Sanathe kuthetsa vuto la kunenepa kwambiri kuyambira ali mwana.
Pofika zaka 39, Sharon Blakemore amalemera pang'ono makilogalamu 75 ndipo akumva bwino. Komabe, panali nthawi m'moyo wake pomwe samatha kupeza zovala zazikulu kukula kwake. Mavuto onenepa akhala akumusowetsa mtendere kuyambira ali mwana. Zinafika poti tsiku limodzi Sharon amatha kudya ma pie awiri athunthu ndikulanda onse ndi tchipisi.
“Ndikakhala kusukulu, ndimayenera kugula malaya a yunifolomu ya amuna. Ndipo nditakhala ndi pakati, sindinapeze kukula koyenera m'masitolo aliwonse a amayi oyembekezera. Ndinayenera kuvala m'masitolo amasewera a amuna, "Sharon adauza Mirror.
Makolo anayesa mwanjira mwana wawo wamkazi, koma zoyesayesa zonse sizinathandize. "Amayi anga anali namwino wothandizira ana, chifukwa chake adayesetsa kundiphunzitsa chizolowezi chodya bwino, koma sindimamumvera ndikudya chilichonse pomwe samatha kuwona."
Kuphatikiza pa ma pie ndi tchipisi, zakudya za Sharon zimaphatikizaponso zotengera, ma cookie, ndi zakudya zina zopanda pake. Zotsatira zake, kulemera kwa msungwanayo kudafika makilogalamu 240, ndipo kukula kwa zovala kunali 8XL. Koma zonsezi zidasintha mu Januware 2011.
Amayi a Sharon adamwalira ndi khansa ya m'mimba. Asanamwalire, anapempha mwana wake wamkazi kuti adzitenge yekha. "Atatsala pang'ono kumwalira, adati, 'Uyenera kudzimvetsetsa. Ngati si ife, chitani izi kwa ana. "Amayi anali ndi nkhawa kwambiri za ine, chifukwa kunenepa kwambiri kumawonjezera ngozi ya khansa," akukumbukira Sharon.
Chochitika chomvetsa chisoni chidapangitsa kuti mtsikanayo adziyese yekha. Koma panali vuto lina patsogolo - patatha miyezi 18 bambo ake anamwalira ndi khansa. Ndipo adalimbikitsanso Sharon kuti amenye mapaundi owonjezera.
“Patha chaka chimodzi kuchokera pamene amayi athu anamwalira bambo anga atadwala. Ndipo anandiuza kuti: 'Wachita kale, koma uyenera kupitiriza, monga momwe unalonjezera amayi ako.'
Poyamba, Sharon adataya thupi chifukwa chodzidzimutsa kwambiri. Ndipo pofika chaka cha 2013, atakwatiwa ndi Ian, bambo wa ana ake awiri, kulemera kwake kudatsika mpaka makilogalamu 120. Koma sanaiwale lonjezo lomwe adapanga kwa makolo ake omwe anali atamwalira. Ndipo adayamba kuchita bizinesi mozama kwambiri.
Tsopano mayi wokangalika amasewera netball, amapita kukachita masewera olimbitsa thupi katatu pamlungu, amavina ndikudya zakudya zokhazokha zokonzedwa kunyumba. Zosinthazo sizinachedwe kubwera. Sharon anataya makilogalamu ena 40. Madokotala amakhala otsimikiza kuti mkazi atha kutaya zochulukirapo akaganiza zochitidwa opareshoni yochotsa khungu lake, koma safuna kupita pansi pa mpeni. "Ndikadakonda kugwiritsa ntchito ndalamazi kukumbukira ana anga," akutero mayiyo.
Sharon adakwaniritsa zomwe adachita ndi tattoo yayikulu mthupi lake. Nthawi ina, ambuye ena adamukana chifukwa cha kulemera kwake. “Lonjezo lomwe ndidapanga kwa makolo anga lidandilimbikitsa. Ndipo ndine wokondwa kuti ndayesetsa kukwaniritsa izi. Koma zonse sizikanatheka popanda kuthandizidwa ndi mwamuna wanga. Anandithandiza pantchito yovutayi, ndipo tsopano amaseka kuti ali ndi mkazi watsopano komanso kuti pali malo ambiri pabedi. "