Psychology

Pakati pa oyang'anira apamwamba a Silicon Valley, pali otsogolera ochulukirapo kuposa otulutsa. Kodi chimachitika n'chiyani kuti anthu amene amapewa kulankhulana aziyenda bwino? Carl Moore, mlembi wa maphunziro opititsa patsogolo utsogoleri, amakhulupirira kuti otsogolera, monga palibe wina aliyense, amadziwa kupanga mayanjano othandiza.

Monga mukudziwa, kulumikizana ndi chilichonse. Ndipo m'dziko lamalonda, simungachite popanda mabwenzi othandiza. Izi ndizofunika komanso chithandizo pazovuta. Kutha kupanga malumikizano ndikofunikira pabizinesi.

Rajeev Behira wakhala akugwira ntchito ku Silicon Valley kwa zaka 7 zapitazi, akutsogolera otsatsa pamayambiriro osiyanasiyana. Tsopano akutsogolera kuyambika komwe kwapanga pulogalamu ya Reflective, yomwe imalola antchito a kampani kupereka ndi kulandira ndemanga zenizeni nthawi zonse. Mofanana ndi mamenejala ambiri apamwamba ku Silicon Valley, Rajiv ndi introvert, koma akhoza kuphunzitsa momwe angakhalire ndi anthu ochezeka komanso achangu, komanso kuwaposa pa chiwerengero cha anthu omwe amawadziwa. Malangizo ake atatu.

1. Yang'anani pakulankhulana maso ndi maso ndi manejala wanu

Extroverts, omwe mwachibadwa amakhala ochezeka, amakhala okonzeka nthawi zonse kukambirana za ntchito yawo yamakono, zolinga zawo ndi kupita patsogolo komwe kumachitika mosavuta. Amalankhula za izi mosavuta komanso momasuka, kotero mameneja nthawi zambiri amadziwa bwino momwe amagwirira ntchito. Ma introverts osalankhula angawoneke osapindulitsa powayerekeza.

Kuthekera kwa ma introverts kuyankhulana mwakuya kumawathandiza kupanga maubwenzi ndi anzawo mwachangu.

Rajiv Behira amapempha oyambitsa kuti agwiritse ntchito mphamvu zawo - izi zikuphatikizapo, mwachitsanzo, chizolowezi chokambirana mavuto mozama, kufufuza mwatsatanetsatane. Yesetsani kulankhula ndi bwana wanu mmodzimmodzi kwa mphindi zosachepera 5 tsiku lililonse, ndikukuuzani momwe ntchito ikuyendera. Izi sizimangokulolani kuti mupereke malingaliro anu kwa oyang'anira, komanso zimathandizira kumanga ubale wolimba ndi oyang'anira anu omwe ali pafupi.

Popeza nthawi zambiri zimakhala zosavuta kuti otsogolera azilankhulana m'modzi-m'modzi kusiyana ndi kulankhula pamaso pa anzawo, njira iyi idzawathandiza kuti "awonekere" kwa oyang'anira awo.

"Mukamalankhulana, chinthu chachikulu ndikugawana nawo malingaliro ofunikira ndikufotokozera momveka bwino ntchito yomwe mukugwira. Pangani ubale wanu ndi manejala wanu kunja kwa misonkhano yamagulu."

2. Yang'anani pa khalidwe pa kuchuluka

Misonkhano yamagulu - misonkhano, congresses, symposiums, ziwonetsero - ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la bizinesi. Ndipo kwa ma introverts ambiri, zikuwoneka zolemetsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Panthawi yolankhulana pagulu, munthu yemwe amalankhulana naye amachoka msanga kuchoka kwa munthu kupita kwa wina, kuyankhulana ndi aliyense kwa nthawi yochepa, ndipo oyambitsa amayamba kukambirana nthawi yayitali ndi anthu ochepa.

Kukambitsirana kwautali koteroko kungakhale chiyambi cha maubwenzi (ndi bizinesi) omwe angakhalepo kwa chaka chimodzi. An extrovert adzabweranso kuchokera kumsonkhano ndi mulu wandiweyani wa makhadi bizinesi, koma pambuyo kulankhula mwachidule ndi zachiphamaso, chabwino, iye kusinthana angapo maimelo ndi anzawo atsopano, ndipo iwo kuiwala za wina ndi mzake.

Ma introverts nthawi zambiri amafunsidwa kuti awapatse malangizo, chifukwa amadziwa kupanga zidziwitso.

Momwemonso, ma introverts amapanga ndikusunga ubale wapamtima mkati mwa kampani. Wogwira ntchito akafika pamlingo wina mu utsogoleri wa bungwe, amakhala m'kagulu kakang'ono ka anzake apamtima.

Koma ngakhale izi, ndizothandiza kusunga maubwenzi ndi ogwira ntchito omwe amagwira ntchito m'magawo ena ndi m'madipatimenti ena. Umu ndi momwe ma introverts amatsimikizira kuti amadziwika bwino mkati mwa kampaniyo, mwina si onse ogwira ntchito, koma omwe amalumikizana nawo amakhazikitsidwa, amawadziwa bwino kwambiri.

3. Phatikizani zambiri

Nthawi zonse zimakhala zothandiza ngati bwana ali ndi gwero lina lachidziwitso. Kwa Rajiv Behira, anzake amene anakhala nawo paubwenzi wabwino afikira kukhala magwero oterowo. Pamisonkhano m’magulu awo ogwira ntchito, antchito ameneŵa ankapanga chidziŵitso ndikupereka zofunika kwambiri kwa iye.

Imodzi mwa mphamvu za ma introverts ndi kuthekera kwawo kukonza zidziwitso zambiri. Pamisonkhano, m’malo molankhula zambiri, amamvetsera mwatcheru ndiyeno amauzanso bwana wawo zinthu zofunika kwambiri. Chifukwa cha luso limeneli, nthawi zambiri amakhala ozindikira kwambiri, choncho nthawi zambiri amatembenukira kwa malangizo ndikuwalowetsamo momwe angathere.

Ma introverts amayenera kuti malingaliro awo amvedwe ndikuganiziridwa.

Siyani Mumakonda