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Kubala: adaundana mazira ake ku Spain
"Zonse zidayamba ndi kukaonana ndi dokotala wachikazi. Ndinkakhala ndi msambo komanso kusasamba komwe kumabwerera. Poda nkhawa, dokotala wanga nthawi yomweyo anandiuza kuti vutoli likhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha kulephera kwa ovarian molawirira. Mayeso omwe adandiyitanitsa adatsimikizira kuti ndili ndi matenda. Ndinali ndi ma oocyte ochepa komanso ochepa, mwayi wanga wokhala ndi pakati unachepa pamayendedwe. Malinga ndi iye, ndinali wofunikira kwambiri kuchita oocyte vitrification (kuzizira mazira anga kuti alowe mu m'mimba). Patapita masiku angapo, ndinalandiridwa kuchipatala kuti ndikaone ndondomeko yomwe ikubwera. Ndipo pamenepo, potoza: adokotala amandiuza kuti adalakwitsa. Sindikadachita mayeso omwe adawonetsa kutsika kwa chonde changa, chifukwa mulimonse, theiye malamulo sandilola kuzizira mazira anga **. Ku France, amayi okhawo omwe adzalandire chithandizo (chemotherapy) chomwe chingasinthe kubereka kwawo, ndipo posachedwa omwe amapereka ma oocyte, ali ndi ufulu woundana mazira awo. Kunena zoona, mwina ndinayesetsa kukhala ndi mwana mwamsanga, kapena ndinadziika pangozi yoti ndisakhale ndi pakati. Vuto losatheka.
Njira ina inaperekedwa kwa ine, kuti ndipite ku Spain kukaunda ma oocyte anga
Kumeneko, vitrification ndizotheka kwa amayi onse omwe akufuna pamtengo wokwera wandalama. Sindinalole kuti ndinyozedwe, ndinapita kwa akatswiri kuti ndiwafunse maganizo awo. Iwo adanditsimikizira kuti kwenikweni malamulo a ku France amaletsa kusungidwa kwa oocyte kwa ine. Mkhalidwe wanga unali watsopano, ndinali nditapeza chinachake chimene sindikanayenera kuchidziwa, kapena ayi panthawiyo. Nthawi zambiri, mayesowa amachitidwa kwa mayi yemwe akuwonetsa zizindikiro za kusabereka ndipo akuyesera kutenga pakati. Atha kupita ku IVF ngati zotsatira zake sizili bwino. Sizinali vuto langa ayi. Ndinali wosakwatiwa, ndinalibe mwayi wokhala ndi mnzanga amene tinali naye panthaŵi yobala mwana… Ndikadatha kuchotsa zonse izi m’maganizo mwanga, ndinadzinenera ndekha “zachisoni, tiwona mtsogolo. », Koma ayi, zinali kunja kwa funso, ine sindikanati ndikhale pachiwopsezo chokhala ndi menopausal ndisanakhale ndi ana.
Ngati kuli kofunikira kupita kunja kukayembekezera kudzakhala mayi tsiku lina, ndidzapita ...
Katswiri wanga adandilozera ku chipatala ku Valence, chomwe ndi chapamwamba kwambiri pa mafunso awa. Kuti atsogolere ndondomekoyi, adavomereza kuti ayambe kutsata ku France polemba mayeso. Lingaliro linali loti ndilimbikitse kutulutsa kwanga kwa ovulation kuti ndithe kusonkhanitsa ma oocyte pa nthawi yoyenera. Ultrasound, kuyezetsa magazi, jakisoni… Ndinatsatira ndondomekoyi podzikonzekeretsa momwe ndingathere kuti ndisachoke kuntchito kwambiri. Ndinasiya maganizo, ndinatsimikiza mtima kuti ndikwaniritse. Ndinakwera ndege kupita ku Valencia ndi amayi anga, patatsala sabata imodzi kuti chithandizo cha nkhonya chimatha. Ndinalandiridwa bwino ku chipatala, potsiriza, ndinamva kuti ndine wovomerezeka pamayendedwe anga ndipo ndinamva bwino. Ndinafotokozedwa momveka bwino njira yonse yothandizira, ndinalimbikitsidwa. Ndinapitiriza kuyesa magazi ndi jakisoni kwa sabata. D-day idafika, madokotala adanditenga ma oocyte anga pansi pa anesthesia wamba. Tsoka ilo, kuyesa koyambaku sikunapambane, kuphulika sikunasonkhanitse ma oocyte okwanira.. Ndinayenera kukonzanso ndondomekoyi kawiri, ndiko kuti kutsata ku France ndi puncture ku Spain. Madokotala pomalizira pake anaumitsa ma oocyte 22, amene tsopano akundidikirira mwakachetechete mufiriji ku Spain kaamba ka tsiku limene ndidzakhala wokonzeka kuyambitsa banja. M'malo mwake, kusungirako ndi kwaulere kwa zaka 3-5, ndiyeno kumakhala kolipiritsa. Kuzizira kozizira kumabwera pamtengo wapamwamba, osatchula ndalama zomwe zimayendera maulendo onse opita ndi kuchokera ku Spain.. Pamapeto pake, mtengo wake wonse unali pafupi € 15 pa ma punctures atatu. Popanda thandizo la banja langa, sindikanatha kulipira ndalama zoterozo! Lero, ndikumva mpumulo kuti ndinapanga chosankha chimenechi. Ndili ndi zaka 000, komabe palibe munthu m'moyo wanga, koma ndamasulidwa pang'ono kupsinjika ya wotchi yachilengedwe! Inde, ndikanakonda kutenga mimba mwachibadwa, kuchokera kwa mnyamata yemwe ndimamukonda. Koma ngati izi sizikugwira ntchito, nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi vuto. “
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** Ku France, ngati mukuvomera kupereka ma oocyte anu, ndizotheka kudziteteza nokha, mpaka zaka 37 zakubadwa. Kuwunikiridwanso kwa lamulo la bioethics lomwe lili mkangano lingalole amayi onse kuwasunga.