Valani nsapato zawo, thandizani kukonza tebulo, gwirani homuweki yawo… Ana amakhala m'dziko lopangidwa ndi masewera ndi maloto, koma malamulo amoyo ndiofunika kwa iwo monga mpweya womwe amapuma. Kuti mukule bwino, muyenera kukhala ndi khoma lodalira, malire omveka bwino komanso ofotokozedwa. Koma malamulowo akakhazikitsidwa, kumangokhalira kuwatsatira ndikuwatsatira.

Palibenso chifukwa chofuula tsiku lililonse kuti ana aziyika zinthu zawo mudengu lochapa asanafike zaka 4. Dothi la iwo ndi lingaliro lanu. Ndibwino kufunsa mwachitsanzo kuti: "musanayambe kusamba, mumayika masokosi anu mudengu la imvi chonde" ndipo mumachita naye katatu koyamba.

Pakati pa 3 ndi 7 zaka

Ana adzafuna kuthandiza, kuti akhale odziyimira pawokha, maudindo. Ngati makolo atenga nthawi kuwonetsa, pang'onopang'ono, pang'onopang'ono, monga Céline Alvarez, wofufuza za kukula kwa ana, akuwonetsa, anawo ali tcheru ndipo ali ndi kuthekera kwakukulu.

Amangofunika wamkulu woleza mtima yemwe amawawonetsa, kuwalola kuchita, kuwalola kuti alakwitse, kuyambiranso modekha komanso mokoma mtima. Makolowo akamakwiya kwambiri, ana samamvera malamulowo.

Ndili ndi zaka 7

M'badwo uwu umagwirizana ndi kulowa kusukulu ya pulayimale, ana apeza malamulo akuluakulu a moyo: kudya patebulo ndi chodula, kunena zikomo, chonde, kusamba m'manja, etc.

Makolo atha kukhazikitsa malamulo atsopano monga kuthandiza kukonza patebulo, kuchotsa chotsukira mbale, kupatsa mphaka chododometsa… ntchito zing'onozing'onozi zimathandiza mwana kuti akhale wodziyimira pawokha ndikunyamuka molimba mtima pambuyo pake.

Ndikofunikira kupanga ana kukhala okangalika popanga malamulowa. Mwachitsanzo, mutha kutenga nthawi kuti mumufunse zomwe angafune kuti amuthandize, pomupatsa ntchito zitatu zoti musankhe. Akatero adzakhala ndi kumverera kwakuti anali ndi chosankha ndi kuti anamvedwa.

Malamulo a banja lonse

Malamulo akakhazikitsidwa, anthu onse m’banjamo ayenera kusonyeza chitsanzo. Malamulowo akuyenera kukhala achilungamo kwa membala aliyense, mwachitsanzo ana okulirapo ali ndi ufulu wowerenga pang'ono asanagone ndi kuzimitsa magetsi awo panthawi. Makolo amafotokozera ana aang’onowo kuti amafunikira tulo tochuluka kuposa okulirapo kuti akule bwino ndipo ayenera kuzimitsa pamaso pa m’bale ndi mlongo wawo wamkulu.

Malamulowa atha kupereka mwayi kwa banja kuti lizisonkhana patebulo ndikulola aliyense kunena zomwe amakonda ndi zomwe sakonda kuchita. Makolo amatha kumvetsera ndikulingalira. Nthawi ino imalola zokambirana, kuti zifotokoze. Ndikosavuta kugwiritsa ntchito malamulowo mukamvetsa kuti akutanthauza chiyani.

Kuti aliyense athe kuzikumbukira, m'modzi mwa anawo akhoza kulemba malamulo osiyanasiyana apanyumba papepala lokongola, kapena kujambula kenako ndikuwonetsa. Ndendende monga kulera.

Athanso kupeza malo awo mu kabuku kokongola koperekedwa kwa izi, kapena chomangira chomwe mutha kuwonjezera masamba, zojambula, ndi zina zambiri.

Kupanga malamulo anyumba kumatanthauzanso kubweretsa kumveka pazomwe zikuyembekezeredwa kwa iwo ndikusintha mphindi yomwe ingawoneke ngati yopatsa chidwi.

Kulemba ndiko kulowezanso. Makolo adzadabwa kupeza kuti Enzo, 9, waloweza pamtima malamulo a nyumba 12 mosiyana ndi abambo ake omwe akuvutika kuti apeze wachisanu ndi chimodzi. Kuloweza kumayenera kusewera. Ndizosangalatsa kwambiri kusokoneza makolo ndikuwonetsa luso lanu.

Malamulo amoyo mulibe kuti awoneke okongola. Filimuyi Yes Day ndi chiwonetsero chabwino cha izi. Ngati makolo ati inde pachilichonse, ikhala nkhalango. Kulephera kutsatira malamulowo kumakhala ndi zotsatirapo zake. Ndikofunikanso kuwazindikira molondola momwe angathere, kachiwiri, kutengera msinkhu wa mwanayo komanso kuthekera kwake.

Chotsani nsapato zanu, mwachitsanzo. Ali ndi zaka zitatu, chidwi cha mwanayo chimasokonezedwa mwachangu ndi chochitika chakunja, phokoso, china choti anene, masewera okoka… palibe chifukwa chakufuula komanso kuwalanga.

Okalamba amatha ndipo aphatikiza chidziwitso. Kuwafotokozera zomwe mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yomwe imamasula pokonza (kugwira ntchito, kuphika, kuwathandiza ndi homuweki) kungakhale chiyambi chabwino.

Ndiyeno mukumwetulira, vomerezani zotulukapo zake ngati savula nsapato zake, popanda kunena kwenikweni mawu akuti zilango kapena zilango. Zitha kukhala zoperewera: wailesi yakanema, mpira ndi abwenzi ... koma akuyeneranso kukhala ndi kuthekera: kotsuka tebulo, kuyeretsa mipando, kupukuta zovala. Malamulo a moyo amagwirizanitsidwa ndi zochita zabwino, ndipo izi zimamveka bwino.