Mmene mwana wanu amasonyezera umunthu wake

Ali ndi miyezi 9, adazindikira kuti anali munthu, wosiyana ndi amayi ake. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, pafupi ndi chaka chimodzi, amayamba kudziwa za envelopu ya thupi lake ndikudziganizira yekha. Amazindikira dzina lake loyamba ndikuyambitsa kulankhulana ndi mnzakeyo.

Amadzizindikira pagalasi

Gawo lagalasi ndi gawo lofunikira, lomwe limachitika pafupifupi miyezi 18. Wokhoza kuzindikira chithunzi chake, amathanso kudzizindikiritsa pa chithunzi. Chithunzichi chimapatsa mwanayo chitsimikiziro chowonekera, chakunja cha zomwe akumva mwa iyemwini. Kumam’thandiza kudzizindikiritsa yekha monga munthu. Zimapatsa "ine" kulimbikitsa kwake.

Iye amaona winayo kukhala pawiri wa iye mwini

Izi zikuwonekera m'masewera ake awiri: "kwa inu, kwa ine". “Ndakumenya, wandimenya”. “Ndikuthamangira iwe, iwe ukundithamangira”. Aliyense amatenga udindo womwewo, nawonso. Sanasiyanitsidwe momveka bwino, aliyense amachita ngati galasi kwa mnzake.

Adzilankhula yekha mwa munthu wachitatu

Kugwiritsiridwa ntchito kwa chinenero kumeneku kumasonyeza kulephera kwake kudzisiyanitsa bwino ndi ena: amalankhula za iye mwini pamene akulankhula za amayi ake kapena wina aliyense. Ntchito yosiyanitsa iyi idzachitika pang'onopang'ono, m'chaka chake chachitatu.

Amadziwa kudzifotokozera ngati mtsikana kapena mnyamata

Ndi pafupifupi zaka 2 pamene amazindikira za kugonana kwake. Amafanizitsa, mafunso. Amadziwa kuti ndi theka liti la anthu. Kuchokera pamenepo kuti mumudziwe ngati munthu wapadera, pali sitepe yaikulu.

Amayamba kunena "ayi" ku chilichonse

Pakati pa zaka 2 ndi 3, mwanayo amayamba kutsutsa makolo ake. Ndi “Ndikana, chifukwa chake ndili”: kunena “ayi” ndi njira yake yonenera kuti “ine”. Ayenera kutsimikizira kukhalapo kwake, chizindikiritso chake pakumanga kwathunthu. Popanda kupereka mwadongosolo, muyenera kumvera, kumva. Vuto lodziwika bwino lotsutsa ndi chizindikiro champhamvu cha kusinthika kwa nzeru zake.

Amakufunsani kuti "Ine ndekha!" “

"Ine" imabwera posachedwa "ayi" ndipo ilipo mofanana. Mwanayo amatenga sitepe yowonjezereka podzitsimikizira, akufuna kudzimasula yekha ku uphunzitsi wa makolo. Motero mosokonezeka amanena kuti ali ndi ufulu wodzilamulira yekha. Amafunitsitsa kudzilamulira. Achite zinthu zing’onozing’ono bola ngati palibe choopsa.

Amakana kugwira zidole zake

Kwa iye, zoseweretsa zake ndi gawo lake. Mukamupempha kuti akubwerekeni, mungamupemphenso kuti adule mkono. Pokana, amadziteteza ku chiopsezo chilichonse chogawanika: kudzidziwitsa kwake kumakhalabe kofooka. Choncho n’zosamveka kukakamiza mwana kubwereketsa zidole zake. Palibenso phindu kutsutsa kudzikuza kwake: ndi wamphamvu kuposa iye. Pambuyo pake adzaphunzira kudzikonda ndi kuwolowa manja.

Amapeza "I"

Izi zikuwonetsa kusintha kwakukulu pakupanga chidziwitso chake: ali ndi zaka 3, wamaliza ntchito yake yosiyanitsa "ine / ena". Masomphenya ake a dziko lapansi ndi a bipolar: kumbali imodzi, "ine", khalidwe lapakati, ndi mbali inayo, ena onse, ochulukirapo kapena ocheperapo akunja, ozungulira kapena odana, omwe amamuzungulira iye pa mtunda wosiyana. Idzayengedwa pang’onopang’ono.

Ali ndi zaka 4: chidziwitso cha mwana wanu chimapangidwa

Ali ndi zaka 4, masomphenya ake a dziko lapansi ndi ovuta. Amayamba kudzidziwa komanso kudziwa chomwe chimamusiyanitsa ndi ana ena. Amatha kunena zosiyana izi: "Kodi ndine wabwino pa mpira? Thomas, akuthamanga mofulumira. Ndi podzisiyanitsa yekha ndi ena kuti amadzifotokozera momveka bwino.