Mwana wanga agwira mbolo pagulu, nanga bwanji?

Amatulukira thupi lake

Kwa nthawi ndithu, atasamba, mwana wathu wamng’ono wakhala akusangalala kuyenda m’nyumba ali maliseche. Ndipo popeza iye savalanso thewera, amachoka kutulukira mpaka kutulukira. Amawoneka kuti amachita chidwi ndi mbolo yake ndipo amaigwira pafupipafupi. Kaya panyumba pali anthu kapena ayi, zilibe kanthu, iye akupitiriza ntchito yake. Mkhalidwe womwe nthawi zambiri umapangitsa makolo kukhala osamasuka, makamaka alendo akamaseka. "Pazaka ziwiri, ana ambiri amavalabe matewera ndipo alibe mwayi wowona kapena kugwira mbolo yawo. Onse amaliseche m'chilimwe, mwachitsanzo, mwanayo amatha kupeza thupi lake ndikumva chisangalalo chokhudza kudzikhudza yekha. Koma izi sizikutanthauza kuseweretsa maliseche, ”anachenjeza katswiri wa zamaganizo Harry Ifergan.

Buku lopita patsogolo pamutuwu ... "Zizis et Zézettes": kuchokera kuulemu kupita ku manyazi kapena kufuna kuseka, kuphatikizapo zosangalatsa ndi malingaliro oyambirira a ubwenzi, "P'tit Pourquoi" uyu amayankha mafunso onse a ana aang'ono. , mophweka komanso mwatsatanetsatane. Wolemba Jess Pauwels (Chithunzi) Camille Laurans (Wolemba). Milan Editions. Kuyambira zaka 3.

Mphunzitseni kudzichepetsa

Nthawi zambiri, kukhudza mbolo yake ndi nkhani yaing'ono kwa mwanayo. Amangochita chidwi ndi zomwe akuwona komanso zomwe mpaka nthawiyo zinali zobisika kuseri kwa bedi lake. Choncho m'malo wathanzi ndi zachilengedwe chidwi! Ndithudi, chimenecho si chifukwa chomulola kuti achite pamaso pa aliyense. Choncho timamufotokozera modekha kuti ndi iye yekha ndipo sayenera kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi ali maliseche pamaso pa ena, ngakhalenso kucheperapo kudzikhudza pamaso pawo. Ili ndi lamulo lovomerezeka kwa aliyense. Titha kumuuza kuti apite kuchipinda chake ngati akufuna kuti atulutse thupi lake mwakachetechete komanso osawonekera. M’zochitika zonse, ngakhale mkhalidwe utakhala wochititsa manyazi, timachita mosapambanitsa, popanda kum’kalipa, kapena kumkalipira kapena kumulanga. “Timapewa kulowererapo mwamphamvu kuti tisamayikire chizindikiro mwana. Timalankhula naye mofatsa komanso momasuka. Asaganize kuti zimene akuchitazo zimativutitsa kwambiri. Kupanda kutero, amaika pachiwopsezo ndikuipanga kukhala njira yowonjezera yowonetsera kutsutsa kwake kwa makolo ake, ”akupitilira Harry Ifergan. Tisaiwale kuti pa msinkhu uwu mwanayo ali pakati pa otsutsa!

Nanga bwanji ngati agwira anzake? Kodi wina akuti chiyani?

Ngati mwanayo akupitirizabe kudzigwira pagulu ngakhale kuti akufuna kusewera "pee-pee" ndi anzake a m'kalasi ku nazale kapena kusukulu, amafotokozedwanso kuti ndi thupi lake ndipo palibe amene ali nalo. ufulu wochikhudza. Momwemonso, matupi a zibwenzi nawonso amakhala achinsinsi. Sitikhudza maliseche. Ino ndi nthawi yomuthandiza kuzindikira kudzichepetsa, kulemekeza chinsinsi, kumuuza zomwe angathe kuchita kapena ayi. Tikhoza kuthandiza, ngati kuli kofunika, mabuku a ana okhudza nkhaniyo kum’fotokozera zonsezi m’mawu oyenera. Ngati sitipanga mochulukira koma tikhazikitsa malamulo kuyambira pachiyambi, iye adzazindikira kuti ali ndi ufulu wotulukira thupi lake m’malo oyenera, akakhala yekha. Zindikirani, komabe, kuti "malingaliro okondana" amapezedwa ali ndi zaka 9 kwa atsikana komanso zaka 11 kwa anyamata.

Siyani Mumakonda