Umunthu ngati udindo

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Nthawi zonse, anthu omwe adasiyana ndi unyinji chifukwa cha mikhalidwe yawo yamkati adakopa chidwi. Munthu nthawi zonse amakhala munthu wodziwika, ngakhale kuti si aliyense amene amaonekera ndi munthu. Ngakhale kuti aliyense wa ife ali ndi makhalidwe ake, si onse omwe amatchedwa "umunthu". Ponena za munthu waulemu amati: “Uwu ndi umunthu!” pamene aonekera pakati pa anthu ena ndi maonekedwe ake amkati omwe amamupangitsa kukhala woyenera.

Munthu amatchedwa munthu amene si wamphamvu chabe, koma wamphamvu mkati. Osati munthu wodziwa zambiri, koma munthu wanzeru. Osati kungosangalatsa kulankhulana, koma munthu wokhala ndi dziko lolemera lamkati. Osati mphatso mwachibadwa, koma «kudzipanga» - munthu amene anadzipanga yekha. Osati mwayi chabe, koma wokhoza kukhala wopambana.

Akazi amalemekeza osati amuna olemera okha, amalemekeza ndi kuwaona amuna omwe ali ndi mphamvu ndi ofunitsitsa kuchita bizinesi monga umunthu.

Umunthu nthawi zonse umachokera ku chikhalidwe, zotsatira za maphunziro kapena kudziphunzitsa. Monga momwe zilili m'mbali zonse, kuti mukwaniritse zotsatira zabwino, mumafunika luso, kukhalapo kwa zilakolako zachibadwa, ndi khama, ntchito zokulitsa zomwe mumatha kuchita. Pankhaniyi, kuthekera kukhala Umunthu.

Ndi chidwi kuti mwamuna ndi mkazi maganizo a «kukhala munthu» zambiri amasiyana. Kwa amayi omwe amayamikira kwambiri malingaliro ndi chirichonse chachibadwa, munthu ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi dziko lamkati lamkati lomwe amadziwa momwe angamvere, kukonda ndi kukhululukira. Mtima wa mkazi wachikondi uli woyenera kwambiri kuposa malingaliro a mwamuna wovuta kuona umunthu mwa mwamuna wokonda kuvutika kwambiri ndi mwa mwana wokoma akulirira ufulu wake. Mkazi yemwe ali ndi dzina la umunthu nthawi zambiri amapereka mphotho kwa amene amangomukonda ...

Mwachilungamo, si munthu aliyense ndipo sikuyenera nthawi zonse kutchedwa "munthu", kumbali ina, chikhulupiliro chakuti munthu aliyense ndi munthu mwa kutanthauzira kumathandizira kulemekezana pakati pa anthu. Pamene mawu akuti "Mwana aliyense ali kale munthu!" amamveka, tanthauzo la mawu amenewa ndi lakuti: “Mwana ayenera kuchitiridwa ulemu, poganizira mikhalidwe yake ndi zosowa zake.”

Amuna ndi okhwima. Amuna nthawi zambiri amayamikira zochita, zochita ndi zomwe adzichitira okha, choncho, mogwirizana ndi maganizo a mwamuna, umunthu wotukuka ndi munthu ndi phata lamkati amene wasankha ufulu ndi njira yake. Uyu ndi munthu amene amamanga ndi kulamulira moyo wake, munthu monga mutu wodalirika wa chifuniro. Ngati munthu amasiyana ndi anthu ambiri chifukwa cha makhalidwe ake amkati omwe amamulola kuti adziwonekere kwa anthu ambiri, kukana kukakamizidwa kwa anthu ambiri, kulimbikitsa zake kwa anthu ambiri - amuna amanena kuti munthu uyu ndi munthu.

Popeza mabuku nthawi zambiri amalembedwa ndi amuna ndipo sayansi imachitika makamaka molingana ndi machitidwe a amuna, ndikuwona umunthu wa amuna komwe kumakhala kofala ...

Malinga ndi lingaliro ili, si aliyense amene ali munthu, osati kubadwa, ndipo anthu osiyana ali ndi msinkhu wosiyana wa kukula kwa umunthu. Ziphuphu zoyamba za umunthu ndi kuuma kwa mwana "Ine ndekha", masitepe otsatirawa ndi kukweza ufulu wodzilamulira ndi wachinyamata ndi chitukuko cha kudziimira paunyamata, pambuyo pake kukula, ndi njira yonse ya chitukuko cha maganizo ndi chifuniro. Umunthu wotukuka ndi munthu wokhala ndi phata lamkati yemwe wasankha ufulu ndi njira yake. Uyu ndi munthu amene amamanga ndi kulamulira moyo wake, munthu monga mutu wodalirika wa chifuniro.

Anthu otere amalemekezedwa, nthawi zina amasilira, koma kukhala pafupi ndi umunthu sikuli koyenera nthawi zonse. Darling wa Chekhov sangatchedwe umunthu, koma mwamuna wake ankamukonda. Koma Buddha ndi munthu, koma chifukwa cha kufufuza kwauzimu, adasiya mkazi wake wamng'ono ndi mwana. Ndipo njira ya moyo wa munthu-umunthu, wokonzeka kusagwirizana ndi chilengedwe ndikuumirira yekha, siwodekha komanso wosavuta, makamaka pamene dziko lamkati la munthu liri disharmonic, ndipo moyo suli wokonzedwa bwino. Kumbali ina, munthu yemwe ali wogwirizana mkati, wopambana mu moyo wake waumwini ndi bizinesi, amachititsa ulemu weniweni, ndipo munthuyo ali ndi zifukwa zonse zodzitamandira ndi moyo wake - ndi iye mwini, monga mlembi wa moyo woterowo. .

Munthu samabadwa, amakhala munthu! Kapena iwo sakhala… Chinthu chochititsa chidwi kwambiri: umunthu ukhoza kusweka, umunthu ukhoza kusweka, ndiyeno munthu amasowa, amakhala ngati masamba, amasiya kukhala umunthu ... kuphwanya munthu monga munthu, kuti amuwononge ngati munthu.

"Munthu akhoza kuchoka m'zigawozi m'zigawo ziwiri zokha - kukwiya ndi kufuna kubwezera, kudana ndi chirichonse, kapena munthu wosweka, yemwe, mwinamwake, ali woopsa kwambiri kuposa wokwiya. Chifukwa chokwiyitsidwa - osachepera, uyu ndi amene sanaphwanye, adasunga umunthu wake mwa iye yekha. Ndipo munthu wosweka ndi munthu amene angathe kukankhidwira mu chirichonse, chowopsya, chowopsya, pamenepo, kumuyika iye pa mlingo, chinachake chonga icho. - Maksim Shevchenko, Malingaliro Apadera.

Zikuwonekeratu kuti pankhaniyi, munthuyo samanenedwa ngati munthu komanso mutu (malinga ndi pasipoti, munthuyo amakhalabe yemweyo), osati ngati munthu wokhala ndi mawonekedwe apadera (munthu amasunga umunthu wake) osati monga gawo la moyo wamkati wa munthu (munthu amakhalabe mkati, cholumikizira cha psyche sichizimiririka kulikonse). Amasowa - umunthu ngati udindo.

Sikuti aliyense amakhala ngati munthu. Munthu monga munthu ndi amene amakhala m’njira yakeyake, amamanga moyo mothandizidwa ndi maganizo ake ndi chifuniro chake, kuganiza ndi kupanga zosankha.

Zomverera, malingaliro ndi zosowa za munthu ndizo maziko omwe angathandize kapena kulepheretsa, koma osatinso. Maganizo amatha kukwera ndi kutuluka, koma munthu, munthu, ali ndi udindo pa zochita zake. Munthu amalamulira malingaliro ake, malingaliro ake ndi zosowa zake, osati mosemphanitsa. Sikokwanira kuti umunthu wa munthu uzindikire za moyo wake wamkati, uyenera kusinthidwa. Kumvera kumatha ndipo kuyenera kulamuliridwa, kumafunikira - kuphunzitsa ndi kumanga muutsogoleri womwe umagwirizana ndi lingaliro lake la uXNUMXbuXNUMXbloyenera.

Munthu-chamoyo chimafunafuna mphamvu mwa iye yekha, munthu-munthu amazipanga izo. Munthu-chamoyo chimamvetsetsa zomwe akufuna, umunthu-umunthu umayang'ana zomwe zikufunika tsopano, ndikusamalira momwe izi "ziyenera" kuchirikidwira ndi mphamvu ya chikhumbo.

Dziwani kuti, monga lamulo, iyi ndi nkhani yosavuta.

Umunthu wotukuka uli ndi chinthu chomwe chimamukonda kwambiri: zikhulupiriro zake, zolinga zake zimachokera kwa iwo, zolinga zimakhazikika m'mapulani, mapulani amakhazikika mu dongosolo la zinthu, pambuyo pake umunthu umachita. Nkwachibadwa kwa munthu-munthu kudziikira zolinga zazikulu, kuthetsa mavuto aakulu. Anthu amakhala ngati Amisiri, samafunafuna, koma amachita, amalenga, amapanga. Zimene adzichitira okha, adzakhala nazo.

Makhalidwe ndi nyenyezi zomwe zimatsimikizira komwe moyo wamunthu umayendera. Makhalidwe nthawi zonse amakhala akunja: kwawo kapena dziko, makolo ake kapena ana, wokondedwa kapena wokondedwa. Komanso ntchito zake, ntchito yake, ntchito yake - chinthu chachikulu chomwe amakhala nacho, chomwe chimapangitsa moyo wake kukhala watanthauzo, osati kungokhutira.

Thupi limamva kukhutitsidwa likamadya zomwe limafunikira. Munthu akamachita zimene amaona kuti n’zoyenera, amayamba kudzilemekeza komanso kunyada. Ntchito za ufulu, chitukuko ndi chilengedwe zimamveka kwa munthu payekha. Akhoza kudziikira zolinga zimene zimaposa moyo wake.

Zizindikiro za umunthu - kukhalapo kwa kulingalira ndi chifuniro, luso loyendetsa maganizo awo, kukhala osati chamoyo chokhala ndi zosowa, koma kukhala ndi zolinga zawo pamoyo ndi kuzikwaniritsa. Kuthekera kwa munthu ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kuchulukitsa mphamvu zake zamkati, choyamba, kuthekera kwakukula. Mphamvu ya umunthu ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kukana zisonkhezero zakunja kapena zamkati, kuzindikira zokhumba zawo ndi zolinga zawo. Ukulu, muyeso wa umunthu - momwe munthu ndi umunthu wake amakhudzira anthu ndi moyo.

Anayenda mozungulira ndi diresi lakuda lokhala ndi zingwe ndipo anali atasiya kale chipewa chake ndi magolovesi kwamuyaya, osachoka panyumbapo, kupita kutchalitchi kapena kumanda a mwamuna wake, ndipo ankakhala kunyumba ngati sisitere. Ndipo miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yokha itadutsa pamene adavula khungu lake ndikuyamba kutsegula mazenera. Nthaŵi zina anali atawona kale m’maŵa mmene amapitira kumsika ndi wophikira wake kukafuna chakudya, koma munthu angangolingalira mmene akukhala tsopano ndi zimene zinkachitidwa m’nyumba mwake. Mwachitsanzo, iwo amaganiza kuti adamuwona akumwa tiyi ndi veterinarian m'munda mwake, ndipo adamuwerengera nyuzipepala mokweza, komanso chifukwa chokumana ku positi ndi dona yemwe amamudziwa, iye anati:

“Tilibe kuyang’anira bwino kwa ziweto mumzinda, ndipo izi zimayambitsa matenda ambiri. Nthawi ndi nthawi mumamva anthu akudwala mkaka ndi kugwidwa ndi akavalo ndi ng'ombe. Kwenikweni, thanzi la ziweto liyenera kusamalidwa mofanana ndi thanzi la anthu.

Anabwerezanso maganizo a veterinarian ndipo tsopano anali ndi maganizo ofanana pa chirichonse monga iye anali. Zinali zoonekeratu kuti sakanatha kukhala popanda chikondi ngakhale kwa chaka chimodzi ndikupeza chisangalalo chatsopano m'mapiko ake. Winayo akanatsutsidwa chifukwa cha izi, koma palibe amene angaganize zoipa za Olenka, ndipo zonse zinali zomveka bwino m'moyo wake. Iye ndi veterinarian sanauze aliyense za kusintha komwe kunachitika mu ubale wawo, ndipo anayesa kubisala, koma sanapambane, chifukwa Olenka sakanatha kukhala ndi zinsinsi. Pamene alendo anabwera kwa iye, anzake mu regiment, iye, kuwatsanulira tiyi kapena kuwapatsa chakudya chamadzulo, anayamba kulankhula za mliri wa ng'ombe, za ngale, za kupha mzinda, ndipo iye anachita manyazi kwambiri, pamene alendo. anachoka, namgwira padzanja. dzanja ndi kulira mokwiya:

"Ndinakuuzani kuti musalankhule za zinthu zomwe simukuzimvetsa!" Ife madokotala tikamakambirana pakati pathu, chonde musasokoneze. Ndi potsiriza wotopetsa!

Ndipo adamuyang'ana modabwa ndi nkhawa ndikufunsa:

"Volodichka, ndiyenera kulankhula chiyani ?!

Ndipo anamkumbatira iye ndi misozi m’maso mwake, nampempha kuti asakwiye;

Komabe, chimwemwe chimenechi sichinakhalitse. Veterinarian anachoka ndi Regiment, anachoka kwamuyaya, monga Regiment anasamutsidwa kwinakwake kutali kwambiri, pafupifupi ku Siberia. Ndipo Olenka anatsala yekha.

Tsopano anali yekhayekha. Bambo anga anamwalira kalekale, ndipo mpando wawo unali m’chipinda chapamwamba, chafumbi, wopanda mwendo umodzi. Anayamba kuonda komanso wonyansa, ndipo anthu mumsewu sanamuyang'anenso, monga kale, ndipo sanamwetulire; mwachiwonekere, zaka zabwino kwambiri zinali zitapita kale, zatsalira, ndipo tsopano moyo wina watsopano unayamba, wosadziwika, zomwe ndibwino kuti musaganize. Madzulo, Olenka anakhala pakhonde, ndipo ankamva nyimbo zikuyimba mu Tivoli ndi miyala ikuphulika, koma izi sizinadzutsenso maganizo. Iye anayang'ana mwakachetechete pabwalo lake lopanda kanthu, osaganizira kalikonse, osafuna kalikonse, ndiyeno, pamene usiku unagwa, iye anagona ndi kulota bwalo lake lopanda kanthu. Anadya ndi kumwa, ngati kuti sakufuna.

Ndipo choipitsitsacho, analibenso maganizo alionse. Iye ankawona zinthu mozungulira iye ndipo ankamvetsa zonse zimene zinkachitika pozungulira iye, koma iye sankakhoza kupanga lingaliro pa chirichonse ndipo sankadziwa choti alankhule. Ndipo nzoipa chotani nanga kukhala wopanda lingaliro! Mwaona, mwachitsanzo, botolo liyima, kapena mvula, kapena munthu akukwera ngolo, koma chifukwa chiyani botolo ili, kapena mvula, kapena munthu, tanthauzo lake ndi chiyani, simunganene? ndipo ngakhale pa chikwi chimodzi cha madola simunamuuze kalikonse. Pansi pa Kukin ndi Pustovalov, ndiyeno pansi pa veterinarian, Olenka ankatha kufotokoza zonse ndipo anganene maganizo ake pa chilichonse, koma tsopano m'maganizo mwake ndi mu mtima mwake anali ndi zopanda pake monga pabwalo. Ndipo moyipa kwambiri, komanso mowawa kwambiri, ngati kuti wadya chowawa kwambiri.