Amayi okhala kunyumba: malingaliro oti musadzipatule

Mayi-kunyumba: chifukwa chiyani timadzimva tokha?

Kukhala mayi ndi vuto lalikulu pa moyo wa mkazi! Kufika kwapang'ono m'nyumba kumasonkhanitsa chidwi chake chonse komanso nthawi yake yonse. Zizoloŵezi za moyo, makamaka pamene munthu anali ndi moyo wotanganidwa waukatswiri, komanso kamvekedwe ka tsikulo amasinthidwa. Moyo watsiku ndi tsiku tsopano ukuzungulira zofuna za wakhanda: kuyamwitsa kapena kuyamwitsa m'botolo, kusintha matewera, kusamba, ntchito zapakhomo ... Kumbali ina, kutopa ndi mahomoni amasakanikirana, mukhoza kumva kupsinjika maganizo kwakukulu. Dziwani kuti, amayi ambiri ali ndi ana aang'ono a blues. Dziwani kuti nthawi zambiri kusapeza uku sikuyamba pakapita nthawi. Ndi kupuma, timapezanso mphamvu ndi khalidwe. Zonsezi ndi zakanthawi!

Kodi mungatani kuti musamakhale osungulumwa ngati ndinu mayi wokhala pakhomo?

Mukangobwerera kunyumba kuchokera kwa amayi, m'pofunika kuti muzilankhulana ndi okondedwa anu. Ngakhale mutakhala kuti mwatopa kwambiri ndikuvutika ndi zotsatira za kulankhula kwanu, dzipulumutseni mphindi zochepa kuyimba foni, dziwitsani mwana wanu kwa anzanu, yambitsani kabuku kakang'ono komwe amagawana ... Kulankhulana kudzakuthandizani kuti musamakhale nokha komanso kuti mukhale okhutira ndi mwana wanu. Maulendo oyenda ndi ma stroller paki amatha kuchitika m'magulu! Mwina, m'gulu lanu, amayi ena amangofuna kutsagana nanu? Ngati ana anu ali kusukulu, musazengereze kutenga nawo mbali m’zochitika za kusukulu. Bwanji? 'Kapena' chiyani? Pokhala bwenzi la makolo pa maulendo a sukulu, woimira kalasi kapena membala wa bungwe la sukulu. Ndi njira yabwino yolumikizirana ndi anthu omwe ali mumkhalidwe wanu. Pafupi ndi sukuluyi, pali ena ambiri mabungwe a amayi kukambirana ndi kupanga mabwenzi.

Banjali limathandiza kuti asakhale okha

Musanayambe kukhala mayi, ndinu mkazi komanso wokonda. Wokondedwa wanu, ngakhale atakhala kuntchito, angakuthandizeni kuthetsa kudzipatula. Choncho ndikofunikira kuti zokambirana zipitirire pogawana zithunzi kapena kuyimbira foni tsiku ndi tsiku, zochitika limodzi kapena kuitanira maanja ena kunyumba kudzadya chakudya chamadzulo. Nanga bwanji kubweretsa wolera ana kapena agogo kuti azisamalira fuko lanu? Mwayi wa a ulendo waung'ono awiri zabwino zomangitsa zomangira ndikuyika mafuta onunkhira pamtima. 

Kupeza nthawi yanu ngati mayi wokhala pakhomo

Kusunga zokonda zanu ndi chidziwitso chanu kumapewa kudzichepetsera, ndikuchoka pang'onopang'ono ku moyo waubwenzi podzinamizira kuti "tilibe chosangalatsa chotiuza". Nthawi yogona imatha kugwiritsidwa ntchito werengani buku labwino, yambitsani maphunziro a digito kapena kulumikizana ndi amayi ena kudzera pamasamba ochezera. Mukhozanso kupatsa ana anu kwa ola limodzi kwa mnansi kapena mnzanu, ndikupita ku kalasi ya yoga kapena kupita kokayenda. Nthawi ya inu nokha, nthawi zina kungosinkhasinkha kapena kulota, zomwe zimakupatsani mwayi wobwerera mmbuyo ndikupeza ana anu mosangalala ... Muyenera! Chifukwa kukhala mayi wokhala pakhomo ndi ntchito yanthawi zonse yokhala ndi malingaliro onse obwera nawo.

Lowani nawo gulu

Ngati inu simungakhoze kupirira kukhala wosachita, inunso mungathe kuchita ntchito zongodzipereka zomwe zingakutengereni maola angapo pa sabata. Mwachitsanzo, ndizotheka kuonetsetsa kuti laibulale ya m'boma lanu mwakhazikika, kusangalatsa odwala ndi okalamba m'malo azachipatala ndi gulu la Blouses Roses kapena kugawira chakudya kwa ovutika kwambiri ndi Restos du Cœur. Pali mabungwe ambiri omwe akusowa anthu odzipereka omwe akukuyembekezerani!

Siyani Mumakonda