Lingaliro ili lakhala likutha kupyola zaka kuyambira ku Greece wakale komwe Plato amafotokozera nthano yakubadwa kwa chikondi m'buku lake phwando :

« Kenako anthu anali ndi thupi lozungulira, mutu wokhala ndi nkhope ziwiri zofanana, mikono inayi ndi miyendo inayi, kuwapatsa mphamvu kuti athe kupikisana ndi milungu. Omalizawa, posafuna kutaya ukulu wawo, adaganiza zofooketsa anthu opambanawa, kuwadula magawo awiri, lililonse limakhala ndi nkhope imodzi, mikono iwiri ndi miyendo iwiri. Zomwe zidachitika. Koma atasiyana, magawo awiriwo anali otanganidwa kupeza theka lawo lomwe linasowa kuti asinthe chinthu chimodzi: ichi ndiye chiyambi cha chikondi. “. Kuchokera m'buku la Yves-Alexandre Thalmann, Kukhala Wokwatirana Naye.

Chifukwa chake, amuna amangokhala ndi theka lokhala ndi gawo lopeza theka lawo labwino, theka lina, kuti athe kumaliza.

Timapeza munthano iyi mikhalidwe itatu ya lingaliro la mzimu-wokwatirana: kukwaniritsidwa komwe kwapezeka, makalata oyenerera komanso kufanana kwa magawo awiriwo.

Mwachidziwitso, okwatirana awiriwo amakhala ogwirizana bwino: palibe mikangano yomwe imasokoneza mgwirizano wokhazikika. Kuphatikiza apo, palibe chomwe chimafanana ndi munthu wina kuposa mnzake wamoyo: onsewa amakonda zomwe amakonda, zokonda zomwezo, malingaliro ofanana, malingaliro amodzimodzi azinthu, tanthauzo lofananalo la moyo ... Kukhalapo kwa wokondedwa wamoyo ndi nkhani ya zongopeka. 

Ndani amapasa ofanana omwe angafanane ndi nthano yonena za Plato? Kubwera kuchokera ku selo limodzi la dzira, amagawana ma genetic ofanana. Kafukufuku, komabe, sagwirizana ndi izi, ngakhale awiriwo amakhala ndiubwenzi wolumikizana womwe nthawi zambiri umasokoneza ena. Mikangano ilipo ndipo ubale pakati pa mapasa awiriwo sikumakhala mtsinje wautali wodekha. Kufanana kwamphamvu kwamatsenga ndi zakuthupi sikutanthauza kutsimikiza kwa ubalewo. Mwanjira ina, ngakhale titamupeza mnzake wamoyoyu, wotayika pakati pa mabiliyoni aanthu ena, ubale womwe titha kukhazikitsa ndi iye ulibe mwayi wogwirizana kwathunthu. 

Ngati mnzake wamoyo aliko, mwayi wokumana naye ndi wocheperako.

Izi zikutanthauza kuti anthu okwana 7 biliyoni. Pochotsa ana ndi anthu omwe asiya chikondi (monga zipembedzo), pali anthu 3 biliyoni omwe angakhalepo.

Kungoganiza kuti pali nkhokwe ya anthu awa 3 biliyoni, ndikuti nkhope yokhayo imatha kuzindikira munthu wokwatirana naye (pazifukwa zomveka zachikondi pakuwonana koyamba), zitha kutenga zaka 380 kuti muyende mu 'zoikika, pa mlingo wa maola 12 patsiku.

Mwayi wokhala ndi moyo wokhala munthu woyamba kuwonedwa ukuyandikira kupambana jackpot ya lottery yadziko lonse.

M'malo mwake, timangokumana pakati pa anthu 1000 mpaka 10: mwayi wokumana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi wocheperako, makamaka chifukwa ziyenera kudziwikanso kuti tikusintha nthawi zonse. Munthu wangwiro ali ndi zaka 000 sangawoneke ngati wothandizana nafe ali ndi zaka 20. Chifukwa chake ndikofunikira kuti msonkhano wa wokondedwa wake uchitike nthawi yovuta kwambiri kapena kuti mnzakeyo asinthe momwemo njira ndi pamlingo wofanana ndi ife. Mukadziwa kufunikira kwa chilengedwe pakusintha kwakuthupi ndi kwamaganizidwe, zimawoneka ngati zosatheka…

Komabe, chikhulupiliro sichiyenera kukhala "chotheka" kapena "chowona" bola chili ndi zabwino kwa ena. Tsoka, pamenepo, lingaliro loti "okwatirana ndi moyo" limawoneka kuti limawononga iwo amene ali ndi chikhulupiriro mu ilo: limadzetsa mwa iwo chilakolako chofunitsitsa kuti alipeze, kusakhutira, kusakhutira, kudziletsa pamaubwenzi achikondi ndipo, pamapeto pake, kusungulumwa.

Yves-Alexandre Thalmann, m'buku lomwe lalembedwa kuti lipatsidwe mutu wonsewo, watseka nkhaniyi mwanjira yokongola kwambiri: " Chiyembekezo chenicheni sichimakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi mnzake wamuukwati, koma pakukhulupirira kuti kudzipereka kwathu, kuyesetsa kwathu ndi chifuniro chathu, bola akhale obwezeretsanso, atha kupanga chibwenzi chilichonse kukhala cholimbikitsa komanso chosangalatsa pakapita nthawi. ".

Kodi mungakumane bwanji ndi anthu?

 « Anthu amaganiza kuti wokwatirana naye ndiwofananira, ndipo aliyense akuwathamangira. M'malo mwake, wamoyo weniweni ndiye kalilore, ndi munthu yemwe amakuwonetsani zonse zomwe zikukuyendetsani, amene amakubweretsani kuti muzilingalire kuti mutha kusintha zinthu m'moyo wanu. . Elizabeth Gilbert

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