Zamkatimu
Vomerezani, simukudziwa momwe mungachitire. Mwana wanu ndi wamng'ono kwambiri… Ukuopa kuti sangamvetse zomwe zikuchitika, umadziimba mlandu ndipo umakonda kugonja pa chilichonse. Komabe, mwana wanu amafunikira malire ndi zizindikiro, mafotokozedwe, chikondi ndi ulamuliro. Zonse popanda kutaya moyo wanu wamagulu kapena nthawi yanu yaulere. Gahena yotsutsa, kuchita bwino.
Kukhala maso ndi maso nthawi zonse ndikwabwino kwa okonda. Koma kwa nonsenu, zitha kukhala zolemetsa. Kuti muchepetse ubale wanu ndikupangitsa kuti nyumba yanu ikhale yamoyo, tsatirani malamulo otsegula pakhomo. Landirani, pitani kwa abwenzi, yitanitsanso ake omwe. Azoloŵereni kuona anthu osati kukhala nokha ndi inu nthawi zonse. Muyenera kupewa kupanga banja logwirizana ndi mwana wanu. Mutha kuzipereka kwa amayi anu molawirira kwambiri, kenako kuzolowera kugona ndi anthu omwe mumawakhulupirira (abale kapena anzanu), ndikupita kumapeto kwa sabata popanda inu. Kunyamuka ndikwabwino kwa nonse. Tengani mwayi umenewu kuti mudziganizire nokha. Zikondwerero zanu siziyenera kungokhala ku Kirikou, Disneyland ndi kampani. Patchuthi, pitani ndi gulu la anzanu kapena ku hotelo-kalabu, njira zomwe zimakulolani kusangalala limodzi, komanso kukumana ndi anthu ndikupanga mabwenzi paokha. Ngati sakugwirizana nanu, mulembetseni ku kalabu ya ana komwe amagawana ndi ana amsinkhu wake. Zidzamusangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kumvetsera makambirano achikulire. Kumbali yanu, mwa kuyankhulana ndi anthu amsinkhu wanu, omwe amalankhula za zina osati ana, mukudzipatsa ufulu wokhala ndi moyo monga mkazi. Komabe, samalani kuti musapangitse mwana wanu kukhala woululira zakukhosi panthaŵi zimenezi popanda iye. Kulankhulana ndi mwana wanu n’kofunika kwambiri, malinga ngati mukukhala m’malo mwa amayi anu, ndipo iyenso m’malo ake a mwana. Dziletseni kumuuza zakukhosi kwanu. Ndi zosokoneza ndi zovutitsa kwa iye. Sungani zinsinsi zanu kwa bwenzi lanu lapamtima.
Dziikireni malire, kaamba ka ubwino wake
Kukoma mtima, muli nazo ziwiri. Koma ulamuliro, inunso mudzaufuna. Vuto ndilakuti, nthawi zambiri mumamva kuti ndinu olakwa ndipo, kuti mubwezere, mungafune kusiya mpirawo, kuti muwononge. Si ntchito yomuchitira: iye amafunikira kwambiri kuposa kale lonse ndondomeko yolimbikitsa yopangidwa ndi malamulo omveka bwino ndi malire oti asapitirire. Kutha kunena za ulamuliro wanu ndikukonzekera kwa iye. Ngakhale mutayesedwa kuti mupumule, ziyenera kukhala zachilendo. Ndipo pamene mukuti “ayi” ndi “ayi”. Ngakhale mutapeza kuti zikutopetsa, ndizofunikira kwa iye. Chitsanzo: mwana wanu wawona kuti pali malo opanda munthu pabedi lanu la anthu awiri ndipo akufuna kuti alowemo. Mantha, kupweteka m'mimba, kusowa tulo: zifukwa zonse ndi zabwino. Koma awa si malo ake. Aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi gawo lake, malo akeake. Kugona pamodzi kumapanga ubwenzi wochuluka pakati panu, chisokonezo cha maudindo omwe amachepetsa ufulu wanu wodziimira komanso chikhumbo chanu chakukula. Ndiyeno, ngakhale siliri funso lopangitsa mwana wanu kukhulupirira kuti mukuyang'ana mwamuna pa chilichonse, muyenera kumupangitsa kuti amvetse kuti, mwadongosolo lachilengedwe, malo omwe ali pabedi sali bwino. nthawi zonse khalani opanda munthu. Zimenezi zingamulepheretse kukunyengererani ndipo ngati ndi mnyamata, asamadzitengere mwamuna wa m’nyumbamo. Pomaliza, tsiku lomwe mukufuna kukhalanso ngati banja, mapiritsi adzakhala osavuta kumwa.
Lolani mwana wanu kugawanitsa moyo wake
Kukhala ndi moyo wachiphamaso sikophweka chotero kwa mwana. Kuti apeze njira yake yozungulira, amaikonza m'zigawo: mbali imodzi, moyo wake ndi inu, kwina, ndi bambo ake. Pewani kumufunsa mafunso ambiri akabwera kunyumba kuchokera kumapeto kwa mlungu. Ndi gawo la moyo wake lomwe ndi lake. Ayenera kukhala womasuka kukhala paubwenzi wake ndi abambo ake popanda mthunzi wako umakhala pa iwo. Ngati akufuna kukuuzani zomwe adachita, ndibwino kwambiri. Koma ndi iye amene amasankha.
Bweretsani amuna mu moyo wake
Ngati sankadziwa bambo ake, ayenera kudziwa kuti alipo. Kambiranani za nkhani yanu, musonyezeni chithunzi, muuzeni zimene akukumbukira ndiponso muuzeni makhalidwe amene iye anatengera kwa iye. Kukhala ndi bambo monga wina aliyense n’kofunika kwa iye, choncho ngati mwangopatukana, musawapangitse kukhala nkhani yachipongwe. Amavala kapena kuchapa yekha? Muuzeni kuti bambo ake adzanyadira iye. Ayenera kumva kuti ngakhale simukugwirizananso ngati banja, mukupitirizabe kulankhulana monga makolo. Mofananamo, musakane poyera chikondi chimene chinabala. Ndipo samalani kuti mukhalebe mwamuna mwa iwo omwe ali pafupi naye. Khalani ndi chizoloŵezi choyitana mchimwene wanu, msuweni wanu kapena bwenzi lanu lakale lomwe mwana wanu angagwirizane naye. Ngakhale mutamulera bwino nokha, kukhala pafupi ndi amuna kumamuthandiza. Izi ndi zofunika kwa mnyamata chifukwa zimamupatsa zitsanzo zachimuna. Ndikofunikiranso kwa msungwana: ngati akukula atazunguliridwa ndi amayi okha, amakhala pachiwopsezo kuwona amuna ngati achilendo, osafikirika, ochititsa chidwi ndipo, pambuyo pake, amavutika kuyankhulana nawo.
Funsani okondedwa anu kuti akuthandizeni
Mwana wanu wamkazi ali ndi zilonda zam'mimba ndipo tikukuyembekezerani ku ofesi: muyenera kudziwa yemwe mungadalire mwachangu kwambiri. Kuti musamapemphe zomwezo nthawi zonse, khalani ndi zingwe zingapo ku uta wanu. Achibale okulirapo, abwenzi, oyandikana nawo… Zindikirani kupezeka kwawo ndi chithandizo chomwe angakupatseni: ntchito zachangu, kusamalira ana mwa apo ndi apo, malangizo othandiza, kumvetsera khutu pakagwa nkhonya, ndi zina zotero. Zibwenzi zimapangidwira izi. Makolo anu alipo kuti akuthandizeni, ndizabwino, koma mwana wanu alinso ndi agogo a abambo omwe angakhale okondwa kukuthandizani. Ngakhale mutapatukana ndi mwana wawo, mungakhalebe paubwenzi wabwino ngati amakulemekezani. Kuwapatsa mwana wanu kumatanthauza kusonyeza kuti mumawakhulupirira ndipo koposa zonse, kuwalola kuti azilumikizana ndi theka la banja lawo lomwe limawakhudza.