Umaliseche pagombe: ana amaganiza chiyani?

Umaliseche: Mukonzekeretseni zomwe aziona

Banja lililonse latero ntchito zake zomwe zimagwirizana ndi maliseche komanso kudzichepetsa. Komabe, atangofika pamphepete mwa nyanja, mwanayo amangowona matupi "amaliseche". Ndi kubetcha kotetezeka kuti adzachita ndi "zida zanu": ngati muli odzichepetsa kwambiri, akhoza. kudabwa pang'ono; ngati muli omasuka mwina sangazindikire kalikonse. Ziyenera kunenedwa kuti masiku ano zithunzi zambiri zonyansa zimawonetsedwa pamakoma a mizinda yathu kapena pawailesi yakanema, zomwe zimathandizira kwambiri kuvomereza maliseche.

Komabe, mwanayo amadutsa magawo osiyanasiyana, malinga ndi msinkhu wake, wokhudzana ndi kupezeka kwa thupi lake ndi kugonana kwake.

Zaka 0-2: maliseche zilibe kanthu

Ana aang'ono kwambiri mpaka zaka 2, ana amawona matupi awo mwachibadwa ndipo amakonda kwambiri kuposa kuyenda "buluu". Iwo amakhala omasuka makamaka ndi chithunzi cha thupi lawo ndipo palibe funso, pa msinkhu uwu, kudzichepetsa kapena chiwonetsero.

Kotero iwo ali opanda chidwi konse ndi matupi omwe amawonekera mozungulira iwo. Safunsa mafunso, samazindikira yemwe ali ndi suti yosambira, yemwe amavula pamwamba, yemwe wavala chingwe ... Amasangalalanso kudzipeza ali maliseche, iwo ndi anzawo omwe akusewera nawo!

2-4 zaka: ali ndi chidwi

Amatsegula maso ake ngati mbale pamene mnansi wanu wochokera kumphepete mwa nyanja akuvula chovala chake chosambira. Adakufunsani mafunso chikwi mukawoloka gombe lachilengedwe lachilengedwe poyenda. Kuyambira zaka 2 kapena 3, mwanayo amadziwa kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi. Amafunsa mafunso ambiri, okhudzana ndi kugonana kwake komanso za ena: amayi kapena abambo, komanso bwanji mayi wamaliseche pamphepete mwa nyanja. Amapeza thupi lake, amadzisiyanitsa yekha pogonana komanso amapita kukapeza amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Amasangalalanso kwambiri podzionetsera ndi kuona ena.

Ichi ndichifukwa chake maliseche apafupi pamphepete mwa nyanja samamuvutitsa. M’malo mwake, zimam’thandiza kufotokoza zimene akumva, kapenanso kulankhula nkhaniyo mwachibadwa.

Yankhani chidwi chake mophweka momwe mungathere. Kaya mumavomereza kapena ayi, kaya mukuchita monokini kapena ayi, uwu ndi mwayi wofotokozera malingaliro anu pa nkhaniyi ndikuyika malamulo anu. Osachita manyazi ndi mafunso ake chifukwa ndi abwinobwino, koma ngati amakuchititsani manyazi, ndi bwino kupewa malo omwe ali "olimba mtima" momwe mungakondere. Nudism nthawi zambiri imayendetsedwa ndipo mutha kusankha gombe lomwe limaletsa monokini kapena kuvala zingwe mwachitsanzo.

Zaka 4-6: maliseche amamuvutitsa

Kuyambira ali ndi zaka 4 kapena 5 pamene mwanayo amayamba kubisa thupi lake. Amabisala kuvala kapena kuvula, amatseka chitseko cha bafa. Mwachidule, sakuwonetsanso thupi lake laling'ono lomwe limapeza chinsinsi komanso kugonana. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, maliseche a ena amamukhumudwitsa. Makolo akewo chifukwa chakuti ankadutsa m’nthawi ya Oedipus, komanso ya ena chifukwa ankamvetsa komanso kuona kuti anthu amene ankakhala nawo nthawi zambiri samayenda maliseche. Koma nthawi zambiri, pagombe, "zachilendo" izi zimachepetsedwa. Azimayi akuwonetsa mabere awo, abambo amasintha zosambira zawo osabisala kubisala ndi chopukutira, ana ang'ono ali maliseche ...

Nthawi zambiri mwana wazaka 4-5 amayang'ana kutali, akuchita manyazi. Nthawi zina amanyoza kapena kutsagana ndi masomphenya ake ndi "yuck, ndizonyansa", koma amachita manyazi kwambiri, ndipo makamaka ngati ali achibale ake. Ndithudi, lingaliro la kudzichepetsa limasiyana m’mabanja ndi mabanja. Mwana yemwe ankakonda kuwona amayi ake mu monokini mwina sadzachita manyazi kwambiri kuposa kale ngati amvetsetsa kuti chochitikachi chikungokhala pamphepete mwa nyanja. Mwana wochokera m’banja lodzichepetsa angakumane ndi “chiwonetsero” chimenechi moipa.

Muyenera kumvetsetsa manyazi ake ndi kulemekeza kudzichepetsa kwake. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kusintha malo omwe mumakhala pafupipafupi kapena machitidwe anu kuti agwirizane ndi zomwe amachita. Pewani mvula wamba, magombe pafupi ndi magombe a naturist, dzitetezeni ndi thaulo kuti musinthe. Manja ang'onoang'ono, osavuta omwe angamuthandize kukhala womasuka.

1 Comment

  1. Moni,
    estic buscant recursos per a treballar l'acceptació de la nuesa i de la diversitat de cossos a primària i aquest article em sembla que fomenta la vergonya i no ajuda gens a naturalitzar el que vindria as ser el mes natural: un cos despullat.
    Crec que aquestes paraules són perjudicials perquè justifiquen comportaments repressors.

Siyani Mumakonda