Amuna a ndevu amasonkhanitsa amuna ometedwa bwino osati pamasamba a magazini onyezimira okha, komanso m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, zomwe zimapangitsa opanga kumeta thovu kupsinjika. Kodi nchifukwa ninji tsitsi lakumaso linakhala lapamwamba ndipo kodi ndevu kwenikweni ndi chizindikiro chaumuna?
Chifukwa chiyani ndevu zikuyenda bwino? Kodi akatswiri a zamaganizo amawona bwanji chodabwitsa ichi? Kodi ndevu zimachititsadi mwamuna kukhala wokongola? Ndipo mafashoni a tsitsi la nkhope adzakhala nthawi yayitali bwanji? Mayankho a mafunso amenewa angapezeke mu kafukufuku wa sayansi.
Ndevu zimakongoletsa mwamuna
Kalelo mu 1973, katswiri wa zamaganizo Robert Pellegrini wochokera ku yunivesite ya San Jose (USA) anapeza kuti amuna a ndevu amaonedwa kuti ndi okongola, amphongo, okhwima, olamulira, olimba mtima, omasuka, oyambirira, ogwira ntchito mwakhama komanso opambana. Zingawoneke kuti zinali kale kwambiri, m'nthawi ya ma hippies okonda ufulu.
Komabe, posachedwapa, asayansi otsogozedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo Robert Brooks wa ku yunivesite ya Sydney (Australia) anafika pamaganizo ofananawo.
Oyankha aamuna ndi aakazi onse anasonyezedwa zithunzi za mwamuna yemweyo, wometedwa bwino, ali ndi ziputu ndi ndevu zochindikala. Zotsatira zake, masiku awiri osameta adapambana pakukopa kwa akazi, ndi ndevu zonse za amuna. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, onse aŵiri anagwirizana kuti anali munthu wandevu amene mothekera kuwonedwa kukhala tate wabwino ndi mwiniwake wa thanzi labwino.
“Sitikudziwabe kuti ndevu n’chiyani poyamba,” akutero Robert Brooks. "Mwachiwonekere, ichi ndi chizindikiro cha umuna, ndi iye mwamuna amawoneka wachikulire komanso nthawi yomweyo wankhanza."
Tili pa "nsonga ya ndevu"
Chochititsa chidwi - wolemba mabuku a biopsychology Nigel Barber, popenda ndevu ku Great Britain mu 1842-1971, adapeza kuti masharubu, komanso tsitsi la nkhope mwa amuna, limakhala lodziwika kwambiri panthawi ya kuchulukitsitsa kwa akwati ndi amuna. kusowa kwa akwatibwi. Chizindikiro cha chikhalidwe chapamwamba komanso kukhwima, ndevu ndi mwayi wampikisano pamsika waukwati.
Nigel Barber adazindikiranso chitsanzo: amuna ambiri a ndevu pamapeto pake amachepetsa kukongola kwa ndevu. Wachikoka "wandevu" ndi wabwino motsutsana ndi maziko opanda tsitsi. Koma mwa mtundu wake, saperekanso lingaliro la "munthu wamaloto". Choncho, pamene ngakhale otsutsa achiwawa asiya ndevu, mafashoni a nkhanza adzatha.
Ndevu zanu zatuluka
Kwa iwo omwe akuganiza mozama kukulitsa ndevu kuti aziwoneka ngati amuna, koma osayesa kusintha chithunzi chawo, ndevu zabodza zochokera kumasewera owonetsera ziwonetsero zidzawapulumutsa.
Katswiri wa zamaganizo Douglas Wood wochokera ku yunivesite ya Maine (USA) akunena kuti ngakhale zabodza, koma zogwirizana bwino ndi mtundu wa ndevu, ndevu zimapatsa achinyamata chidaliro.
Iye anati: “Anthu amakonda kutengera maganizo a munthu wina momveka bwino komanso mongoyerekezera ndi ena. "Ndevu nthawi yomweyo imagwira diso ndikuyika kamvekedwe kake."