Mayi wina wa ku America yemwe ali ndi matenda osowa majini sakanatha kubereka mwana ndipo sanali wokonzeka kugwirizana ndi vutoli. Mlongo wake wamapasa, yemwe anali atabereka kale ana awiri, anabwera kudzathandiza. Kodi ndinu wokonzeka kumuchitira chiyani wokondedwa wanu?
Amy Fuggiti wazaka 36 ndi Courtney Essenpreis ndi mapasa agalasi ochokera ku Chicago, USA. Mapasa amtundu uwu amadziwika ndi mawonekedwe a galasi: mwachitsanzo, mmodzi wa iwo ali ndi mole pa tsaya lake lakumanja, ndipo winayo ali ndi mole kumanzere kwake. Amy ndi Courtney ngakhale ali ndi mayina akusewera - "Righty" ndi "Lefty".
Komabe, matenda osowa majini anapatsira awiri nthawi imodzi. Azimayi amakhala ndi matenda a Axenfeld-Rieger, omwe amakhudza maso, makutu, ndi dongosolo lapakati lamanjenje.
Pali mwayi wa 50% woti matendawa athe kufalikira kwa ana, kotero Amy ndi Kourtney adatha kutenga pakati kudzera mu in vitro fertilization (IVF). Njirayi ikutanthauza kuti akatswiri mu labotale amayang'ana mazira onse ngati ali ndi matenda ndikubzala okhawo omwe alibe vuto lililonse.
"Ndikanena kuti "Tili ndi pakati", ndikutanthauza ndekha, mwamuna wanga ndi mlongo wanga"
Amy adadutsa IVF kanayi, koma adalephera. Miluzayo mwina sinapimidwe chibadwa kapena sanaikidwe m’chiberekero cha mkazi. “Madokotala anadabwa ndi vuto langa. Chiberekero chinkawoneka bwino, miluzayo idayezetsa chromosomal, ndipo palibe amene adamvetsetsa chifukwa chake palibe chomwe chidatuluka, "adatero. Mayiyo adayesanso kutenga pakati mothandizidwa ndi mazira omwe amaperekedwa kuchokera kwa mlongo wake, ndipo zoyesayesazi sizinabweretse mimba.
Patatha zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi, Amy ndi mwamuna wake adalandira mluza wathanzi - "golide", koma adawopa kuti kuyesanso kuthira manyowa sikutheka. Panthawiyo, mlongo wake analowererapo, yemwe anabala ana awiri, komanso mothandizidwa ndi IVF. “Sindinafunikire n’komwe kumufunsa kuti akhale mayi woberekera ana. Zinkawoneka ngati ziyenera kutero, "adatero Amy.
Chifukwa chake, mluzawo unabzalidwa m’chiberekero cha Courtney. “Ndikanena kuti ‘Tili ndi pakati’ ndikutanthauza ine ndekha, mwamuna wanga ndi mlongo wanga,” anatero Amy. "Tinachitira limodzi." Mwanayo akuyembekezeka mu Okutobala 2021.