Kambuku Wamng'ono wakhumudwa, Major Payne amamusokoneza ku malingaliro achisoni.
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Tatyana Rozova analemba kuti: “Ndinakumbukira mmene mayi anga ananditsitsimutsa nditakhumudwa pazifukwa zina. Tinakhala pansi, kukambirana kwa nthawi yochepa, ndipo amayi anga anandipatsa ine, mwachitsanzo, kuti ndisenda mbatata - amati, chakudya chamadzulo chiyenera kuphikidwa, kotero titatha kusenda masamba, tidzakambirana zambiri. Kapena tinapita kukatola zipatso za compote - akutsanulira kale, tidzakambirana pamenepo. Ndipo kuntchito, mwanjira ina, zokambirana zinali zitabwerera kumbuyo, ndipo chisokonezocho chinapita kwinakwake. Kawirikawiri, njira yabwino yochotsera maganizo oipa ndiyo kukhala otanganidwa. Ndipo amayi anga ankawoneka kuti akudziwa bwino izi ... "
Mwanzeru. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, makolo odziwa ntchito amagwiritsa ntchito njira zosalunjika zomwe zimasokoneza maganizo a mwanayo, komanso omasuka komanso olunjika. Chosavuta: “Konzani nkhope yanu. Ngati mukufuna kulankhula, ndisangalala, koma palibe aliyense m’banja mwathu amene amalankhula ndi munthu woteroyo. Pa nthawi yomweyi, n'zoonekeratu kuti mwanayo akangochotsa nkhope yokhumudwa, theka la malingaliro ake okhumudwa nawonso adzachoka. Mofananamo, gulu lodziwika bwino la mtundu wa ana aang'ono kwambiri: "Chabwino, pamene ulira, sindikumvetsa zomwe ukunena. Siyani kulira, khalani pansi, ndiye tikambirana, nditha kukuthandizani!
Kutengeka maganizo ndi mtundu wa khalidwe, ndipo ngati makolo ali oyenerera kulamulira mwachindunji khalidwe la mwanayo, angathenso kulamulira mwachindunji maganizo ake.
Izi sizikugwira ntchito pamalingaliro okhazikika, omwe si mtundu wa khalidwe ndipo sangathe kulamulidwa mwachindunji.
M’banja limene makolo ali ndi mphamvu, makolo angathe kulamulira maganizo a ana awo komanso khalidwe lina lililonse.
Nthawi zina simungathe kuchita popanda chilolezo - monga momwe zomverera zina sizingachitike popanda chilolezo (mwachitsanzo, popanda chilolezo cholira pamene chidole cha wina chinachotsedwa kwa inu).
Nthawi zina muyenera kusiya kusewera, kuvala ndi kupita ndi makolo anu - monganso nthawi zina muyenera kusiya kulira, kumwetulira ndi kupita kukathandiza amayi anu.
Kusintha maganizo.
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Nkhani yaikulu ya kulera koteroko si luso la kulamulira makamaka maganizo a mwanayo, koma kukhoza kulamulira khalidwe lake mwa mfundo. Ngati mwana wanu sakuyankha pamene mukumuyitana, simungathe kulamulira maganizo ake, chifukwa mwanayo amapeza kuti n'zotheka kukunyalanyazani. Ngati mwakwaniritsa kuti mwana wanu amakumverani, mukhoza kutenga udindo wa malingaliro ake, kukulitsa chikhalidwe cha malingaliro ake.
Mungamuphunzitse mmene angathanirane ndi zolakwa zake (musalire kapena kudzidzudzula, koma pitani mukakonze), mmene angachitire ndi zimene ziyenera kuchitidwa (pitani ndi kukachita), mmene mungathanirane ndi mavuto (kudzithandiza nokha. , konzekerani chithandizo nokha ndikuchita zomwe mungathe), momwe mungachitire ndi okondedwa - ndi chidwi ndi kufunitsitsa kuthandiza.
Lena anakhumudwa
Mbiri ya moyo. Lena adasunga ndalama ndikudzigulira mahedifoni powalamula pa intaneti. Amawoneka - ndipo pali cholumikizira china, mahedifoni awa samakwanira foni yake. Anakhumudwa kwambiri, sanagwe misozi, koma anakangana ndi dziko lapansi komanso yekha. Amayi adanena kuti adakhala chete, kuti asadandaule ndikuganiza ngati zingatheke kugulitsa pulagi. Ndiko kuti: “Ukhoza kuda nkhawa, koma osati motalika kwambiri. Ndinali ndi nkhawa - tembenuzirani mutu wanu.
Chigamulo cha papa chinali chosiyana, ndicho: “Lena, tcheru: sungathe kudzikhumudwitsa. Siyani kutero, bwererani m’maganizo mwanu. Muyenera kuthetsa vutolo. Bwanji? Mutha kubwera nazo nokha, mutha kulumikizana nafe. Kodi pali kumveka kulikonse? Awa ndi malangizo atatu. Choyamba ndi kuletsa kudzivulaza. Chachiwiri ndi udindo wotembenuza mutu. Chachitatu ndi chilangizo cha kulankhula ndi makolo pamene sakupeza njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli. Total: sitikhala pansi, koma kupereka malangizo ndi kulamulira kukhazikitsa.