa mdera lanu.
8. Sungani buku lothokoza.
Chizolowezichi chimagwira ntchito zodabwitsa. Khalani othokoza pazomwe muli nazo kale ndipo yesetsani kuchita zabwino. Onetsetsani kuti mwa kufotokoza cholinga chanu m'moyo, kudzakhala kosavuta kwa inu "kudziwa" mwayi. Kumbukirani: ndi chiyamiko chimabwera chifukwa chochuluka chosangalalira.
9. Khalani wolimbikira.
Ndi banki ya 303 yokha yomwe idavomereza kupereka Walt Disney thumba kuti apeze Disneyland. Zinatenga zithunzi zoposa miliyoni imodzi kwa zaka 35 kuti Steve McCarrey "The Afghan Girl" asafanane ndi da Vinci's Mona Lisa. Ofalitsa 134 anakana Msuzi wa Nkhuku wa J. Canfield ndi Mark W. Hansen wa Soul asanakhale wogulitsa kwambiri. Edison adayesa kuyesa 10000 kuti apange babu. Mwaona dongosolo?