Mafilimu anali ndipo amakhalabe galasi la "matenda" a anthu komanso mtundu wa chitsogozo kwa anthu omwe amagwira ntchito pa maubwenzi. Kutengera ndi machitidwe a anzathu omwe ali pazenera, timaphunzira kupanga zokambirana ndi mnzathu, ndipo nthawi zina timachita zosemphana ndi omwe amatsutsana nawo kuti tipeze moyo wabwino: mwachitsanzo, timakana Gosha (aka Goga). , amene amadziwikanso kuti Zhora) kuopa kudzipeza tili mumsampha wonyenga. Kodi mungaphunzire chiyani kuchokera kwa omwe adasewera mu sewero latsopano lachikondi "(OSATI) munthu wangwiro"?
Musalole nkhani yosangalatsa ya dziko lamtsogolo, kumene anyamata ndi atsikana a cybernetic amaperekedwa mosiyanasiyana pamtengo wotsika mtengo kapena ngakhale ngongole, akusokeretseni. Ojambula pazithunzi anagwiritsa ntchito kulingalira kwamtsogolo monga fanizo la ungwiro. Ndiyeno zosangalatsa zimayamba: kusankha kwa heroine muzochitika zina. Kodi chidziwitso chake chingagwiritsidwe ntchito pa moyo waumwini wa mkazi wamakono kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychology ya maubwenzi apakati?
1. Chiwembu
Kwa Sveta (anaseweredwa ndi Yulia Aleksandrova mufilimuyi), kukhulupirika kwa mwamuna ndi imodzi mwa maziko a ubale. Komanso, kuperekedwa kwa chibwenzi kumakhala koyambitsa chiwembucho. Chisankho chokha chosiya maubale "cha mwakachetechete ndi mwamtendere" sichichokera kwa munthu wamkulu, koma "wopereka" mwiniwakeyo, chifukwa amazindikira kuti kuperekedwa kubwerezedwa kangapo. Pambuyo pake, heroine ikapeza robot pamalo osadziwika bwino, imaphwanya khalidwe ndikumasula nkhanza, ikuyang'ana kwa mdani wake. Loboti imapeza - ndipo ndi zabwino kuti m'chilengedwe chonse cha "(OSATI) munthu wabwino" ufulu wa biomechanisms suli wotetezedwa mokwanira, apo ayi mlanduwo ukanathera kukhothi.
Khonsolo. Mkangano uliwonse suyenera kufikitsidwa mpaka kumenyedwa, ngakhale kuti nthawi zina kumakhala kovuta kudziletsa. Kutembenuza mkwiyo wobadwa nawo kukhala wachiwawa ndi anthu ambiri osakhwima omwe ali ndi chifundo chochepa. Yang'anirani kuchuluka kwaukali wanu ndi kusinkhasinkha, kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kupuma ndi masewera, ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, funani thandizo kwa katswiri.
2. Kuletsa kutengeka mtima
Pokambirana ndi abwenzi komanso m'ma monologues amkati, timafotokoza ma epithets abwino okha. Ndi wolimbikira ntchito, wachikondi komanso wodekha. Izi ndi zomwe wokondedwa wa Sveta ali - loboti… Chilema chaukadaulo chinamupatsa malingaliro aumunthu: mantha, chizolowezi chokhumudwa. Kodi akulondola?
Khonsolo. Lolani mnzanuyo ndi inu nokha kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana omwe amapangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wokwanira. Izi sizokhudza mikangano ndi masewera owopsa chifukwa cha adrenaline koyera, koma za ufulu wa kufooka, chisangalalo chaubwana, misozi, kutopa, kuthawa kwakanthawi. Musaiwale kuti ndikutha kukhala ndi malingaliro omwe amapangitsa munthu kukhala "wamoyo".
3. Neurotic woipa bwalo
Chimodzi mwazopempha zofala kwambiri kwa othandizira ndichokhudzana ndi machitidwe obwerezabwereza a ubale. Nchifukwa chiyani abwenzi onse am'mbuyomu adachititsa manyazi, kunyoza, kunyenga - ndipo mnyamata watsopanoyo atangoyamba kumene nthawi yamaluwa a maswiti akuyamba kukhala opanda nzeru? Vutoli likhoza kuthetsedwa kokha ndi khama lamphamvu kwambiri la chifuniro kapena pogwira ntchito ndi katswiri. Chovuta kwambiri ndikukhulupiliranso mwa inu nokha ndikudalira mwamuna, makamaka ngati zochitika zam'mbuyomu zidakhala zokhumudwitsa - monga za Sveta.
Heroine wathu, atadutsa muzokhumudwitsa zamtundu womwewo, adapeza mphamvu zokondanso. Koma ichi si chikondi chakhungu, koma chomveka bwino.
Khonsolo. Ngati mumakonda amuna amtundu wina, khalani okonzekera "rake" yakale, yoponderezedwa bwino: ma neuroses awiri adakumana, amakhala nthawi yayitali, koma osasangalala. Ndizovuta kuzitcha chikondi ichi, kudalirana ndi mawu oyenera kwambiri. Kodi mungasinthe bwanji vutoli? Choyamba, onetsani kufanana kwa wakale wanu ndikupewa anthu ofanana, ndiyeno mverani malingaliro anu. Chitonthozo ndi mtendere zidzawoneka pafupi ndi iwo omwe ali oyenerera chidwi chanu.
4. Osazengereza mpaka mawa…
Mkwiyo woyipa wa ngwazi ya filimuyo "(OSATI) munthu wabwino" wayamba kale kukhala "mapiko": "Osasiya mawa amene mungagone naye lero." Zikumveka zomveka, koma Sveta sanafulumire. Ndipo anachita zoyenera!
Khonsolo. Chisankho ndi chanu nthawi zonse, koma muyenera kudziwa kuti m'moyo pamodzi, kudalirana ndi kulemekezana ndizokwera kwambiri kuposa kugonana. Choncho, zogona si tchimo kusiya pang'ono mpaka mutadziwana bwino ndi mnzanuyo. Chizolowezi chothandiza, makamaka ngati muli ndi zolinga zazikulu za mwamuna uyu.
Nkhani yoseketsa, yachikondi komanso nthawi zina yopusa ya mkazi komanso loboti yokongola "(OSATI) mwamuna wangwiro" . Musaphonye mwayi wowona ndi maso anu zomwe (osati) ubale wangwiro ndi (osati) mwamuna wangwiro udzatsogolera.