Tikukhala m'nthawi yakuchita bwino - intaneti komanso nkhani zowoneka bwino za momwe mungakhazikitsire zolinga, kuthana ndi zovuta ndikugonjetsera chipambano chatsopano. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, imodzi mwa magawo ofunikira panjira yopita ku moyo wabwino imatengedwa kuti ndi kuchoka kumalo otonthoza. Koma kodi n’zoona kuti tonse tili mmenemo? Ndipo kodi m'pofunikadi kuchisiya?
Ndani sanayimbidwe foni kuti atuluke m'malo awo otonthoza ndi ndani? Ndiko, kupitirira malire ake, kuti kupambana kumatiyembekezera, makochi ndi infobusinessmen amatitsimikizira. Pochita zachilendo komanso zodetsa nkhawa, timakulitsa ndikupeza maluso atsopano ndi chidziwitso. Komabe, si aliyense amene amafuna kukhala pachitukuko chokhazikika, ndipo izi ndi zachilendo.
Ngati mungoli ndi kusinthana kwa zilakolako ndi nthawi bata m'moyo wanu ndi omasuka kwa inu ndipo simukufuna kusintha, ndiye malangizo a anthu ena kusintha chinachake, "kugwedezani" ndi "kukhala munthu watsopano" osachepera mwanzeru. Kuonjezera apo, olimbikitsa ndi alangizi nthawi zambiri amaiwala kuti malo otonthoza a aliyense ndi osiyana ndipo njira yotulukamo imadalira zomwe munthu ali nazo. Ndipo ndithudi, momwe iye amakanira kupsinjika maganizo.
Mwachitsanzo, kwa wina sitepe yaikulu yodzigonjetsera ndiyo kuchita pa siteji kutsogolo kwa holo ya omvetsera, ndipo kwa munthu wina, chochita chenicheni ndicho kutembenukira kwa wodutsa mumsewu kaamba ka chithandizo. Ngati "chochita" chimodzi chikupita kuthamanga pafupi ndi nyumba, ndiye kuti chachiwiri ndikuchita nawo marathon. Choncho, mfundo yakuti "ingopeza ndikuchita" imagwira ntchito kwa aliyense m'njira zosiyanasiyana.
Mafunso awiri kwa ine ndekha
Ngati mukuganizabe zosiya malo anu otonthoza, muyenera kufufuza ngati mukufunikiradi kusintha.
Kuti muchite izi, yankhani mafunso ofunika:
- Kodi iyi ndi nthawi yoyenera? Zachidziwikire, ndizosatheka kukhala XNUMX% okonzekera china chatsopano. Koma mukhoza kuyesa "kuyika udzu" ndikupangitsa kukhala kosavuta kuchoka kumalo anu otonthoza - chifukwa ngati simunakonzekeretu sitepe yomwe mukufuna, ndiye kuti mwayi wolephera ndi wapamwamba.
- Kodi mukuzifuna? Yesani china chatsopano pamene mukufunadi. Ndipo osati pamene abwenzi akukukakamizani, osati chifukwa chakuti anzanu onse achita kale kapena wolemba blogger wodziwika bwino adalimbikitsa. Ngati zilankhulo zakunja ndizovuta kwa inu ndipo sizofunikira pantchito ndi moyo wonse, musataye mphamvu zanu, mitsempha, nthawi ndi ndalama pakuziphunzira.
Ingosamala kuti musanyenge ndikunena kuti «Sindikufuna izi» za chinthu chomwe chimangowoneka chovuta. Mwachitsanzo, simukutsimikiza kuti mwakonzeka kupita kuphwando la anzanu, kumene kudzakhala alendo ambiri. Ndi chiyani chomwe chimakulepheretsani kuchita zinthu zakunja: mantha kapena kusakhudzidwa?
Pezani yankho pogwiritsa ntchito njira yofufutira: yerekezani kuti muli ndi chofufutira chamatsenga chomwe chingachotse nkhawa zanu. Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani mukachigwiritsa ntchito? N'kutheka kuti, kuchotsa mantha m'maganizo, mudzazindikira kuti mukufunabe kukwaniritsa dongosolo lanu.
Tichoka kuti?
Tikachoka kumalo athu otonthoza, timadzipeza tili kumalo ena - ndipo awa si "malo omwe zozizwitsa zimachitika." Izi, mwina, ndi zolakwika wamba: anthu amaganiza kuti ndi zokwanira kungopita kwinakwake, ndipo zonse zikhala bwino. Koma kunja kwa malo otonthoza ndi madera ena awiri omwe amatsutsana wina ndi mzake: malo otambasula (kapena kukula) ndi malo oopsya.
Tambasula zone
Apa ndipamene kusapeza bwino kumalamulira: timakhala ndi nkhawa, koma titha kuzipanga kukhala zolimbikitsa ndikupeza mafuta kuti tigwire ntchito. Mu gawo ili, timapeza mipata yomwe inali yosadziwika, ndipo imatitsogolera kukukula kwathu komanso kudzikweza.
Palinso lingaliro lina lomwe linayambitsidwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Lev Vygotsky pophunzitsa ana: gawo la chitukuko cha proximal. Zikutanthauza kuti kunja kwa malo otonthoza, timangotenga zomwe tingachite ndi ukonde wachitetezo wa munthu wodziwa zambiri mpaka titakwanitsa kuchitapo kanthu. Chifukwa cha njirayi, timaphunzira zinthu zatsopano popanda kupsinjika, musataye mtima wofuna kuphunzira, kuwona kupita patsogolo kwathu ndikukhala ndi chidaliro.
mantha zone
Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani ngati tidziponyera tokha kunja kwa malo otonthoza popanda zinthu zokwanira - mkati kapena kunja? Tidzapezeka kuti tili m’dera limene nkhaŵa imaposa mphamvu zathu zolimbana nayo.
Chitsanzo ndi chikhumbo chodziwikiratu chofuna kusintha ndikuyamba moyo watsopano pano ndi pano. Timalingalira luso lathu mopambanitsa ndipo sitingathenso kulamulira mkhalidwewo, motero timakhumudwitsidwa ndi kuthedwa nzeru. Njira yotereyi siimayambitsa kukula kwaumwini, koma kubwereranso.
Chifukwa chake, kuti mupewe kupsinjika kosayenera, musanatichitire chinthu chatsopano komanso chachilendo, muyenera kudzimvera nokha ndikuwunika ngati nthawi yafikadi.