Timaganiza kuti malingaliro amphamvu amatipangitsa kukhala ofooka komanso osatetezeka. Timaopa kulola munthu watsopano amene angapweteke. Mtolankhani Sarah Byron amakhulupirira kuti chifukwa chake ndi zomwe zinachitikira chikondi choyamba.
Anthu ambiri amathawa kumva ngati mliri. Ife timati, “Iye sakutanthauza kanthu kwa ine. Ndi kugonana basi." Timakonda kusalankhula zakukhosi, osati kuzilamulira. Ndi bwino kudzisungira nokha zonse ndi kuvutika kusiyana ndi kudzionetsera kuti mukunyozedwa.
Aliyense ali ndi munthu wapadera. Sitilankhula kawirikawiri, koma timaganizira nthawi zonse. Maganizo amenewa ali ngati ntchentche yolusa imene imauluka m’khutu koma osawuluka. Timayesetsa kuthetsa maganizo amenewa, koma sizinaphule kanthu. Mukhoza kusiya kuonana, blacklist nambala yake, kuchotsa zithunzi, koma izi sizingasinthe chirichonse.
Mukukumbukira nthawi yomwe mudazindikira kuti mumakonda? Munali limodzi kuchita zachabechabe. Ndipo mwadzidzidzi - ngati nkhonya kumutu. Mukunena nokha: damn, ndinagwa m'chikondi. Kufuna kukamba za izo kumadya kuchokera mkati. Chikondi chimapempha: nditulutse, ndiuze dziko za ine!
Mwina mukukayikira kuti adzakubwezerani. Mwazimitsa ndi mantha. Koma kukhala naye pafupi ndikwabwino kwambiri. Pamene akuyang'ana pa inu, akunong'oneza m'makutu mwanu, mumamvetsa - zinali zoyenera. Kenako zimapweteka, ndipo ululu umapitirirabe mpaka kalekale.
Chikondi sichiyenera kuvulaza, koma chikachitika, zonse zomwe mafilimu amapangidwira zimakhala zenizeni. Tikukhala munthu amene tinalonjeza kuti sitidzakhala.
Tikamakana kwambiri malingaliro, m'pamenenso amakhala amphamvu. Chotero nthawizonse zakhala ziri ndipo nthawizonse zidzakhala
Nthawi zambiri timayamba kukondana ndi anthu olakwika. Ubale suyenera kukhalitsa. Monga momwe wolemba John Green ananenera, “Lingaliro lakuti munthu ali woposa munthu ndi lachinyengo monyenga.” Tonse timadutsa mu izi. Timayika okondedwa athu pamtunda. Akapweteka, timanyalanyaza. Kenako imabwereza.
Mutha kukhala ndi mwayi wokwatira wokondedwa wanu woyamba ndikukhala naye moyo wanu wonse. Kulirani limodzi ndikukhala mmodzi wa okwatirana achikulire omwe amayenda kudutsa paki, akugwirana chanza ndi kukambirana za zidzukulu zawo. Izi ndi zabwino.
Ambiri aikidwiratu mwanjira ina. Sitidzakwatira «ameneyo», koma tidzamukumbukira. Mwina tidzayiwala mamvekedwe a mawu kapena mawu, koma tidzakumbukira malingaliro omwe tidakumana nawo chifukwa cha izi, kukhudza ndi kumwetulira. Sangalalani ndi mphindi izi mu kukumbukira kwanu.
Nthawi zina timalakwitsa, ndipo sitingapewe. Palibe masamu kapena njira ya ubale yomwe ingateteze ku ululu. Tikamakana kwambiri malingaliro, m'pamenenso amakhala amphamvu. Chotero zakhala ziri nthawizonse ndipo zidzakhala ziri nthawizonse.
Ndikufuna kuthokoza chikondi changa choyamba pondipweteka. Chimene chinandithandiza kukhala ndi malingaliro odabwitsa omwe ndinamva kumwamba ndi chisangalalo, ndiyeno pansi. Chifukwa cha zimenezi, ndinaphunzira kuchira, ndinakhala munthu watsopano, wamphamvu ndi wosangalala. Ndidzakukondani nthawi zonse, koma sindidzakhala m'chikondi.
Gwero: Catalog ya Maganizo.