Mfundo ziwirizi ndizosavuta kusokoneza, koma kusiyana kwake ndi kwakukulu. Kodi kusiyanitsa wina ndi mzake? Ndi chiyani chomwe chili choyenera kuyesetsa, ndipo ndi khalidwe liti lomwe ndi bwino kulichotsa? Katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi filosofi Neil Burton amagawana malingaliro omwe amakuthandizani kuti muyang'ane mkati mwanu ndipo, mwinamwake, muzimvetsetsa bwino.
Ena a ife timaona kuti kukhala odzidalira n’kosavuta kusiyana n’kukhala ndi ulemu weniweni. Kudzifananiza tokha ndi ena nthawi zonse, timapanga mndandanda wopanda malire wa luso lathu, zomwe tachita bwino komanso zomwe tapambana. M'malo molimbana ndi zolakwa zathu ndi zolephera zathu, timazibisa kumbuyo kwa ziphaso zambiri ndi mphotho. Komabe, mndandanda wochuluka wa luso ndi zomwe wapindula sizinakhalepo zokwanira kapena zofunikira kuti munthu azidzidalira.
Tikupitiriza kuwonjezera mfundo zambiri kwa izo ndikuyembekeza kuti tsiku lina izi zidzakhala zokwanira. Koma mwanjira iyi tikungoyesa kudzaza chosowa mkati mwathu - ndi udindo, ndalama, katundu, maubwenzi, kugonana. Izi zimapitilira chaka ndi chaka, ndikusanduka mpikisano wopanda malire.
"Chidaliro" amachokera ku Latin fidere, "kukhulupirira". Kukhala wodzidalira kumatanthauza kudzikhulupirira - makamaka, pakutha kwanu kuchita bwino kapena kuyanjana ndi dziko lapansi. Munthu wodzidalira amakhala wokonzeka kuthana ndi mavuto atsopano, kugwiritsa ntchito mipata, kuthana ndi zovuta, komanso kutenga udindo ngati zinthu sizikuyenda bwino.
Mosakayikira, kudzidalira kumatsogolera ku zokumana nazo zachipambano, koma zosiyana ndi zoona. Zimachitikanso kuti munthu amadzimva kuti ali ndi chidaliro m'dera lina, monga kuphika kapena kuvina, komanso osadzidalira konse, monga masamu kapena kulankhula pagulu.
Kudzidalira - kuwunika kwathu kwamalingaliro ndi malingaliro athu kufunikira kwathu, tanthauzo
Chidaliro chikasoweka kapena kusowa, kulimba mtima kumatengera. Ndipo ngati chidaliro chikugwira ntchito mu gawo la zodziwika, ndiye kuti kulimba mtima kumafunika pomwe pali kusatsimikizika komwe kumayambitsa mantha. “Tinene kuti sindingakhale wotsimikiza kuti ndidzalumphira m’madzi kuchokera pa utali wa mamita 10 mpaka nditakhala ndi kulimba mtima kuchita zimenezo kamodzi kokha,” katswiri wa zamaganizo ndi wafilosofi Neil Burton akupereka chitsanzo. "Kulimba mtima ndi khalidwe labwino kwambiri kuposa kudzidalira, chifukwa kumafuna mphamvu zambiri. Komanso chifukwa munthu wolimba mtima ali ndi mphamvu zopanda malire komanso zotheka.
Kudzidalira ndi kudzidalira sizimayendera limodzi nthawi zonse. Makamaka, mukhoza kukhala odzidalira kwambiri mwa inu nokha ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo mukhale ndi kudzidalira. Pali zitsanzo zambiri za izi - kutenga osachepera otchuka omwe amatha kuchita pamaso pa zikwizikwi za owonerera ndipo nthawi yomweyo amawononga ngakhale kudzipha okha pogwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
"Ulemu" amachokera ku Latin aestimare, kutanthauza "kuyesa, kuyeza, kuwerengera". Kudzidalira ndikuwunika kwathu mwanzeru komanso m'malingaliro pa kufunikira kwathu, kufunikira kwake. Ndi matrix omwe timaganiza, kumva ndi kuchita, kuchita ndikuzindikira ubale wathu ndi ife tokha, ena ndi dziko lapansi.
Anthu omwe amadziona kuti ali ndi thanzi labwino sayenera kudziwonetsera okha kuti ndi ofunika kudzera muzinthu zakunja monga ndalama kapena udindo, kapena kudalira ndodo za mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. M'malo mwake, amadzilemekeza ndi kusamalira thanzi lawo, chikhalidwe chawo, ndi chilengedwe. Atha kuyika ndalama zonse pama projekiti ndi anthu chifukwa saopa kulephera kapena kukanidwa. Inde, amavutikanso ndi zowawa ndi zokhumudwitsa nthaŵi ndi nthaŵi, koma zolephera sizimawavulaza kapena kuchepetsa kufunika kwawo.
Chifukwa cha kulimba mtima kwawo, anthu odzilemekeza amakhalabe omasuka ku zochitika zatsopano ndi maubwenzi opindulitsa, amalekerera zoopsa, amasangalala ndi kusangalala mosavuta, ndipo amatha kuvomereza ndi kukhululukira-iwo ndi ena.
Za wolemba: Neil Burton ndi katswiri wamisala, filosofi, komanso wolemba mabuku angapo, kuphatikiza The Meaning of Madness.