Akatswiri ambiri a zamaganizo ndi aphunzitsi amatsutsa kuti okhawo omwe ali ndi luso lodzipangira okha komanso amakhala okonzekera akhoza kukhala mtsogoleri. Ndi zoona? Kapena kodi aliyense angakhale mtsogoleri? Ndi mikhalidwe iti imene muyenera kukulitsa kuti muchite zimenezi? Wamalonda ndi mphunzitsi wamalonda Veronika Agafonova amayankha mafunso awa.
Kodi mtsogoleri ndi chiyani? Ameneyu ndi amene amasankha yekha ndipo sapereka udindo kwa ena. Atsogoleri samabadwa, amapangidwa. Ndiye mumayambira kuti?
Choyamba, muyenera kuzindikira kuti moyo wanu wakale sudalira tsogolo lanu. Osamangoganizira za nzeru za anthu "kumene unabadwira, zidafika bwino": ngati mumachokera ku banja la antchito, izi sizikutanthauza kuti simungathe kufika pamtunda. Mtsogoleri woona amadziwa kuti zivute zitani, chilichonse chikhoza kuchitika.
Chachiwiri, ndikofunikira kutenga udindo pazonse zomwe zimachitika pamoyo wanu. Ndi kulakwitsa kuganiza kuti pali zinthu zomwe sizingakhudzidwe, n'kopanda phindu kuimba mlandu chilengedwe chifukwa cha kulephera kwanu. Ngakhale ziwawa zipite kwa mtsogoleriyo, amamvetsetsa kuti chinali chisankho chake kukhala mumkhalidwewu. Iye sadalira mikhalidwe, amatha kuletsa chiwawa pakali pano komanso kuti asalowe muzochitika zofanana m'tsogolomu. Zili m’manja mwake kusankha maganizo oti avomereze, kapena osavomereza.
Kupanga mindandanda ya «zomwe ndiyenera kukhala wosangalala kwathunthu» zili bwino, koma ziyenera kunenedwa kwa inu.
Chachitatu, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chisangalalo chanu ndi chanu komanso ntchito yanu yokha. Palibe chifukwa chodikirira kuti ena akwaniritse zofuna zanu, monga momwe zimakhalira m'mabanja. Kupanga mndandanda wa «zomwe ndiyenera kukhala wosangalala kwathunthu» ndi zabwino, koma ziyenera kunenedwa kwa wekha, osati kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi, wachibale kapena mnzake. Mtsogoleri amapanga mindandanda yazofuna ndikuzikwaniritsa yekha.
Bizinesi yanga yoyamba inali sukulu yoimba. Mmenemo, ndinakumana ndi akuluakulu ambiri omwe anavutika kuti ali mwana sanatumizidwe kuti aphunzire kuimba izi kapena chida ichi, anadandaula za izo moyo wawo wonse, koma kwa nthawi yaitali sanachite kanthu kuti akwaniritse maloto awo. Utsogoleri: Sinachedwe kutenga sitepe yoyamba.
Utsogoleri wa moyo
Mtsogoleriyo samaganiza kuti amadziwa zonse. Amayesa zinthu zatsopano nthawi zonse, amaphunzira, amakulitsa, amakulitsa malingaliro ake ndikulola anthu atsopano ndi chidziwitso chatsopano m'moyo wake. Mtsogoleri ali ndi aphunzitsi ndi alangizi, koma samawatsatira mwachimbulimbuli, samawona mawu awo ngati chowonadi chenicheni.
Ndizotheka komanso kofunika kupita ku maphunziro, koma sikoyenera kukweza makochi kukhala wamkulu komanso osaganizira zonse zomwe akunena ngati zoona zenizeni. Munthu aliyense akhoza kulakwitsa, ndipo njira yothandiza kwa wina singakhale ngati ina.
Mtsogoleri ali ndi maganizo pa nkhani iliyonse, amamvetsera malingaliro a anthu ena, koma amasankha yekha.
Luso ndi chilimbikitso
Kodi mumafunika luso kuti mukhale mtsogoleri? Mtsogoleri weniweni samafunsa funso lotere: talente ndi chinthu chomwe chimaperekedwa kwa ife mwachibadwa, ndipo amagwiritsidwa ntchito kukhala mtsogoleri wa moyo wake. Mtsogoleri amadziwa kuti chilimbikitso ndichofunika kwambiri, kutha kumvetsetsa bwino zomwe mukufuna ndikuchita modzipereka kwathunthu kuti muchipeze.
Ngati munthu alephera kudzikonzekeretsa kuti akwaniritse chinachake mu bizinesi kapena kuntchito, ndiye kuti alibe chikhumbo chokwanira. Aliyense wa ife akhoza kukhala wadongosolo mubizinesi yomwe amafunikiradi. Chochitika cha utsogoleri ndi kusankha zinthu zofunika kwambiri komanso kupanga dongosolo. Ndipo chinthu chachikulu ndikudzizindikira nokha mu izi.
Zimangokhalira kukondana ndi chikhalidwe cha kusatsimikizika ndi chiopsezo, chifukwa popanda iwo chitukuko sichingatheke.
Ambiri aife sitikonda chipwirikiti ndi zosayembekezereka, ambiri amaopa zosadziwika. Ndife okonzeka: ntchito ya ubongo ndi kutiteteza ku chirichonse chatsopano, chomwe chingathe kutivulaza. Mtsogoleriyo amadzuka ku zovuta zachisokonezo ndi zosayembekezereka ndipo molimba mtima amachoka pamalo ake otonthoza.
Palibe dongosolo lenileni la momwe mungakhalire milionea mawa: bizinesi ndi ndalama nthawi zonse zimakhala pachiwopsezo. Mutha kupeza, koma mutha kutaya chilichonse. Ili ndilo lamulo lalikulu la dziko la ndalama zazikulu. Chifukwa chiyani pali ndalama - ngakhale m'chikondi mulibe chitsimikizo. Zimangokhalira kukondana ndi chikhalidwe cha kusatsimikizika ndi chiopsezo, chifukwa popanda iwo chitukuko sichingatheke.
Bungwe la moyo ndi bizinesi
Mtsogoleri samapita ndi kuyenda - amakonzekera moyo wake. Amasankha kuchuluka kwa ntchito komanso nthawi yoti agwire ntchito ndipo amapangira phindu kwa makasitomala ake. Amawona bwino cholinga chomaliza - zotsatira zomwe akufuna kupeza - ndipo amapeza anthu omwe angathandize kuti akwaniritse. Mtsogoleri saopa kudzizungulira ndi akatswiri amphamvu, saopa mpikisano, chifukwa amadziwa kuti chinsinsi cha kupambana ndi gulu lamphamvu. Mtsogoleri sayenera kumvetsetsa ma nuances onse, amatha kupeza omwe angawapatse izi.
Ntchito yovuta kwambiri ndikutenga udindo ndikukonza moyo wanu m'njira yomwe imatsogolera ku zotsatira zomwe mukufuna. Zovuta koma zotheka.