«Palibe kuvala»: 7 zifukwa zazikulu za chikhalidwe ichi ndi mmene kuthana nawo

Izi zimachitika kwa mkazi aliyense nthawi ndi nthawi: m'mawa timayima kutsogolo kwa chipinda chotseguka ndipo sitikumvetsa zomwe tingavale. Pakusintha kwa nyengo zapachaka, “kusavala” kumakhala koipitsitsa kwambiri. Katswiri wamawonekedwe komanso osamala pogula Natalya Kazakova akuwonetsa zifukwa zisanu ndi ziwiri zomwe zimachitika mobwerezabwereza ndikuwuza momwe angathanirane nazo.

1. "Zovala zachibwibwi"

Mutaphunzira mosamala zovala zanu, mutha kumvetsetsa kuti zambiri zomwe zilimo ndizofanana, zing'onozing'ono zokha zimasintha. Monga lamulo, ndikaitanidwa kuti ndifufuze zovala, mu chipinda cha kasitomala ndimapeza mathalauza akuda a 5-6, ma jeans a 3-6 omwe amawoneka ngati madontho awiri amadzi ofanana, kapena chingwe chosatha. madiresi amtundu womwewo.

Tiyerekeze kuti chinthu chilichonse ndi mawu enieni omwe amakufotokozerani. Mwachitsanzo, ma jeans ndi "omasuka", mathalauza akuda ndi "oletsedwa", siketi ndi "yachikazi", sweti ndi "yomasuka". Pa nthawi yomweyo, mtundu uliwonse wa mankhwala, mtundu wake ndi kalembedwe adzakhala ndi mawu ake. Mukakhala mulibe chobvala m’mawa, zovala zanu zimaoneka kuti zilibe mawu oyenerera osonyeza mmene mukumvera. Kapena, m'chinenero cha zovala, mitundu yoyenera, masitayelo, tsatanetsatane.

Ndipo chifukwa chachikulu ndicho chibwibwi cha zovala. Pali zinthu zambiri, koma palibe kusiyanasiyana kwamitundu kapena kalembedwe. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti chithunzi chilichonse ndi mbiri yosweka. “Kupanda kuvala” kumatanthauza kuti zovala zanu sizitha kusonyeza mkhalidwe wamaganizo umene mukukhala nawo pakali pano. Moyo umakhala wotopetsa: timawona mbali imodzi yokha ya ife tokha, kukana mawonetseredwe ena. Ndipo chifukwa chaukadaulo ndi kusowa kwa chidziwitso cha stylistic ndi nthawi yoyesera m'sitolo.

2. Moyo ndi kusalingana kwa zovala

Chitsanzo chowoneka bwino cha kusalinganika koteroko chingapezeke mu zovala za mkazi yemwe ankagwira ntchito mu ofesi, ndiyeno anapita ku tchuthi cha amayi oyembekezera ndipo sakudziwabe za kusintha kwa moyo wake. 60% ya zovala zake zimakhalabe ndi zinthu zaofesi, 5-10% ya zinthu zapakhomo, 30% ya zinthu zabwino zokhazokha, zogulidwa mwangozi, mofulumira. Ndipo izi ngakhale kuti mkaziyu amathera 60% ya nthawi yake kunyumba, 30% pa kuyenda ndi mwana, ndipo 10% yokha ya nthawi amasankhidwa kwa zochitika ndi misonkhano popanda mwana.

Zinthu zitha kukhala zosiyana, koma tanthauzo lake ndilofanana: njira yamoyo ndi yosiyana kwambiri ndi kuthekera kwa zovala. Mwinamwake, mu nkhani iyi, munthu sangathe kuvomereza moyo wake weniweni ndikukhala m'dziko lina, "lofuna". Kusiyanitsa pakati pa "kufuna" ndi "kudya" kumabweretsanso zovuta mu zovala.

3. Kupanda zolinga

Kupanda zolinga m'moyo kumabweretsa kugula zinthu zambiri mopupuluma. Zonse ndi kusayang'ana pa cholinga china. M'malo mopeza chithunzi changwiro, pamene chinthu chimodzi mu zovala chimakwaniritsa china, ndipo palimodzi amapanga zithunzi zonse, pali chisokonezo chonse.

4. Kuchepetsa zikhulupiriro za umphawi

Ambiri aife tinakulira m’nthaŵi ya kusoŵa kotheratu, ndipo m’mabanja ambiri chinali chizoloŵezi kusunga ndalama pa chilichonse. Agogo athu aakazi ndi agogo athu ankaganizira kwambiri za momwe angadyetse ana awo kusiyana ndi kuvala iwo. Iwo ankavala zovala kumabowo, kusinthidwa ndi kuvala. Ndipo adaperekanso malangizo oti zinthu zitetezedwe ndipo zisatayidwe.

Chotsatira chake, kwa amayi ambiri, kutaya chinthu kumakhala, pamtunda wosazindikira, mofanana ndi kusakhulupirika miyambo, malamulo kapena zikhalidwe zomwe zimaperekedwa kuchokera ku mibadwomibadwo.

5. "Nangula" wamalingaliro

“Ndinagula siketi iyi pamene ndinapita ku Prague monga wophunzira, sindingathe kuitaya! Adadandaula m'modzi mwamakasitomala anga panthawi yowunika zovala. Ngakhale kuti siketiyo yataya mawonekedwe ake. Chilichonse pakugwiritsa ntchito kwake chimasonkhanitsa malingaliro ndi kukumbukira. Ndiye phiri la zikumbukiroli lili ndi kulemera kwakufa m'makabati, kutsekereza mwayi wopezeka mwatsopano komanso kuphatikiza.

6. Phindu lachiwiri

Aakulu zinthu «chovala» nthawizonse amanyamula yachiwiri phindu. Mmodzi mwa ophunzira anga, pofufuza zikhulupiriro zokhudzana ndi zovala, anazindikira kuti n’kopindulitsa kwa iye kudandaula za kusowa kwa zinthu ndipo, motero, kuvala mosayenera, chifukwa ndiye amaona kuti ali ndi ufulu wofunsa makolo ndi mwamuna wake. kumuthandiza ndi ana kapena ntchito zapakhomo.

Ngati avala bwino ndipo, motero, ali ndi mzimu wapamwamba, sangathe kudzutsa chifundo, ndipo adzakanidwa chithandizo. Mu chithunzi chake cha dziko lapansi, ngati mkazi ali wokongola, wokonzeka bwino ndipo samadandaula za chirichonse, safuna chithandizo ndipo ayenera kulimbana ndi chirichonse yekha. Ndipo chikhulupiriro ichi chimadziwonetsera mu zovala.

7. Kusokonezeka ndi kusinthasintha

Ena aife timakonda kugwira zinthu zosiyanasiyana ndipo osabweretsa chilichonse mpaka kumapeto. Mwinamwake, mu zovala zathu mu nkhani iyi zidzakhala zotheka kupeza zinthu zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi chirichonse. N’chimodzimodzinso ndi anthu otengeka maganizo ndiponso amene ali ndi nkhawa. Pogula, akufunafuna mwayi wopeza mlingo wosangalatsa. Zowona, izi zimatha ndi kupsinjika kwambiri, chifukwa ndalamazo zimagwiritsidwanso ntchito, koma palibe zotsatira.

Masitepe asanu ndi limodzi kwa inu

Kodi kutsazikana ndi zimenezi kamodzi kwanthawizonse? M'pofunika kuchita zotsatirazi.

  1. Pangani chisankho chotseka funso la "chopanda kuvala", mukuyandikira mozindikira. Zindikirani kuti kwenikweni mukukonza osati zovala zokha, komanso maganizo ndi malingaliro. Lolani kuti musiye zakale ndikuloleza zina zatsopano.
  2. Ganizirani ndi kulemba nthawi yochuluka yomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito pamwezi (makamaka pamisonkhano yofunika ndi makasitomala), kupuma, kukumana ndi abwenzi, kuyenda ndi ana, masiku. Dziwani pafupifupi gawo. Malingana ndi izo, ndi bwino kupanga zovala.
  3. Lembani zolinga za miyezi isanu ndi umodzi mpaka chaka. Zikamveka bwino, mudzatha kumvetsetsa zomwe zingakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu, komanso zomwe zingakuchotseni. Zonse zimatengera momwe timamvera mu izi kapena zovala kapena fano. Zolinga zolondola kwambiri, m'pamenenso zimakhala zosavuta kudziwa kuti ndi zinthu ziti zomwe zikufunika kuti zitheke.
  4. Konzani zovala zanu. Khalani ndi nthawi yoyesera zinthu. Bwezeraninso nangula wamalingaliro omwe adasiyidwa pa iwo, chotsani chilichonse, kusiya kutengeka kwanu. Izi zikuthandizani kutsitsa zovala zanu kuchokera ku zovala zomwe zachikale kwa nthawi yayitali, koma zimakusungani m'maganizo. Ngati muli ndi zinthu zambiri, mutha kumaliza ntchitoyi pamaulendo angapo, kusankha gulu limodzi panthawi - mwachitsanzo, masiketi. Mukamayimba, muyenera kuganizira za kalembedwe ndi malingaliro a chinthucho.
  5. Jambulani zithunzi za zinthu zonse zomwe mukufuna kusiya. Pangani ma seti awo, nthawi iliyonse ndimadzifunsa ngati izi zingakuikeni mumkhalidwe womwe ungakuthandizeni kukwaniritsa cholinga chanu. Osayankha ndi malingaliro anu, koma ndi thupi lanu. Ngati chovala chomwe mwavala chimakupangitsani kukhala omasuka ndikumwetulira, ndiye kuti mumagunda diso la ng'ombe.
  6. Lembani mndandanda wa zinthu zofunika kugula kuti mupite kukagula nazo bwino, modekha komanso mozindikira.

Zovala zimawonetsa mkhalidwe wathu kuposa china chilichonse. Njira yachidziwitso komanso yokhazikika ya zovala zanu, kuphatikiza ndi malingaliro amkati kuti muthane ndi vutoli kamodzi mtsogolomu, zidzakupatsani mtendere wamumtima, zosangalatsa komanso kusunga nthawi. Zidzakupatsaninso chidaliro ndikukupatsani mwayi wowonetsa mbali zosiyanasiyana za umunthu wanu ndikupita ku zolinga zanu.

Siyani Mumakonda