Tchuthi cha jenda pa Marichi 8, ndipo ndi February 14, chakhala nthawi yayitali yopumula ndikusangalala kukhala chowiringula cha mikangano ndi kukhumudwa. Chikondi sichikwanira kwa aliyense komanso nthawi zonse, koma masiku ano kusowa kukukulirakulira, amayi akuyembekezera mawonetseredwe ake makamaka mwamphamvu. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Elena Mkrtychan akuwuzani momwe mungasinthire maganizo anu pa tchuthi.
Zikuwoneka kuti akazi akudziwa bwino kuti izi ndi misonkhano: za St. Valentine, komanso za Clara Zetkin ndi Rosa Luxembourg, komabe sangathe kuyembekezera kutsimikiziridwa kuti akufunikira, okondedwa, ofunidwa, osaiwalika. Ndipo ngati satero, moni, okhumudwa komanso okhumudwa. Kusowa kwa chikondi sikumadzazidwa, kumverera, osazindikira nthawi zonse, ndi motere: "ngakhale lero sangachite chinthu chosangalatsa", "ngakhale lero sindikumva kukondedwa."
Padziko lonse chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo chachikulu, kuntchito, tulips osatsegulidwa obiriwira amaperekedwa pakati, koma izi zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zowawa kwambiri. Monga mukudziwira, kusungulumwa koipitsitsa ndi kusungulumwa pakati pa anthu. Ngati, mwachitsanzo, woyandikana nawo, wogulitsa wodziwika bwino m'sitolo, ndipo aliyense wodutsa akhoza kuyamika Chaka Chatsopano, ndiye pakati pa February ndi kumayambiriro kwa March, akazi akuyembekezera zabwino kuchokera kwa amuna, ndi kwa iwo amakhala ndi malo ofunika kwambiri pamoyo wawo.
Koma mwamuna zinthu jenda ndi mawu akuti «ayenera» mu ubwenzi nthawi zonse amalephera. Zimakwiyitsa, kukanidwa, kuopa kusakwaniritsa zoyembekeza, kutsutsidwa ndi funso: "Chifukwa chiyani ndili ndi ngongole?"
Iwo likukhalira, ndipo sanayamikire - kulasa, ndipo anayamikira - akadali zoipa
Ambiri aiwo amatha kupereka maluwa kwa akazi awo kapena bwenzi lawo monga choncho, kugula mphatso mwachisawawa kapena kuyankha kuchenjezedwa za mphete yomwe amakonda ... mayeso, amagwa mu chibwibwi.
Komanso, vutoli likhoza kuchitika m'njira zosiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna anayamikira, koma mochedwa ndi zikomo (iye ali chibwibwi, ndi zovuta kwa iye) - mkazi wosasangalala. Mwamunayo anapanga mphatso, koma sanaganize bwino ndi chisankho (abwenzi anzeru amapanga mndandanda wa zofuna pasadakhale), - tchuthi chake chawonongeka. Mwamunayo sanayamikire konse - adafotokoza zonse zomwe akuganiza, kukumbukira maholide am'mbuyo ndi madandaulo akale.
Ndipo, potsiriza, mwamunayo anachita zonse bwino: pa nthawi, ndi maluwa, ndi mphatso ndi kupsompsona, koma iye amachita motere: "Chabwino, ndithudi, lero ndi March 8, iye anali wokakamizika, iye analibe poti apite. , sanafune kuthamangira mkangano wowonekera", "maluwa a ntchito", "mizimu yantchito" ndi zina zotero. Iwo likukhalira, ndipo sanayamikire - iye anapyoza, ndipo anayamikira - akadali zoipa.
Chowonadi ndi chakuti maholidewa, m'malo motsitsa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, amayambitsa mkwiyo, kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa.
Ziwembuzi sizichokera kumutu, koma kuchokera ku machitidwe. Chifukwa zili kwa akatswiri a zamaganizo kuti athane ndi zotsatira za kukondwerera Tsiku la Valentine ndi Tsiku la Akazi Padziko Lonse, ndipo zotsatirazi zimachitika mwa makasitomala a amuna ndi akazi. Kwa ena, kuvutika maganizo kumapitirira pasadakhale, kwa ena pambuyo pa tchuthi.
Sizikudziwika bwino yemwe ali ovuta kwambiri: omwe ali pachibwenzi, kapena osakwatiwa, omwe angoyamba kumene kudziwana ndi bwenzi lake, kapena omwe adasiyana naye, ndipo posachedwa. Zoyipa kwa aliyense. Chowonadi ndi chakuti maholidewa, m'malo motsitsa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, amayambitsa mkwiyo, kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa.
Zotani ndi zonsezi? Ndikupangira kusewera maholide a okonda ndi tsiku la amayi, osawaganizira mozama. Monga mukudziwira, Tsiku la Valentine limakondwerera mwachidwi ku America, komwe woyera mtima wodzichepetsa wa ku Ulaya wasinthidwa kukhala woimira wina wa misa, ma postcard pop chikhalidwe.
Ku US, ili ndi tchuthi lenileni la akulu. Ndipo apa ndi otchuka makamaka pakati pa ana ndi achinyamata. Kwa iwo, ili ndi tsiku la zolemba, ndipo ngakhale atsikana ndi aphunzitsi amalemberana zolemba. Ndipo miyambo yonseyi imawoneka yofanana ndi kuphunzitsa mafotokozedwe amalingaliro enieni. Ndipo achichepere amachita chinthu choyenera, chimene amaphunzitsa, kupanga malingaliro awo alionse, kuphatikizapo chifundo ndi mabwenzi.
Koma ngakhale kwa ana, ngakhale akuluakulu, kuti akhazikitse kudzikonda kwawo pazinthu zopanda pake za tchuthi chopanda pake monga "valentines", ndithudi, ndizolakwika komanso zoopsa. Chimodzi mwa kusiyana kwakukulu pakati pa maganizo a ku Russia ndi njira ya Kumadzulo kwa kuganiza ndikuti ku United States pali chizindikiro chomveka bwino, chomwe chimayang'ana pa zikhumbo zonse za moyo - izi ndizopambana, kupambana, ubwino wakunja.
M'mabanja aku America, kangapo patsiku, amatsimikizirana kuti: "Ndimakukondani." Choncho anavomera. Koma zimenezo sizimawapangitsa kukhala opanda vuto.
Pali zizindikiro zingapo za maloto aku America: ntchito, ndalama, banja lomwe mamembala awo kangapo patsiku amatsimikizirana kuti: "Ndimakukondani." Choncho anavomera. Ndikhoza kunena kuti ali ndi mavuto ochepa a m'banja chifukwa cha izi. Kumbali ina, anthu ambiri amakakamizika kusiya kufunafuna okha, kutsatira zochitika zovomerezeka, kotero kuti, Mulungu aletsa, asapeze manyazi a "wotayika" kuchokera kwa anthu.
Chifukwa chake, chimodzi mwazizindikiro zovomerezeka zopambana ndi kuchuluka kwa zikomo zomwe zidalandilidwa pa February 14. Ngati palibe m'modzi, zinthu ndi zoyipa kwambiri: simungapindule chifundo, simungathe kudzipereka ndikudzigulitsa nokha! Njira yonyenga imene ingatchedwe kupusa ngati mtundu wonse sunavutike nayo.
March 8 ndi nkhani ina. Ili ndi tchuthi lalikulu la boma la Soviet, lokhazikitsidwa "kuchokera kumwamba", pafupifupi mokakamiza. Tchuthi pamene mabwana akuyamikiridwa ndi mphatso yayikulu, ndi alembi ndi yaing'ono, ngakhale chikhalidwe chawo sichimawapangitsa kukhala akazi ochepa kapena ochulukirapo.
Yakwana nthawi yoti mugonjetse kupotoza kwa mbiri yonseyi, osachepera m'malingaliro anu, osayika maubwenzi anu ndi dziko lanu lauzimu ku mayeso a tchuthi, musawapangitse iwo kudalira nthawi yake ndi mtengo wa mphatso, mverani chisoni pang'ono. amuna omwe, ataphimbidwa ndi mawanga ofiira, akuyesa chinachake kuchokera kwa alangizi mu sitolo ya zovala zamkati.
Tikumbukire kuti chikondi chenicheni sichimadikirira nthawi yapadera kuti iwonetsedwe kapena kutsimikiziridwa. Tsiku la Valentine si tchuthi cha chikondi chokha, mtima wofiira si chizindikiro chake, chifukwa m'moyo chikondi sichiri chidole. Ma aesthetics a Tsiku la Valentine si zokongola za chikondi, koma zowonetseratu. Ndipo pa Marichi 8 sikuti ndi tchuthi chambiri chaukazi, koma kulimbana kwa amayi kuti akhale ndi ufulu wofanana ndi amuna pakupanga komanso maboma.
Ndikukulangizani mwamphamvu kuti muyambe kuchitapo kanthu ndikusangalala ndi masiku ano mokwanira. Musakhale chete podikirira, koma sewerani pa chikondi ndi kuyang'ana pa chisangalalo cha kufotokoza zakukhosi kwanu, osati kuwerengera zovomereza za anthu ena.