Ndi chiyani chomwe chimapangitsa anthu kuti azipita kumagulu apadera komwe amawapezerera modzifunira? Mwini malo ochitira misonkhano mobisa wakhala akufufuza zomwe zimayambitsa sadomasochism kwa zaka zambiri. Ndipo izi ndi zomwe adazipeza.
Kodi mudawerengapo buku lomwe simungathe kuliyika ndikupitiriza kumeza tsamba ndi tsamba pamsewu wapansi panthaka, kenako pa escalator, kenako pa desiki yanu? Kapena kodi adadzikonzera okha "mpikisano wothamanga" kumapeto kwa sabata, ndikuwonera mndandanda pambuyo pake popanda kusokonezedwa?
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi nthawi ya gawoli. Kumverera kuti panthawi yomwe muli ndi moyo, zokhuza zanu zonse zikugwira ntchito pamlingo wawo wonse komanso zomverera zonse ndipo malingaliro anu amaperekedwa kwathunthu kuzomwe mukuyembekezera mwachidwi.
Nchiyani chikuchitika kenako?
Woyang'anira sadziwa izi, wapereka mphamvu kwa mnzake wamkulu.
Safunika kuganiza za chilichonse ndipo safunikira kupanga zosankha zovuta.
Sayenera kuchita kalikonse nkomwe. Ngakhale zingamveke zodabwitsa, anthu amabwera ku kalabu yanga kuti azimva chimodzimodzi monga mu yoga kapena kusinkhasinkha.
Amamusamalira, kumusamalira. Ali ndi munthu yemwe samamuganizira ...
Kukhala munthawi ino, kuti mumve ndi selo lililonse la thupi lanu. Oimba ndi othamanga amakumana ndi izi panthawi yomwe anthu ambiri akusewera, pamene dziko lonse lapansi likusiya kukhalapo ndipo pali zomwe akukumana nazo tsopano, kachiwiri ndi sekondi.
Iwo anasankha njira yovuta pa izi, anadutsa mu maphunziro ndi kulephera. Masochist anasankha njira yake, yomwe ikuwoneka kuti ndiyo yokhayo yomwe ingatheke.
Izi ndi zomwe abwerera. Zomwe muyenera kuchita ndikumvera ndi "kutsata njira".
Pamlingo wamaganizidwe, masochist amakhulupilira kwathunthu kuwongolera kwa mnzake wamkulu ndipo amakhala womasuka naye pamene "mosamala" amalimbitsa mfundo zake.
Amamvera pamene akumuuza kuti asapume, ngati kuti anali mwana ndipo amameza mapiritsi a chifuwa.
Amamusamalira, kumusamalira. Ali ndi munthu amene amamuganizira. Ndipo munthu uyu amadziwa zomwe akufuna.
Kodi masochist akudziwa izi? Zikuwoneka kuti yankho ndilomveka.
Ntchito ya Dominatrix ndikugwiritsa ntchito zochita zake kumiza munthu yemwe ali pansi pake m'malo momwe malingaliro ake akuya, omwe sanauze aliyense komanso omwe adawaletsa, akhoza kutuluka.
Kuti achite izi, dongosolo lake lamanjenje lachifundo limakondwera ndi zochitika zamwambo. Kuwombera ndi kuwombera lamba, kunyoza (ndipo, molingana, kuchonderera chifundo) ndizofunikira pa gawoli, lomwe m'kupita kwa nthawi amayamba kuyembekezera.
Pa gawoli, masochist ali ndi malingaliro owopsa. Pamlingo wakuthupi, izi zikutanthauza kuti adrenal glands amapanga adrenaline yochulukirapo.
Kenako, akangodziwa kuti ngoziyo yadutsa, ma endorphin amamasulidwa. Awa ndi ma analgesics achilengedwe, ochepetsa ululu, omwe amatipatsanso ma opioid, kubweretsa kumverera kwa bata, mpumulo, kumasuka kwathunthu.
“Makasitomala ambiri amandiuza,” akutero Morgese, yemwe amagwira ntchito ku Dominatrix wazaka 55, “gawo likatha, amakhala osangalala.”
Ndikumva kowala komanso kowopsa kotero kuti amawonekera kwa iwo kuti akuyandama pamwamba pa nthaka.
The euphoria pambuyo gawo akhoza kukhala kwa maola kapena milungu. Kusangalala koyambako kukayamba, kumaloŵedwa m’malo ndi nthaŵi imene wapansiyo akutsika maganizo, kutentha kwake kumatsika kwambiri akamaliza kuphedwa.
Kusangalala kumaloŵedwa m'malo ndi kugona ndi kupumula kwambiri. Woyang'anirayo ali ndi lingaliro la kukhala nawo, chikondi chakuya, kuti iye ndi wofunika, ndipo, monga momwe zimamvekera, chikondi.
Ubale wapadera umabuka pakati pa bwenzi lake lalikulu ndi wapansi wake, pamene amakumana ndi zomveka zomveka bwino ndi zoletsedwa zomwe palibe wina aliyense koma iwo eni akudziwa. Amadziwa mbali za moyo wa wina ndi mzake zomwe palibe wina aliyense akudziwa.
Za Katswiri: Sandra La Morgese ndi wolemba mabulogu komanso wolemba masitepe 5 a Kulankhulana Bwino, Kugonana ndi Chimwemwe.