Tsopano tikudziwa Will Smith ngati mmodzi mwa ochita zisudzo otchuka kwambiri ku Hollywood, koma kamodzi anali mnyamata wosavuta wochokera ku banja losauka ku Philadelphia. Smith mwiniwake adafotokoza za kupambana kwake m'buku lake lolemba mbiri Will. Kodi tingaphunzire chiyani kwa munthu wosavuta yemwe wakhala wosewera wolipidwa kwambiri ku Hollywood. Nawa mawu ena otengedwa kuchokera pamenepo.
The «Will Smith» inu mukuganiza - mlendo kuwononga rapper, wotchuka filimu wosewera - ndi, makamaka, kumanga - khalidwe analengedwa mosamala ndi kulemekezedwa ndi ine, alipo kuti ine ndithe kudziteteza. Bisani dziko.
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Mukakhala zongopeka kwambiri, m'pamenenso zimakhala zowawa kwambiri kugundana kosapeweka ndi zenizeni. Ngati muyesa zolimba kudzitsimikizira kuti ukwati wanu udzakhala wachimwemwe ndi wosalira zambiri nthaŵi zonse, pamenepo zenizeni zidzakukhumudwitsani ndi mphamvu yomweyo. Ngati mukuganiza kuti ndalama zimatha kugula chisangalalo, ndiye kuti chilengedwe chidzakupatsani mbama ndikukutsitsani kuchokera kumwamba kupita kudziko lapansi.
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Kwa zaka zambiri, ndaphunzira kuti palibe amene anganene molondola za m’tsogolo, ngakhale kuti aliyense akuganiza kuti angathe. Upangiri uliwonse wakunja ndi, chabwino, malingaliro ochepa a alangizi a kuthekera kopanda malire komwe muli nako. Anthu amapereka malangizo malinga ndi zomwe amaopa, zokumana nazo, tsankho. Pamapeto pake, amapereka malangizowa kwa iwo okha, osati kwa inu. Ndi inu nokha amene mungaweruze zomwe mungathe, chifukwa mukudziwa nokha kuposa wina aliyense.
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Anthu amakhala ndi malingaliro otsutsana pa opambana. Ngati muthamangira mu zoyipa kwa nthawi yayitali ndikukhala mlendo, pazifukwa zina mumathandizidwa. Koma Mulungu akuletseni inu kukhala motalika pamwamba - iwo adzajompha m'njira yoti siziwoneka zokwanira.
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Kusintha nthawi zambiri kumakhala kowopsa, koma sikutheka kupeŵa. M'malo mwake, kusakhazikika ndi chinthu chokha chomwe mungadalirepo.
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Ndinayamba kuzindikira malingaliro kulikonse. Mwachitsanzo, pamsonkhano wamalonda wina anganene kuti, "Sizinthu zaumwini ... ndi bizinesi chabe." Ndipo ndinazindikira mwadzidzidzi - oh gehena, palibe «basi bizinesi», Ndipotu, chirichonse ndi munthu! Ndale, chipembedzo, masewera, chikhalidwe, malonda, chakudya, kugula zinthu, kugonana ndi maganizo.
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Kusiya ndikofunika mofanana ndi kugwira. Mawu oti “kudzipereka” sanalinso kutanthauza kugonja kwa ine. Chakhala chida chofunikira chothandizira kuti maloto akwaniritsidwe. Kwa kukula kwanga ndi chitukuko, kugonjetsedwa kunali kofanana ndi kupambana.