Chinsinsi cha ubale wabwino ndi nkhondo yoyenera

Kugwirizana kwa anthu awiri kungadziwike m'njira zambiri potengera mikhalidwe ya anthu okwatirana. Aliyense amadziwa zofunikira zogwirizana: zikhulupiriro zofanana, kulankhulana kwabwino, kukhulupirika. Koma chinthu chofunikira kwambiri sichidziwika - kalembedwe kanu komenyera nkhondo.

Ndi momwe mumalimbana kapena kukangana ndizomwe zimatsimikizira kulimba kwa ubale wanu m'tsogolomu. Pamene onse awiri ali ndi maganizo abwino, sakakamizidwa ndi zisankho zovuta ndipo zonse zimayenda ngati clockwork - kugwirizana n'kosavuta. Mavuto amalimbitsa kapena kuwononga maubale. Izi sizongochitika mwangozi - ndi nthawi ngati izi pomwe mumawona zomwe muyenera kudziwa za munthu.

M'munsimu muli mndandanda wa masitayelo omwe anthu amagwiritsa ntchito pomenya nkhondo, kuyambira atsoka kwambiri mpaka abwino kwambiri. Kusintha kwa masitayelo athanzi kudzapindulitsa okwatirana ambiri. Koma chofunika kwambiri n’chakuti onse awiri amagwiritsa ntchito kalembedwe kofanana. Anthu akamakambirana m’njira zosiyanasiyana, mkanganowo umavuta kwambiri kuthetsa.

Kuchotsa

Othandizana nawo sakambirana za vutoli mozama: wina akangolidzutsa, wina amasintha mutu wa zokambirana. Anthu a masitayelo amenewa amakana kuvomereza malingaliro kapena malingaliro omwe amasemphana ndi zomwe amakonda. Amakonda kutsutsa mikangano, kukhala aumwini, ndikukhala aukali. Kawirikawiri izi ndi zotsatira za osalimba «Ine» - anthu sangakhoze kupirira kumva kuti iwo akulakwitsa. Safuna n’komwe kuganiza zosintha khalidwe chifukwa cha munthu wina.

Kuchepetsa maganizo

Anthu otere amayamba kupondereza malingaliro, ndiyeno kupsa mtima. Amaopa kuti ena sangaone zomwe akumana nazo kapena sangazione kukhala zofunika kwa iwo. Koma panthawi ina, amadzazidwa ndi maganizo, ndipo "amaphulika". Chifukwa chake ndi chophweka - anthu amatopa kumva ngati malingaliro awo sakutanthauza kanthu. Ndi mkwiyo ndi kupsa mtima, iwo akuyesera kutsimikizira kufunika kwawo. Chikhalidwe china cha anthu oterowo ndi chakuti pambuyo pa kusweka, amaiwala mwamsanga ndikupitirizabe kukhala ngati palibe chomwe chinachitika.

Dominance

Anthu olamulira amazindikira malingaliro a munthu wina, koma osawamvera. M'malo mwake, amapeza njira zozungulira zotsimikizira wotsutsayo kuti malingaliro ake ndi olakwika kapena amachokera pazidziwitso zolakwika. Anthu a sitayelo otchuka nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda chifundo. Ngakhale iwo eni, monga lamulo, ndi anthu okhudzidwa komanso osatetezeka. N’chifukwa chake safuna kuvomereza kuti analakwitsa kapena kukhumudwitsa munthu wina. Maonekedwe a Narcissus amateteza munthu tcheru kudziko lakunja.

Thandizo pazachilengedwe komanso kusinthika kwazinthu pakati pa ma SME

Anthu omwe ali ndi kalembedwe kameneka ali ndi cholinga chimodzi - kukwaniritsa mgwirizano. Kunyada kowawa sikuli kofala kwa iwo, motero amavomereza mofatsa zonena za ena ndi kufotokoza malingaliro awo poyankha. Anthu oterowo amalamulira kamvekedwe ka mawu ndi kudzisunga bwino m’manja. Amagwiritsa ntchito njira zapadera kuti zokambirana zisasokonezeke: mwachitsanzo, amapuma mkangano kapena amalemba manotsi pamene zokambirana zikupita. Othandizana nawo omwe adagwiritsa ntchito masitayelo osiyanasiyana m'mbuyomu, koma adaphunzira kulumikizana bwino pakapita nthawi, nthawi zambiri amabwera kumayendedwe othandizira. Ngati mmodzi wa okwatiranawo amakonda kalembedwe kameneka poyamba, sikophweka kukopa mnzakeyo kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwezo.

Kulankhulana kwaulere

Kulankhulana kwaufulu ndicho cholinga chachikulu. Mwanjira imeneyi, anthu onse amakhala omasuka kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo panthawi yomwe akuwuka. Anthu a kalembedwe kameneka amamvetsetsa bwino maganizo awo ndipo amatha kufotokoza molondola, zomwe zimathandiza mnzanuyo kumvetsa. Kuwongolera kamvekedwe ka mawu ndi kukwiya ndikofunikira kuti pakhale kulumikizana kwaufulu kwachipambano, ndipo maanja nthawi zambiri amaphunzira izi podziwa njira yophunzitsira. Anthu amene amagwiritsa ntchito njira yolankhulirana momasuka sapewa mavuto nthawi zonse. Komabe, iwo ndi osavuta kuthana ndi zovuta mu maubwenzi ndikufikira njira yolumikizirana momwe aliyense amamvera.