Zamkatimu
Ndemanga kuchokera mu gawo la Umoyo Wabwino lofotokozedwa ndi Anne-Laure Benattar, psycho-body therapist. Ndili ndi Louise, msungwana wazaka 7 yemwe akung'amba tsitsi lake ...
Ngakhale Louise ndi kamtsikana kosangalatsa komanso komwetulira mantha ake amaonekera mofulumira kwambiri, m’njira yokwiyitsidwa. Amayi ake amandifotokozera kuti Louise adayamba "kukomoka" kuyambira pomwe adayamba kulekana kovuta ndi atate wa kamwanako.
Kusinthidwa kwa Anne-Laure Benattar
Pamene malingaliro ena sakanatha kugayidwa pambuyo pa chochitika chowawa kapena kuvulala kwakukulu, akhoza kuwonetsedwa kupyolera mu chizindikiro.
Gawoli ndi Louise, motsogozedwa ndi Anne-Laure Benattar, psycho-body therapist
Anne-Laure Benattar: Ndikufuna ndimvetsetse zomwe mukukumana nazo ndi makolo anu kuyambira pomwe adasiyana. Kodi mumamva bwino nawo?
Louise: Makolo anga ndimawakonda kwambiri, koma amakwiya kwambiri, motero zimandimvetsa chisoni, ndipo ndimang’amba tsitsi langa.
A.-LB: Kodi munawauza mmene mukumvera?
Louise: Pang'ono, koma sindikufuna kuwapweteka. Adzalira akadziwa zomwe ndimawaganizira! Ali ngati ana!
A.-LB: Bwanji ngati tikufunsani chisoni ndi mkwiyo wanu? Monga ngati iye ndi khalidwe?
Louise: O inde! munthu uyu amatchedwa Chagrin.
A.-LB: Zabwino! Hello Chisoni! Kodi mungatiuze chifukwa chomwe Louise akung'amba tsitsi lake, ntchito yake ndi yotani?
Louise: Chagrin akuti ndikuwonetsetsa makolo a Louise kuti izi ndizovuta kwambiri kukhala nazo komanso zosamvetsetseka!
A.-LB: Zikomo Chisoni chifukwa chofotokozera izi. Tsopano tiyeni tiwone ngati gawo lanu lopanga lili ndi malingaliro kapena njira zothetsera khalidweli, ndikuwonetsa makolo anu mosiyana zomwe zimakukhudzani. Chilichonse chomwe chimadutsa malingaliro anu!
Louise: Mphaka wokongola kwambiri, kuvina, kuimba, kukuwa, pinki, mtambo, kukumbatirana ndi amayi komanso abambo, kuyankhula ndi makolo anga.
Malangizo a Anna-Laure Benattar
Kuyang’ana zimene zinkachitika m’moyo wa mwanayo pamene chizindikirocho chikayamba kuonekera kumathandiza kuti timvetse bwino chimene chimayambitsa.
A.-LB: Ndi zabwino kwambiri ! Ndi luso lotani nanga! Mutha kuthokoza gawo lanu lopanga! Tsopano tiyeni tiyang'ane ndi Chagrin kuti ndi njira iti yomwe ingamuyenerere: mphaka wokongola? Kuvina ? Kuimba? Yell ? Yesani kumva yankho lililonse ngati Chisoni chili bwino kapena ayi?
Louise: Kwa mphaka, ndi inde… Kuvina, kuimba, kufuula, ayi!
A.-LB: Nanga bwanji pinki? Mtambo ? Kukumbatirana ndi amayi ndi abambo? Kulankhula ndi makolo anu?
Louise: Kwa pinki, mtambo ndi kukumbatirana, ndiye inde yayikulu. Ndipo kulankhula ndi makolo anga kulinso inde… koma ndili ndi mantha pang'ono chimodzimodzi!
A.-LB: Osadandaula, mayankho agwira ntchito pawokha panthawi yoyenera. Mukungoyenera kukhazikitsa njira zotchedwa mphaka, pinki, mtambo, kukumbatirana ndi amayi ndi abambo, ndikulankhula ndi makolo anu, kuti Chisoni chiwayese kwa milungu iwiri. Atha kusankha chimodzi kapena zingapo kuti asinthe zomwe mukufuna kusintha.
Louise: Ndizovuta kwambiri masewera anu, koma pambuyo pake, sindidzang'amba tsitsi langa?
A.-LB: Inde, zitha kukuthandizani kupeza mayankho kuti mukhale bwino ndikumasula makina omwe akhazikitsidwa.
Louise: Zodabwitsa! Sindikudikira kuti ndikhale bwino!
Kodi mungathandize bwanji mwana kuti asiye kung'amba tsitsi? Malangizo ochokera kwa Anne-Laure Benattar
Zochita za NLP
Protocol iyi kukolola mu masitepe 6 (zosavuta) zimakulolani kuti mulandire gawo lomwe limayambitsa chizindikirocho ndikuyika njira zothetsera vutoli, ndikulimbitsa cholinga cha chizindikiro kapena khalidwe.
Nenani mawu
Dziwani ngati mwanayo wavala zobisika mtima chifukwa choopa zimene makolo ake angachite kapena kuti asawapweteke.
Maluwa a Bach
Kusakaniza Mimulus chifukwakumasulidwa anazindikira mantha, Nkhanu Apple kusintha khalidwe ndi Nyenyezi ya ku Betelehemu Kuchiritsa mabala am'mbuyomu kungakhale kosangalatsa kwa Louise panthawiyi (madontho 4 nthawi 4 / tsiku pamasiku 21)
* Anne-Laure Benattar amalandira ana, achinyamata ndi akuluakulu muzochita zake "L'Espace Thérapie Zen". www.therapie-zen.fr