Mtsikanayo, yemwe madotolo adalonjeza ali ndi zaka 13 kuti sadzakhalanso ndi ana, adakwanitsa kukhala mayi wamapasa. Zowona, ndizobadwa kwa iye.
Kusamba kwa thupi - liwu ili limalumikizidwa ndi zaka za "kwinakwake kupitirira 50". Malo osungira mazira m'mimba mwake amatha, ntchito yobereka imatha, ndipo nyengo yatsopano imayamba m'moyo wa mkazi. Kwa Amanda Hill, nthawi iyi idayamba ali ndi zaka 11 zokha.
Amanda ndi mwamuna wake Tom.
“Kutenga kwanga koyamba kunayamba ndili ndi zaka 10. Ndipo ndili ndi zaka 11, kunatha kwathunthu. Ndili ndi zaka 13, anandipeza ndi matenda okalamba ovuta msanga komanso kutha kwa dzira ndipo anandiuza kuti sindidzakhalanso ndi ana, ”akutero Amanda.
Zikuwoneka ngati ndili ndi zaka 13 ndipo palibe chomwe chingatenthe - ndani pazaka izi amalingalira za ana? Koma kuyambira ali mwana, Amanda analota za banja lalikulu. Chifukwa chake, ndidakumana ndi vuto lalikulu, lomwe sindinathe kutuluka kwa zaka zitatu.
“Kwa zaka zambiri, ndidayamba kuzindikira kuti kukhala ndi pakati si njira yokhayo yoberekera amayi. Ndili ndi chiyembekezo, ”akupitiriza motero mtsikanayo.
Amanda adaganiza za IVF. Mwamuna wake amamuthandiza kwathunthu pa izi, amafunanso kulera ana mofanana ndi mkazi wake. Pazifukwa zomveka, mtsikanayo analibe mazira ake, kotero kunali koyenera kupeza woperekayo. Adapeza njira yoyenera kuchokera m'ndandanda wa omwe adapereka maina osadziwika: Ndinapeza mtsikana wamtali ndi maso ofanana ndi anga. "
Onsewa, Amanda ndi amuna awo adawononga ma ruble pafupifupi 1,5 miliyoni pa IVF - pafupifupi mapaundi zikwi khumi ndi zitatu. Thandizo la mahormone, insemination yokumba, kuyika - zonse zidapita bwino. Mu nthawi yake, banjali linakhala ndi mwana wamwamuna. Mnyamatayo amatchedwa Orin.
“Ndinkaopa kuti sindingalumikizane naye kwenikweni. Kupatula apo, chibadwidwe ndife alendo kwa wina ndi mnzake. Koma kukayika konse kunazimiririka nditawona mawonekedwe a Tom, mwamuna wanga pankhope ya Orin, ”akutero mayi wachichepereyo. Malinga ndi iye, adafaniziranso zithunzi za Tom zaubwana ndi Orin ndipo amafanana mofanana. "Ndi ofanana!" - mtsikanayo akumwetulira.
Zaka ziwiri kuchokera pamene Orina adabadwa, Amanda adaganiza zopitanso ku IVF, makamaka popeza panali kamwana kamene kanatsalira kuyambira nthawi yomaliza. Iye anati: “Ndinkafuna kuti Orin akhale ndi mchimwene kapena mchemwali wake wamng'ono kuti asamasungulumwe. Ndipo zonse zidakwaniritsidwa: Mapasa a Orin, Tylen, adabadwa.
“Zodabwitsa kwambiri, ndi mapasa, koma Tylen adakhala zaka ziwiri mufiriji. Koma tsopano tonse tili limodzi ndipo tili okondwa kwambiri, - adaonjeza Amanda. “Orin ndi wamng'ono kwambiri kuti adziwe kuti iye ndi Tylen ndi mapasa. Koma amangokonda mchimwene wake. "