Zamkatimu
Zikuwoneka kuti, cholakwika ndi chiyani ndi kusangalala ndikuchepetsa nkhawa? Komabe, malinga ndi wolemba wathu, kugonana popanda kudzipereka ndi msampha woopsa kwa amayi.
"Ndinkakhulupirira kuti ndili ndi mwayi paubwenzi"
Holly Riordan, mtolankhani
Ndinagona nanu chifukwa sindinakhulupirire mawu akuti "sindikufuna chibwenzi." Ndinkaona kuti mukuopa kutenthedwa ngati ine, n’chifukwa chake mumabisala ku bodza. Ndinakhulupirira kuti ngakhale ngati simukufunadi kudzipereka, musintha maganizo anu. Kuyandikana kwathu panthawi yogonana kudzakutengani ndikukupangitsani kuti muzindiyang'ana mosiyana. Mudzadzipereka ku zomverera monga ine ndinachitira.
Ndinagona nawe chifukwa sindinathe kukutulutsa mmutu mwanga. Popeza simunafune ubale weniweni, kugonana wamba kunali njira yabwino kwambiri. Ndinkafuna kukhala pafupi ndi inu, kuti ndikugwireni inu.
Ndinkafuna kuti mukhale wanga, kamodzi pakanthawi. Ngakhale ukanakhala wanga usikuuno
Ndinagona nanu chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti nditha kuthana ndi malingaliro anga. Ngakhale palibe chomwe chingabwere, ndidzapeza chidziwitso. Ndikhala ndi zosangalatsa ndikuchotsa moyo wanga wotopetsa. Sindimayembekezera kuti maganizo anga adzatha ndipo ndikanafuna kukhala nanu. Izi zinapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kuvomereza kuti sindinu wanga. Ndine m'modzi mwa ambiri a inu.
Ndinagona nanu, ngakhale mudavomereza poyera kuti simukuyang'ana chilichonse chachikulu: zochita zanu zinanena mosiyana. Zochita zanu zidawonetsa kuti mwakonzeka kukhala paubwenzi ndipo mukufuna kukhala ndi ine.
Zochita zanu zidandikhutiritsa - pamapeto pake ndidzakhala bwenzi lanu, ngakhale zitatenga nthawi
Ndinagona nawe chifukwa unandisokoneza ndi zizindikiro zotsutsana. Munati simukufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi. Ndipo pambuyo pake adatumiza mauthenga, kundikumbatira ndikundinong'oneza zinsinsi m'makutu mwanga. Kodi ndingakhulupirire bwanji kuti sindine kanthu kwa inu? Kodi ndingadziyerekezere ndekha ngati chinthu chogonana, chosewerera chanu? Zochita zanu zatsimikizira kuti mumandikonda monga momwe ndimakukonderani.
Ndinagona nawe chifukwa ndimapenga nawe. Ndinkakhulupirira kuti kugonana kudzakuthandizani kuti mukhale misala inunso. Kugonana kumatanthauza chinachake kwa ine. Sindinakhulupirire kuti matupi athu amaliseche amalumikizana, koma osayambitsa malingaliro mwa inu. Ndinkaganiza kuti kugonana ndi njira yothetsera vutoli - kukuchotsani kwa bwenzi langa kukhala bwenzi langa. Ndinavomera kugonana popanda kudzipereka, chifukwa ndikuyembekeza - ndili ndi mwayi paubwenzi ndi inu.
N’chifukwa chiyani timavomereza ubwenzi woterowo?
Valentin Denisov-Melnikov, katswiri wa zamaganizo, katswiri wa zachiwerewere
Kodi kugonana popanda kudzipereka ndi chiyani? Izi ndi kugonana popanda chikondi, maubwenzi, ubwenzi wapamtima, ndiko kuti, njira yokha ya thupi, kukhutitsidwa kwa chilakolako chogonana. Komabe, nthawi zambiri anthu sakhutira ndi kugonana koteroko.
Pamene thupi kumaliseche si limodzi ndi maganizo ndi maganizo, m'malo kumverera kukhutitsidwa ndi kumasuka pambuyo ubwenzi, pali kumverera kwachabechabe ndi tanthauzo la zimene zinachitika. Izi ndizofanana kwa amayi ndi abambo.
Komanso, mkazi akhoza kumva ntchito, zomwe zimayambitsa zosasangalatsa maganizo.
Pa nthawi yomweyi, kutengeka mtima kumagwira ntchito yaikulu pakudzutsidwa kwa akazi. Pamene kugonana sikuli limodzi ndi chikondi ndi kutentha, zimakhala zovuta kuti mkazi azikhala ndi chisangalalo cha thupi: palibe maganizo oyenera ndi zochitika zosangalatsa, palibe chikhumbo chogwirizanitsa ndi wokondedwa. Zikatero, zimakhala zovuta kupeza orgasm.
Amuna omwe ali paubwenzi wopanda udindo amakopeka ndi mfundo izi:
Mwayi wokhala ndi zibwenzi zambiri, popeza kugonana popanda chibwenzi nthawi zambiri kumakhala kugonana kangapo.
Palibe chifukwa chowonongera nthawi, khama ndi ndalama pakunyengerera ndikupambana mkazi.
Ndi maubwenzi wamba, simuyenera kuyesa pabedi: zilibe kanthu kwa mwamuna ngati wokondedwa wake amakonda kugonana komanso ngati akufuna kubwereza.
Kwa mwamuna, gawo lamalingaliro pakugonana silofunikira monga momwe thupi limakhalira, ndipo pogonana popanda ubale, amapeza zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa iwo.
Othandizana nawo ambiri. Mtsikana paubwenzi ayenera kukhala ndi makhalidwe ambiri omwe ali ofunika kwa mwamuna wina. Ngati anthu amakumana pogonana kokha, kuchuluka kwa zofuna kumatsika kwambiri. Chikhumbo chokwanira cha ubwenzi ndi maonekedwe ovomerezeka.
Izi sizinganenedwe nthawi yomweyo za amuna onse omwe amakonda kugonana popanda kudzipereka, koma ambiri a iwo sadziwa momwe angapangire maubwenzi, sali okonzekera udindo ndikupanga zisankho zazikulu, amapewa ubwenzi ndipo, mwinamwake, analibe maubwenzi ofunda paubwana. .