Psychology

Atsogoleri akuluakulu amalimbikitsa antchito ndikupeza maluso ochulukirachulukira mwa iwo, pomwe atsogoleri oopsa amalepheretsa anthu kukhala ndi chidwi, mphamvu zathupi komanso luntha. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Amy Morin amalankhula za kuopsa kwa mabwana otere kwa ogwira ntchito payekha komanso kampani yonse.

Makasitomala anga ambiri amadandaula kuti, “Bwana wanga ndi wankhanza. Ndiyenera kufunafuna ntchito yatsopano” kapena “Ndinkakonda kwambiri ntchito yanga, koma ndi kasamalidwe katsopano, ofesiyo inakhala yosapiririka. Sindikudziwa kuti nditenga nthawi yayitali bwanji. ” Ndipo alipo. Kugwirira ntchito kwa bwana wapoizoni kumawononga kwambiri moyo.

Kodi mabwana oopsa amachokera kuti?

Atsogoleri oipa sakhala ndi poizoni nthawi zonse. Ena alibe makhalidwe abwino a utsogoleri: luso la bungwe ndi luso loyankhulana. Atsogoleri oopsa amavulaza ena osati chifukwa chosadziwa, koma chifukwa cha "kukonda luso." M'manja mwawo, mantha ndi mantha ndizo zida zazikulu zowongolera. Sanyozetsa kunyozeka ndi kuwopseza kukwaniritsa zolinga zawo.

Atsogoleri otere nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mikhalidwe ya psychopath ndi narcissist. Sadziwa kuti kumvera ena chisoni n’chiyani ndipo sagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zawo molakwika.

Zoopsa zomwe angayambitse

Ofufuza aku University of Manchester Business School apeza momwe mabwana oopsa amakhudzira omwe ali pansi. Iwo anafunsa anthu 1200 ogwira ntchito m’mafakitale osiyanasiyana ochokera m’mayiko angapo. Ogwira ntchito pansi pa atsogoleriwa adanenanso kuti akukumana ndi kuchepa kwa ntchito.

Ofufuzawo adapezanso kuti zowawa zomwe ogwira ntchito amakumana nazo pantchito zidapitiliranso m'miyoyo yawo. Ogwira ntchito omwe amayenera kupirira mabwana a narcissistic ndi psychopathic anali ndi mwayi wovutika maganizo.

Otsogolera poizoni amawononga chikhalidwe chamakampani

Khalidwe lawo ndi lopatsirana: limafalikira pakati pa antchito ngati moto m'nkhalango. Ogwira ntchito nthawi zambiri amadzudzulana ndikutengera ena ulemu komanso amakhala aukali.

Kafukufuku wa 2016 University of Michigan anapeza zotsatira zofanana. Mfundo zazikuluzikulu za khalidwe la mabwana otere: mwano, kunyoza ndi kunyozetsa anthu omwe ali pansi pawo kumayambitsa kutopa kwamaganizo ndi kusafuna kugwira ntchito.

Ubale wapoizoni ndi woyipa osati pakhalidwe lokha, komanso phindu la kampani.

Panthawi imodzimodziyo, malo oipa a kuntchito amathandizira kuchepetsa kudziletsa pakati pa antchito wamba komanso kuwonjezeka kwa mwayi wa khalidwe lawo lamwano kwa anzawo. Ubale wosatukuka wogwirira ntchito ndi woyipa osati pakhalidwe lokha, komanso phindu la kampani. Ofufuzawo adawerengera kuti kutayika kwachuma kwakampani komwe kumakhudzana ndi malo onyansa ndi pafupifupi $ 14 pa wogwira ntchito aliyense.

Kodi mungayese bwanji kupambana kwa mtsogoleri?

Tsoka ilo, mabungwe ambiri amayesa zochita za atsogoleri potengera zotsatira za munthu aliyense. Nthawi zina mabwana oopsa amatha kukwaniritsa zolinga zazing'ono, koma sizibweretsa kusintha kwabwino. Ziwopsezo ndi zachinyengo zimatha kukakamiza ogwira ntchito kuti azigwira ntchito maola 12 osapuma tsiku, koma njira iyi imakhala ndi nthawi yayitali. Khalidwe la abwana limasokoneza chilimbikitso ndi zokolola.

Ogwira ntchito amakhala pachiwopsezo chotopa kwambiri chifukwa chosayendetsa bwino, ndipo kupsinjika nthawi zonse kuntchito kumabweretsa kuchepa kwa zokolola komanso kusakhutira.

Powunika momwe mtsogoleri akuyendera, ndikofunika kuti tisayang'ane zotsatira za munthu payekha, koma chithunzi chonse ndikukumbukira kuti zochita za mtsogoleri zikhoza kubweretsa zotsatira zoipa kwa bungwe.

Siyani Mumakonda