Yazhmat: momwe mungakhalire moyenera ndi mwana

Zikupezeka kuti pali mndandanda wazinthu zomwe mayi wabwino sangachite m'moyo wake. Kotero - Mulungu aletsa! - osachita manyazi mwamtendere ndi iwo omwe panthawiyi anali pafupi naye.

Ndipo ndidachita zonse. Ndipo ngati kuli kofunikira, ndizichita mobwerezabwereza, pamene ndili ndi udindo pa moyo ndi thanzi la mwana wanga. Ngakhale, mwachiwonekere, ndidakumana ndi anthu anzeru komanso osakhwima - sindinamvepo chilichonse chosalabadira mu adilesi yanga.

Ali ndi zaka 3-4, mwanayo amayenda wopanda matewera. Koma sangathe kupirira atakula. Uwu ndi mamita 100 kupita ku cafe kapena malo ogulitsira apafupi - chabwino. Ndipo zambiri za mwana. Kuphatikiza apo, ana omwe ali pamsinkhuwu nthawi zambiri amayamba kufunsa osati akakhala oleza mtima, koma akamakhala kuti sangapirire. Ndipo mwina pitani ku tchire tsopano, apo ayi padzakhala tsoka. Ndine woyamba.

Mwa njira, ndimafuna kufunsa onse omwe adakwiya: ndipo mukapita ku chilengedwe tsiku lonse, kodi mumalolera kwanu? Kodi amayi anu anatani? Pafupifupi zaka 30 zapitazo, sizinali zophweka kulowa mu cafe monga choncho.

Momwe: Sindinaike mwana kuti alembe pakati pa mseu, komabe pali mzere pakati pamwano ndi kufunikira. Ndipo "m'njira yayikulu" mu tchire, nayenso, sanatenge. Ngakhale munthawi imeneyi, mwina inenso sindingaweruze. Zinthu ndizosiyana, ndipo pali chiyani, "kumbuyo kwazithunzi", sitikudziwa.

Ndege, paki, kubanki, ku RONO, polandirira sukulu yamasewera, kuyembekezera wamkulu kuchokera ku maphunziro, ndipo ngakhale - o, mantha! - mu cafe. Anangomupatsa mawere osati kuti adyetse kokha, komanso kuti amukhazike mtima pansi. Ndipo ndi ziti zomwe mungachite, ngati mungasiye mwana pakhomo wopanda wina, ndipo mabungwe aboma amangogwira ntchito nthawi inayake, zomwe sizingafanane ndi kayendedwe ka kudyetsa. Ndipo kubadwa kwa mwana sichimakhala chifukwa chilichonse choti makolo ake aiwale za tchuthi chophatikizana kunja kwa nyumba. Padziko lonse lapansi, amayi ndi abambo amapita kulikonse ndi ana awo, ndipo tili ndi mayi wachichepere - munthu amene ayenera kukhala pakhomo osangokhala kunja. Ine sindiri!

Pamenepa,: Nthawi zonse ndinkakhala ndi shawl wandiweyani, yomwe ndimatha kuphimba ndimwana. Ndinayesera kukhala chafufumimba kwa anthu ambiri. Sindinakonze ziwonetsero zodyetsa, ndipo sindimamvetsetsa omwe amachita izi.

Izi zidachitika kangapo. Ndidafunsa kuti "nyenyezi zidakumana" liti muzochitika zitatu: sindinagule zoposa 3-4 (mwachitsanzo, madzi adandithera, ndimagula mwana kuti ndimwe, ndipo panali anthu ambiri potuluka ), pomwe ogula anali ndi ngolo pamaso pawo, ndipo mwana wanga pazifukwa zina, adayamba kukhala wopanda chidwi. Adapepesa, adalongosola momwe zinthu ziliri. Mayunitsi anakana. Pofuna chilungamo, ndikumbukira: Ndidapatsidwa mwayi woti ndidumphe mzere, pomwe sindinafunsepo. Nthawi zambiri, opuma pantchito amasiyanitsidwa ndi kukoma mtima koteroko.

Momwe: Ndinasiya mchitidwewu ndili ndi zaka zitatu kapena zinayi. Ndipo iyenso adayamba kuphonya amayi omwe ali ndi ana ang'onoang'ono. Sanakakamizidwe kapena kukakamizidwa. Kulumbira pa munthu amene wakana - Mulungu aletse, uwu ndi ufulu wake. Aulemu ndiye chilichonse chathu.

Ndipo ndidayendanso naye panjira yopapatiza ndikukwera chikepe. Ndikhululukireni ngati ndasokoneza aliyense, koma: 1) woyendetsa ndi njira yoyendera ya mwana, palibe ena; 2) Sindine amene ndikuchititsa madera, komanso sindimakonda kuti misewu yopapatiza imapangidwa mnyumba. Koma sindipita panjira kuloleza wina kuti adutse; 3) kukula kwa chikepe sikudaliranso ine, sindipitanso kukwera chipinda chachitatu ndikuyenda ndi mwana wonyamula; 4) khalani kunyumba ndikudikirira kuti amuna amalize ntchito ndikubweretsa chakudya - palibe ndemanga; 5) zoyendera pagulu - ndizoyendera zapagulu zomwe zimapangidwira anthu onse. Mwa njira, nthawi zina ndinkapemphanso amuna kuti azithandiza kuyendetsa njinga ya olumala kapena kutsika basi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri samafunsa, nawonso amathandizira.

Momwe: palibe chowonjezera apa. Pokhapokha, ngati nditakopeka ndi winawake mwangozi, ndimapepesa nthawi zonse.

Ndipo ndimakhalabe pansi, kutengera kupezeka. Ndipo ndinkalipira nthawi zonse ndikulipira malo achiwiri. Chifukwa chake, sindimayankha ngakhale mwano kuchokera pamndandanda woti "amapita kwaulere, akhazikikanso". Apanso, simukudziwa chifukwa chake mayiyo adalola kuti mwanayo akhale pansi. Mwinanso izi zisanachitike, adayenda maola atatu, mwina akuchokera kwa dokotala, kuchokera ku maphunziro, komwe adapereka zabwino zonse kwa maola awiri. Simudziwa zochitika. Kupatula apo, mwana amathanso kukhala wotopa kwambiri.

Momwe: ndikamuloleza kuti azikhala pa basi, sizitanthauza kuti ndikweza mabodza oyipa. Mukuyenda mokwanira, ngati kulibe mipando ina yopanda kanthu, imangopita kwa okalamba, amayi apakati, amayi okhala ndi ana m'manja. Zowona, imodzi "koma": ngati sayamba kuchita manyazi pasadakhale. Sindine woyera komanso wopanda pake, koma munthu yemwe ali ndi mphamvu yoti adzipezere malo apeza mphamvu ndikuimirira.

Ndiponyeni ma slippers anu, chonde, monga mukufunira. Koma mpaka msinkhu winawake sindimulola mnyamatayo kuti azipita kuchipinda cha amuna okha. Sindikulankhula, zachinyamata, paunyamata. Koma mwana wa kusukulu - zowonadi. Ndipo ngakhale abambo atapita ndi mwana wawo wamkazi kuchimbudzi cha azimayi, sindikuwona cholakwika chilichonse pamenepo. Simutsitsa mathalauza anu kutsogolo kwa thandala, sichoncho?

Momwe: ngati tikuyenda ndi abambo, anyamata, zachidziwikire, amapita kuchipinda cha abambo. Posachedwa, ndakhala ndikuyesera kupewa zinthu ngati izi, kapena kufunafuna malo okhala ndi zimbudzi za ana.

Chifukwa ndinalibe mitu ina yoti ndikambirane panthawiyo! Dziko langa linali lolunjika pa mwanayo - ndimakhala naye usana ndi tsiku, tsiku lililonse, opanda masiku ndi tchuthi. Choyamba! Sindinayambe ndachitapo kanthu ndi ana kale: ndinali ndi mafunso ambiri, osamvetsetseka ambiri! Kodi ndingapeze bwanji mayankho mwachangu kwa iwo? Zachidziwikire, funsani amayi odziwa zambiri.

Mahomoni amadzipangitsa okha kumva. Nthawi imeneyo, mawu anga anali oti: "tidadya", "tidakunkha" ndipo "tidagona." Chilichonse chimadutsa, ndipo chidzadutsa - khalani oleza mtima.

Momwe: Ndimayesetsabe kusefa zolankhula zanga ndikusiya makutu amzanga omwe anali opanda ana. Koma mawu oti "ife" apulumuka m'mawu anga. Chifukwa ngati ndinganene kuti vesi "taphunzira," ndiye zili choncho.