Kodi nyanja ingatiphunzitse chiyani?

Moyo uli ngati nyanja: umatisuntha, umatiumba, umatichirikiza, komanso umatidzutsa kuti tisinthe, kupita kumalo atsopano. Ndipo, pamapeto pake, moyo umatiphunzitsa kukhala ngati madzi - amphamvu, koma odekha; zolimbikira koma zofewa; komanso kusinthasintha, wokongola.

Kodi mphamvu ya m’nyanja ingabweretse nzeru zotani kwa ife?

Nthawi zina “mafunde aakulu” amoyo amatipititsa ku njira imene sitinkadziwa. Nthawi zina zimaoneka kuti “madzi” afika pabata, bata. Nthawi zina “mafunde” amagunda kwambiri ndipo timachita mantha kuti achotsa zonse zomwe tili nazo. Umenewu ndi umene umatchedwa moyo. Tikupita patsogolo nthawi zonse, ngakhale kuti tithamanga bwanji. Nthawi zonse timayenda. Moyo ukusintha mosalekeza. Ndipo kaya ndinu okwera kapena otsika nthawi iliyonse m'moyo wanu, zonse ndi zachibale ndipo zimatha kusintha mkati mwa sekondi imodzi. Chinthu chokhacho chomwe sichinasinthe ndikusintha komweko.

Pali fanizo lochititsa chidwi: "Palibe chinthu chokongola kwambiri kuposa kuwona nyanja siyiyima panjira yake kuti ipsompsone gombe, ngakhale italephera kangati." Khulupirirani kuti pali chinachake choyenera kulimbana nacho m’moyo, ngakhale mutalephera kangati. Ngati nthawi ina mwazindikira kuti izi sizomwe mukufunikira, zisiyeni. Koma musanafike kumvetsetsa kumeneku, musataye mtima panjira.

Sitingathe kudziwa zonse zomwe zili mukuya kwa "nyanja" yathu, mwa ife tokha. Tikukula mosalekeza, kusintha, nthawi zina sitivomereza ngakhale mbali ina ya ife eni. Ndikofunika kulowa mkati mwa dziko lanu nthawi ndi nthawi kuti mufufuze nokha ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa kuti ndife ndani.

Padzakhala nthawi m'moyo wanu pamene mudzamva ngati "wazizira", osakhazikika mu chinachake. Chilichonse chimasokonekera, zinthu sizikuyenda monga momwe adakonzera. Kumbukirani: ziribe kanthu momwe nyengo yozizira imakhala yovuta, masika adzabwera posachedwa.

Nyanja kulibe payokha. Ndi gawo la dziwe lonse lapansi komanso, mwina, chilengedwe chonse. Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa aliyense wa ife. Sitinabwere m’dziko lino monga selo lapadera, losalumikizana ndi dziko lapansi, kudzakhala ndi moyo tokha ndi kuchoka. Ndife gawo lalikulu, chithunzi chonse chomwe chimagwira ntchito yofunikira pakuumba chithunzichi chotchedwa "dziko lapansi," mosasamala kanthu za udindo womwewo.

Siyani Mumakonda