Ambiri aife tili ndi bwenzi lomwelo yemwe, kulowa munkhani yake "yowawa", sangayime. "Ayi, chabwino, mungaganizire ..." - nkhaniyo imayamba, yodziwika bwino ndi nkhupakupa yamanjenje. Ndipo sitikulingalira momwe zingathere kuyimira chinthu chomwecho kwa nthawi zana limodzi ndi khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu. Kungoti kumayambitsa makina omwe ali mwa aliyense wa ife kukhazikika pazoyembekeza zosayenera. Pazovuta kwambiri, za pathological, kutengeka uku kumatha kukhala kutengeka.
Tonse ndife ozunzidwa komanso ogwidwa ndi zomwe tikuyembekezera: kuchokera kwa anthu, kuchokera kuzochitika. Timazoloŵera komanso kukhala odekha pamene chithunzi chathu cha dziko lapansi "chikugwira ntchito", ndipo timayesetsa kutanthauzira zochitika m'njira yomveka kwa ife. Timakhulupirira kuti dziko limagwira ntchito molingana ndi malamulo athu amkati, "timadziwoneratu", zimamveka bwino kwa ife - bola ngati zomwe tikuyembekezera zidzakwaniritsidwa.
Ngati takhala tikuzoloŵera kuona zenizeni mu mitundu yakuda, sitidabwa kuti wina akufuna kutinyenga, kutilanda. Koma kukhulupirira mchitidwe wa kufuna kwabwino sikuthandiza. Magalasi amtundu wa rose amangopaka dziko lapansi mumitundu yosangalatsa, koma tanthauzo lake silisintha: timakhalabe muukapolo wachinyengo.
Kukhumudwa ndi njira ya olodzedwa. Koma tonse ndife olodzedwa, popanda kupatula. Dziko ili ndi lopenga, lambali zambiri, losamvetsetseka. Nthawi zina malamulo oyambirira a physics, anatomy, biology amaphwanyidwa. Mtsikana wokongola kwambiri m'kalasi mwadzidzi ndi wanzeru. Otayika ndi ma loafers ndi oyambitsa bwino. Ndipo zingamuthandize wophunzira kwambiri, amene ananeneratu kuti akwaniritse bwino m'munda wa sayansi, makamaka chiwembu chake: iye akuchita bwino.
Mwina ndiye kusatsimikizika kumeneku komwe kumapangitsa dziko kukhala losangalatsa komanso lochititsa mantha. Ana, okonda, makolo, mabwenzi apamtima. Ndi anthu angati omwe amalephera kukwaniritsa zomwe tikuyembekezera. Zathu. Zoyembekeza. Ndipo iyi ndiye mfundo yonse ya funso.
Zoyembekeza ndi zathu zokha, ndipo palibe wina aliyense. Munthu amakhala mmene amakhalira, ndipo kukopa kudziimba mlandu, ulemu ndi udindo ndiye chinthu chomaliza. Mozama - ayi «monga munthu wamakhalidwe muyenera …» Palibe ngongole ife kalikonse. Ndi zomvetsa chisoni, zomvetsa chisoni, ndi zochititsa manyazi. Imagwetsa pansi kuchokera pansi pa mapazi anu, koma ndi zoona: palibe amene ali ndi ngongole kwa wina aliyense.
Zowona, uwu simalo otchuka kwambiri. Ndipo komabe, m’dziko limene boma limalimbikitsa kupwetekedwa mtima mongoyerekezera, mawu apa ndi apo amamveka kuti tili ndi udindo wa mmene tikumvera.
Yemwe ali ndi ziyembekezo ali ndi udindo chifukwa chakuti sizinakwaniritsidwe. Zoyembekeza za ena si zathu. Tilibe mwayi wofanana nawo. Ndi momwemonso kwa ena.
Kodi tidzasankha chiyani: kodi tidzaimba mlandu ena kapena tidzakayikira kukwanira kwathu?
Tisaiwale: nthawi ndi nthawi, inu ndi ine sitilungamitsa ziyembekezo za anthu ena. Poyang'anizana ndi milandu ya kudzikonda ndi kusasamala, n'kopanda phindu kupereka zifukwa, kukangana ndi kuyesa kutsimikizira chirichonse. Zomwe tingachite ndi kunena kuti, “Pepani kuti mwakhumudwa kwambiri. Pepani kuti sindinakwaniritse zomwe munkayembekezera. Koma ndili pano. Ndipo sindidziona kuti ndine wodzikonda. Ndipo zimandiwawa mukamaganiza kuti ndili choncho. Chatsala ndi kuyesa kuchita zomwe tingathe. Ndipo ndikuyembekeza kuti ena adzachitanso chimodzimodzi.
Kusachita zomwe anthu amayembekezera komanso kukhumudwitsidwa ndi inu nokha sikosangalatsa, nthawi zina ngakhale zopweteka. Malingaliro osokonekera amawononga kudzidalira. Maziko ogwedezeka amatikakamiza kuti tiganizirenso momwe timadzionera tokha, nzeru zathu, kukwanira kwa momwe timaonera dziko lapansi. Kodi tidzasankha chiyani: kodi tidzaimba mlandu ena kapena tidzakayikira kukwanira kwathu? Ululu umayika pamiyeso zinthu ziwiri zofunika kwambiri - kudzidalira kwathu komanso kufunika kwa munthu wina.
Ego kapena chikondi? Palibe opambana pankhondoyi. Ndani amafunikira ego wamphamvu wopanda chikondi, yemwe amafunikira chikondi pomwe umadziona ngati wopanda munthu? Anthu ambiri amagwera mumsampha umenewu posachedwa. Timatulukamo tachikanda, chopindika, chotaika. Wina amayitana kuti awone izi ngati zatsopano: o, ndizosavuta kuweruza kuchokera kunja!
Koma tsiku lina nzeru idzatipeza, pamodzi ndi kulandiridwa. Kukhuthala kwachepa komanso kusayembekezera zozizwitsa kuchokera kwa wina. Kukonda mwana mwa iye momwe analili kale. Kuwona mmenemo kuzama ndi nzeru, osati khalidwe lokhazikika la cholengedwa chomwe chagwera mumsampha.
Tikudziwa kuti wokondedwa wathu ndi wamkulu komanso wabwino kuposa mkhalidwe womwewu womwe udatikhumudwitsa kale. Ndipo potsiriza, tikumvetsa kuti mwayi wathu wolamulira ulibe malire. Timalola kuti zinthu zizingochitika kwa ife.
Ndipo ndipamene zozizwitsa zenizeni zimayamba.