Kutchuka kwa maphunziro akukula kwamunthu lero ndi kwakukulu kuposa kale. Timayesetsa kudzimvetsa tokha, kuzindikira mbali zatsopano za umunthu wathu. Panali ngakhale kudalira maphunziro - njira yatsopano yosakhala ndi moyo, koma kusewera moyo. Katswiri wa zamaganizo Elena Sokolova akufotokoza chifukwa chake kutengeka koteroko kuli koopsa komanso momwe angachotsere.
Ndimapeza maphunziro abwino aukadaulo ogwira mtima. Amathandiza amene akufuna kusintha ndipo ali okonzeka kutero. Koma m'zaka zingapo zapitazi, ochulukirachulukira omwe akufunafuna «piritsi lamatsenga» - kusintha mwachangu m'moyo popanda khama pawo.
Nthawi zonse amapita ku makalasi atsopano ndipo amakhala okonda maphunziro. Muyenera kuti munawaona anthu oterowo. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi "chidziwitso" chapadera chokhudza dongosolo la dziko lapansi, lapadera komanso losatsutsika, ndipo amapita kumaphunziro nthawi zonse. Kukonda maphunziro ndi "mayendedwe" atsopano m'magulu ena, chipembedzo chatsopano. Ngakhale, kwa ine, iyi ndi njira yatsopano yosakhala ndi moyo, koma kusewera moyo, kukulitsa mikhalidwe yatsopano ndikuchita maluso atsopano pamaphunziro. Koma musaike pangozi kuzigwiritsa ntchito.
Maphunziro otengeka mtima sathandiza. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti alendo «otentheka» kwambiri osinthika. Malingana ngati akulimbikitsidwa ndi chidziwitso chatsopano ndi kulandira chisamaliro chokwanira kuchokera kwa «guru», amakhalabe okhulupirika, koma akhoza kufooka mwamsanga. Kugwetsa lingaliro lina ndi kukhala wotsatira wa lina. Ngakhale kuti malingaliro ndi chidziwitso ichi chingasinthe ku zosiyana - kuchokera ku Buddhism kupita ku kusakhulupirira kuti kuli Mulungu, kuchokera kwa mkazi wa Vedic kupita ku Tantric ...
Otengeka ndi chidwi amapereka kwa guru chinthu chofunika kwambiri - udindo pa miyoyo yawo
Otengeka ndi chidwi ndi kudzipereka m'maso mwawo amapereka kwa guru chinthu chofunika kwambiri - udindo pa miyoyo yawo.
Chifukwa cha zimenezi, amafuna chidziŵitso chimene chidzasintha miyoyo yawo: “Ndingakhale bwanji, mwachisawawa, chabwino ndi chosalungama! Mwa njira, sindikufuna kuganiza, ndikusankha ndekha. Ndiphunzitseni, O mphunzitsi wamkulu. Inde, inde, ndinamvetsetsa zonse (ndinamvetsetsa) ... ayi, sindingachite. Zoyenera kuchita? Ayi, sitinagwirizane chonchi .. Ndine wa mapiritsi amatsenga. Ayi bwanji?”
Maphunziro, koma osati mapiritsi amatsenga
Kodi maphunziro ndi chiyani? Ndi Luso, monga masewera - mudapita ku maphunziro kukapopa atolankhani ndiyeno musayembekezere kuti adzagwedezeka. Maphunziro ndi maziko, mlingo wa zero, deposit, chikoka, ndipo zochita zimayamba mukachoka ku maphunziro.
Kapena phunzirani bizinesi. Mumaphunzira njira zamabizinesi, kukhala odziwa zambiri m'derali, ndiyeno mumabweretsa chidziwitso chatsopano komanso nokha chatsopano kubizinesi yanu ndikusintha, ndikupangitsa kuti ikhale yogwira mtima. Zomwezo zimapitanso ku maphunziro a chitukuko chaumwini.
Otengeka mtima ali ndi vuto lalikulu ndi izi. Chifukwa simukufuna kuchitapo kanthu. Sindikufuna kuganiza. Unikani, osafuna kusintha. Ndipo pambuyo pa maphunzirowo, ikafika nthawi yoti achitepo kanthu, kutsutsa kumayamba - "Pazifukwa zina sindingathe kuchoka panyumba, sindingathe kuyamba kuchita chinachake, sindingathe kukumana ndi mwamuna ... "Ndipatseni piritsi limodzi lamatsenga. "Ndinaganiza zodziwana ndi mwamuna ndipo ndinapita ku maphunziro" ... miyezi isanu ndi umodzi yapita ... mwakumanapo? "Ayi, ndili ndi kukana."
Ndipo, patatha zaka zingapo, ndipo mwinamwake ngakhale kale, pamene mapiritsi amatsenga sanagwire ntchito, amakhumudwitsidwa ndi mphunzitsi, molunjika, kusukulu. Ndipo mukuganiza kuti amachita chiyani? Mukuyang'ana mphunzitsi wina. Ndipo chirichonse chikubwereza kachiwiri - maso odzipereka, kufalitsa malingaliro, kuyembekezera zozizwitsa, "kukana", kukhumudwa ...
Coach ngati kholo
Nthawi zina sizokhuza maphunziro ayi.
Nthawi zina otengeka kwambiri amapita ku maphunziro, kuyesera kumaliza ubale wa kholo ndi mwana kuti pamapeto pake apambane, kupeza chivomerezo, kuzindikira, kusilira kwa kholo. Zikatero, mphunzitsi-guru amachita ngati "kholo".
Kenako kuganiza mozama kwa achikulire kumazimitsidwa, cholembera chimatha, kukhudzana ndi zilakolako zake kumatha (ngati zilipo) ndipo chiwembu cha "makolo ndi mwana" chimayamba, pomwe kholo likunena zoyenera kuchita, ndipo mwana amamvera kapena kuchita ngati chiwembu.
The Possesed akuyang'ana piritsi lamatsenga lomwe lingasinthe miyoyo yawo, ndipo izi zikapanda kugwira ntchito, amasiya… kwa mphunzitsi wina.
Koma izi sizisintha moyo wa mwanayo mwanjira iliyonse, chifukwa zonse zomwe amachitira izi ndikungofuna chisamaliro kuchokera kwa kholo. Zilibe kanthu kaya ndi kholo labwino kapena loipa.
Mwa njira, izi zikufotokozera chidwi chachikulu pamaphunzirowa, pomwe pali zikhalidwe zokhwima zochizira ophunzira. Pali kumverera kwamkati kwa «mwachizolowezi», chilungamo, bwino. Izi ndi ngati zidalandiridwa m'banja. Ngati ubale ndi makolo unali wozizira, mwinamwake ngakhale wankhanza (ndipo ku Russia mwina ndi banja lililonse lachiwiri), ndiye pa maphunziro oterowo wophunzira amamva kukhala kunyumba, m'malo omwe amadziwika bwino. Ndipo mosazindikira akufuna kuti pamapeto pake apeze "yankho" - ndiko kuti, kuteteza ufulu wake wamoyo kapena kupeza chidwi cha mphunzitsi.
Palibe zamkati mkati, palibe luso ndi chizolowezi komanso chidziwitso chodalira munthu wamkulu komanso wothandizira yemwe angandithandize kuthana ndi zovuta.
Momwe mungathandizire otengeka
Ngati munthu amene mumamudziwa wadutsa kale maphunziro ambiri, koma palibe chomwe chikusintha m'moyo wake, akuwonetsa kuti asiye. Pumulani ndi kuganiza. Mwina sakufunikira nkomwe. Mwachitsanzo, pa maphunziro anga a momwe angakwatire, ndithudi padzakhala wina yemwe, chifukwa chogwira ntchito ndi iyemwini, amazindikira kuti SAKUFUNA kukwatiwa, ndipo chikhumbocho chinalamulidwa ndi kukakamizidwa kwa achibale, anthu, sangathe kulimbana ndi nkhawa yamkati yekha. Ndipo mpumulo wotani umabwera panthawi yomwe, atazindikira kusafuna, mkazi amalola kuti asafune. Ndi chisangalalo chochuluka bwanji, mphamvu, mphamvu, kudzoza kumatsegula pamene mungathe kutsogolera mphamvu zanu ndi chidwi chanu komwe kuli kosangalatsa kwenikweni.
Nthawi zina otengeka amapita ku maphunziro, kuyesera kumaliza ubale wa kholo ndi mwana ndipo potsiriza adzalandira kuzindikira kuchokera kwa "mphunzitsi-kholo"
Ngati mukufuna kudzisamalira nokha, mungapeze katswiri wa zamaganizo wabwino yemwe angakuthandizeni kubwerera ku gwero, kudzimva nokha ndikumvetsetsa zolinga zanu ndi zofunika kwambiri. Njira yabwino yochotsera kutengeka mtima ndikubwerera ku malo anu amphamvu ndi okhwima, ndipo izi zingatheke kupyolera mu thupi. Kuvina, masewera, chidwi pa zosowa zanu, malingaliro anu ndi zomverera. Nthawi zina, modabwitsa, mavuto azaumoyo, kutopa kwanthawi zonse komanso, chifukwa chake, nkhawa yowonjezereka ikhoza kukhala chifukwa chakufunika kophunzitsidwa.
Maphunziro ndi othandiza komanso othandiza kwa omwe ali okonzeka kusintha miyoyo yawo. Atha kukhala pendeli yamatsenga, malo oyesera kukulitsa malingaliro anu, kudziwa maluso atsopano olankhulirana ndi kucheza ndi anthu komanso ndi moyo.
Maphunziro sangakupatseni chitsimikizo chakuti moyo wanu usintha.
Mudzapeza zambiri zokwanira ndi zida zosinthira.
Koma muyenera kusintha nokha.