"Tsar-bambo": chifukwa chiyani timachitira akuluakulu ngati makolo

Mawu akuti "mphamvu" ali ndi matanthauzo ambiri. Onsewo onse amatsikira ku chinthu chimodzi: uku ndikutha kutaya ndikukakamiza kufuna kwanu kwa anthu ena. Kulumikizana koyamba kwa munthu wokhala ndi mphamvu (makolo) kumachitika ali mwana. Udindo wake wamtsogolo pokhudzana ndi ziwerengero zovomerezeka zamagulu osiyanasiyana zimadaliranso zomwe zinachitikira izi.

Kuyanjana kwathu ndi akuluakulu kumawerengedwa ndi psychology psychology. Asayansi apeza kuti gulu lililonse la anthu a m’gawo limodzi limadutsa m’magawo a chitukuko. Adafufuzidwa ndikuphunziridwa koyambirira kwa zaka za zana la XNUMX. Choncho, pofuna kuwulula machitidwe ambiri amasiku ano, ndikwanira kuyang'ana mmbuyo ndikuphunzira mbiri yakale.

Ntchito za mphamvu

Ndi ntchito zosiyanasiyana za mphamvu, titha kutchula mbali ziwiri zazikuluzikulu - ichi ndi chitetezo ndi chitukuko cha anthu omwe apatsidwa.

Tiyerekeze kuti munthu wolamulira ali ndi makhalidwe monga mtsogoleri wabwino. Iye ali ndi udindo pa gulu la anthu amene apatsidwa udindo. Ngati ili pangozi (mwachitsanzo, anthu akuwopsezedwa ndi mdani wakunja), ndiye kuti amachitapo kanthu kuti asunge ubwino wa gululi momwe angathere. "Kuyatsa" chitetezo, kumathandizira kudzipatula ndi kugwirizana.

Panthawi yabwino, mtsogoleri woteroyo amaonetsetsa kuti gululo likutukuka komanso kutukuka kwake, kotero kuti aliyense wa mamembala ake azikhala bwino momwe angathere.

Ndipo ntchito yaikulu ya munthu wopatsidwa mphamvu ndiyo kusiyanitsa mkhalidwe wina ndi wina.

N'chifukwa chiyani makolo ali pano?

Njira ziwiri zazikulu za mphamvu za boma ndi kuonetsetsa chitetezo ndi chitukuko cha anthu, komanso kwa kholo - mwa fanizo, chitetezo ndi chitukuko cha mwanayo.

Kufikira siteji inayake, akuluakulu odziwika amalingalira zomwe tikufuna: azipereka chitetezo, chakudya, kuwongolera zochitika ndi nthawi yogona, kupanga zolumikizira, phunzitsani, ikani malire. Ndipo ngati munthu "ankaganiziridwa" mochuluka, ndiyeno anasiya, ndiye kuti adzakhala m'mavuto.

Kodi kudzilamulira ndi chiyani? Pamene wamkulu akudziwa yekha ndipo amasiyanitsa kumene zolinga zake ndi maganizo ake, ndi kumene - munthu wina. Amamvera zokhumba zake, koma nthawi yomweyo amazindikira mfundo za anthu ena komanso kuti anthu akhoza kukhala ndi maganizo awo. Munthu woteroyo amatha kuloŵa m’zokambitsirano ndi kuganizira zofuna za ena.

Ngati sitinapatukane ndi makolo athu ndikukhala odzilamulira, ndiye kuti tili ndi zochirikizira zochepa kapena palibe. Ndiyeno pazovuta zilizonse, tidzadikira thandizo la munthu wovomerezeka. Ndipo tidzakhumudwa kwambiri ngati chiwerengerochi sichikwaniritsa ntchito zomwe timapereka. Chotero maunansi athu aumwini ndi maulamuliro amasonyeza masitepe amene sitinadutse mu unansi wathu ndi makolo athu.

Chifukwa chiyani anthu amafunikira mtsogoleri pamavuto

Tikakhala ndi nkhawa, tima:

• Kuganiza mochedwa

Kupsinjika kulikonse kapena zovuta zimatanthauza kusintha kwa zinthu. Zinthu zikasintha, sitingamvetse mwamsanga mmene tingachitire zinthu zinazake. Chifukwa palibe mayankho okonzeka. Ndipo, monga lamulo, m'malo ovuta kwambiri, munthu amabwerera. Ndiko kuti, "ikubwerera" mu chitukuko, kutaya luso lodzilamulira ndi kudzizindikira.

• Tikuyang'ana zothandizira

Ichi ndichifukwa chake mitundu yonse ya malingaliro achiwembu ndi otchuka muzovuta zosiyanasiyana. Anthu amafunika kupeza tsatanetsatane wa zomwe zikuchitika, ndipo pali zambiri zambiri. Ngati panthawi imodzimodziyo munthu sadziwa kudalira malingaliro ake ndi zikhalidwe zake, amayamba kuchepetsa kwambiri dongosolo ndikupanga mfundo zatsopano zothandizira. Pokhala ndi nkhawa, amafunafuna ulamuliro ndipo amadzitsimikizira kuti pali “iwo” amene ali ndi udindo pa chilichonse chimene chikuchitika. Chifukwa chake psyche imalimbana ndi chisokonezo. Ndipo ndizosavuta kukhala ndi "zoyipa" zamphamvu kuposa kungodandaula kosatha komanso osadziwa yemwe angatsamire.

• Timataya kukwanira kwa kuzindikira

Panthawi zovuta zandale, zovuta ndi miliri, kuthekera kwa anthu ku apothenia kumawonjezeka. Chikhalidwe ichi, chomwe munthu amayamba kuona kugwirizana pakati pa zochitika mwachisawawa kapena deta, amadzaza mfundozo ndi tanthauzo lapadera. Apophenia nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito kufotokoza za paranormal.

Chitsanzo cha mbiri yakale: mu 1830, zipolowe zomwe zimatchedwa kolera zidasesa Russia. Anthu wambawo amakhulupirira kwambiri kuti boma lidatumiza madokotala m’zigawo dala kuti akawapatsire matenda a kolera motero achepetse mkamwa. Mbiri, monga mukuwonera, imadzibwereza yokha. Potengera zomwe zachitika mliri wa 2020, malingaliro achiwembu ndi apothenia zidakulanso.

Kodi boma likuyang'ana kuti?

Inde, boma si langwiro, palibe boma limene lingakhutiritse zosoŵa za nzika zonse za dziko lake. Inde, pali lingaliro la mgwirizano wa chikhalidwe cha anthu, malinga ndi zomwe boma likuyembekezeredwa kuti liwonetsetse mtendere ndi chitetezo padziko lonse. Koma palinso lingaliro la udindo waumwini pa moyo wa munthu, ntchito, pazosankha zonse ndi zochita zomwe zatengedwa. Kwa inu nokha, pambuyo pa zonse.

Ndipo, kwenikweni, pamene boma likuimbidwa mlandu chifukwa cha zovuta ndi machimo onse omwe amafa, izi ndizovuta. Chitsanzo ichi cha maubwenzi chimabwereza zomwe zinayikidwa mwa ife mu ubwana wathu: pamene pali kuvutika kwanga kokha ndipo pali wina yemwe ali ndi udindo wa ubwino wanga kapena, mosiyana, mavuto. Pomwe munthu wamkulu aliyense wodziyimira yekha amamvetsetsa kuti udindo wa moyo wake ndi kusankha zimatsimikiziridwa ndi iyemwini.