Timamvetsetsa ndi Sabine Duflo, katswiri wazamisala komanso wothandizila mabanja, wolemba "Pamene zowonetsera zimakhala neurotoxic: tiyeni titeteze ubongo wa ana athu", ed. Marabout.
M'kalasi, pakati pa ana anali ndi chizolowezi chokopera CE1 mnansi wawo. M'masewera kapena pamasewera a board abanja, amasonkhanitsa mfundo zongoganiza ndikusintha malamulo amasewera kuti apindule. "N'zosadabwitsa kuti ana awa akungoyamba kumene kuganiza bwino ndipo akufuna kupambana ndikukhala opambana. Nthawi zambiri, iyi ndiye njira yosavuta yomwe angapeze kuti apeze chipambano! », Akutsimikizira Sabine Duflo.
Timayesetsa kumvetsa cholinga chake
"Mwana aliyense ali ndi chizoloŵezi champhamvu kwambiri chachinyengo, mwachibadwa", akufotokoza motero katswiri wa zamaganizo. Kuti timvetse zifukwa zake, timaona kuti akumvetsa nkhani imene imamuchititsa kuchita zimenezi. Mwina sangapirire kutaya. Mwinanso kuti sakudziwa kuti ayenera kulemekeza zopinga. Kapena kuti ali kale ndi mkwiyo wofuna kukhotetsa kapena kuswa malamulo? Ngati achita zoipa pamaso pa munthu yemweyo, ndithudi amadziona kuti ndi wochepa kwa mkaziyo. Koma ngati kuberako n’kwachikhalire, kumadzutsa khalidwe lachiwembu. Kenako amafuna kupha anthu amene akupikisana nawo komanso anthu olusa! Nthawi zina zimakhala zowawa, kulephera kumatsogolera ku zochitika za mantha, mkwiyo, ngakhale chiwawa. “Kawirikawiri, maganizo amenewa amasonyeza kusadzidalira komwe kumayenderana ndi kusadzidalira kapena, m’malo mwake, kudzidalira mopambanitsa, kumene n’kotheka kuyambiranso kuti chilemachi zisachitike. 'zimakulitsa', akutero katswiriyo.
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Timakonzanso popanda masewero
Ndi bwino "kukonzanso chinyengo kuti mudziwe kuti malamulo ayenera kulemekezedwa chifukwa cha ubwino wa onse," akulangiza Sabine Duflo. Kunyumba, tingamutsanzire monga mwana wokhumudwa kuti tibwererenso kwa iye chithunzi cha mmene amamvera akaluza pamasewerawo. Tingamukumbutsenso amene ali ndi ulamuliro ndipo, mosalekeza, kuteteza motsimikiza udindo wake. Zimadutsa m'mawu olimba mtima ndi manja omwe angamuwonetse zomwe zili zolondola komanso zopanda chilungamo, "kulimbana ndi kudzudzula kumangowonjezera kukhumudwa kwake kapena, m'malo mwake, kudzimva kuti ndi wamphamvuyonse", akutero katswiriyo. Tikhozanso kumusonyeza chitsanzo: kuluza mu masewero a bolodi si sewero. Tidzachita bwino nthawi ina, ndipo zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri! Kufikira tsiku limene mwanayo mwina adzagwira mawu a Coubertin mwiniwake kuti: “Chofunika ndicho kutengamo mbali! “