10 mawu opha banja

Inde, munthu ayenera kusiyanitsa pakati pa zimene zinanenedwa mwadala ndi zimene zinanenedwa mwangozi. Koma ndi mawu khumiwa, muyenera kusamala kwambiri.

1. “Simumatsuka mbale. Asintha kale kukhala installing.”

Choyamba, intonation. Kuneneza kumatanthauza chitetezo, kuukira - chitetezo. Kodi mumadzimva kukhala wamphamvu? Muli ngati woyimba ng’oma amene amaika liwiro la nyimbo yonse kumayambiriro. Kupitilira apo, mbalezo zidzayiwalika kale, ndipo mudzafuna kukambirana mitu ina, ndipo kamvekedwe kakulumikizana kwanu kakhale kofanana: "Ndikuukira, teteza!"

Kachiwiri, mawu oti "musamveke" muzokambirana zanu, monga "nthawi zonse", "nthawi zonse" ndi "inu kosatha", akutero katswiri wa zamaganizo Samantha Rodman.

2. "Ndiwe bambo woyipa / wokonda zoyipa"

Mawu amenewa ndi ovuta kuwaiwala. Chifukwa chiyani? Tafika pafupi kwambiri ndi maudindo omwe bwenzi amadzizindikiritsa ngati munthu. Maudindowa ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna, ndipo ndi bwino kuti musawafunse mafunso.

Nthawi zonse pali njira ina - mukhoza kunena, mwachitsanzo: "Ndinagula matikiti a kanema, atsikana athu amakonda kuonera mafilimu atsopano ndi inu," katswiri wa zamaganizo Gary Newman akulangiza.

3. "Iwe ukumveka ngati mayi ako"

Mukulowa m'dera lomwe si lanu. «Morning, dzuwa, amayi amaphika pies ...» - ndi dzuwa chithunzi. Mawu oterowo amatha kumveka pamwambo umodzi - ngati amanenedwa ndi mawu osilira. Ndipo zikuwoneka kuti tidapatukanso pamutu womwe tinkakambirana, akukumbukira Sharon O'Neill, wochiritsa mabanja.

Ndinu nokha tsopano. Kumbukirani momwe mumafunira izi kumayambiriro kwa bwenzi lanu - kukhala nokha, komanso kuti palibe amene angasokoneze. Ndiye mupangirenji kuti zokambirana zanu zikhale zodzaza kwambiri?

4. "Ndimadana nazo mukachita zimenezo" (anayankhula mokweza pamaso pa anzake kapena achibale ake)

O, ndiye mtheradi ayi ku ukwati. Kumbukirani, musachite zimenezo, akutero Becky Whetstone, dokotala wabanja.

Umo ndi momwe amuna alili. Nenani mawu omwewo mwamseri, ndipo mnzanuyo azimvetsera modekha. Mfundoyi siili ngakhale m'mawu omwewo, koma chifukwa chakuti mumalengeza chidani chanu pamaso pa omwe amakuonani kukhala chinthu chimodzi ndipo maganizo awo ndi ofunika kwambiri kwa mwamuna.

5. "Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndinu opambana?"

Mlingo wapoizoni kawiri mu sentensi imodzi. Mukukayikira kufunika kwa mnzanu komanso "kuwerenga" malingaliro omwe ali m'mutu mwake, akufotokoza Becky Whetstone. Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti zinali zonyoza?

6. "Osandidikirira"

Kawirikawiri, mawu opanda vuto, koma sayenera kunenedwa kawirikawiri asanagone. Osamusiya mnzako kuti apite kwa mphindi zamadzulo limodzi ndi omwe amapeza nthawi komanso mawu osangalatsa kwa iye - muyenera kungotsegula laputopu ...

7. “Kodi mukupeza bwino?”

Uku sikutsutsa kolimbikitsa. Ndipo kudzudzula paubwenzi kuyenera kukhala kolimbikitsa, akukumbutsa Becky Whetstone. Kwa mwamuna, izi zimakhala zosasangalatsa kawiri, chifukwa iye, atayima pagalasi, amakhutira kwathunthu ndi yekha.

8. "Musaganize choncho"

Mukutanthauza kuti sayenera kuchita zinthu zomwe simungathe kuzidziwa. Palibenso chochititsa manyazi kwa mwamuna. Yesani kumumvetsa kapena kufunsa chifukwa chake wakhumudwa kwambiri, koma osanena kuti "musakhumudwe," Samantha Rodman akulangiza.

9. "Sindikumudziwa bwino - timangogwira ntchito limodzi"

Choyamba, musapereke zifukwa! Chachiwiri, mukudziwa kuti izi sizowona ndipo mumamukonda. M’zaka za m’banja, chifundo cha mmodzi wa anzako chidzabuka mosapeŵeka—kwa inu ndi kwa mwamuna wanu.

Njira yabwino ndikunena kuti, "Inde, zikumveka zoseketsa, koma ndidakonda manejala watsopano wazogulitsa. Akayamba kuseka, amandikumbutsa za inu komanso nthabwala zanu,” akutero mphunzitsi wa zachiwerewere Robin Wolgast. Kumasuka, m'malo mwakukhala chete pa nkhani zosasangalatsa, ndiyo njira yabwino kwambiri paubwenzi.

10. "Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndakhala bwino?"

Limodzi mwamafunso odabwitsa pamndandanda wautali wazovuta zaukwati lidanenedwa ndi Robin Wolgast. Mukufuna kunena chiyani kwenikweni? “Ndikudziwa kuti ndanenepa. Ndine wosakondwa ndipo ndikufuna kuti mundiuze kuti ndili bwino ndipo ndikuwoneka bwino kwambiri. Koma ndikudziwabe kuti si zoona.”

Kutsutsana kotereku sikuli m'manja mwa munthu aliyense, kupatulapo, zimakhala kuti mumamupangitsa kukhala ndi udindo pa moyo wake. Kuonjezera apo, funso lofananalo, ngati libwerezedwa kangapo, lidzasanduka mawu kwa mnzanu. Ndipo adzavomerezana nanu.

Koma ngati muli ndi mwayi ndi mnzanuyo, mudzalandira yankho losavuta ku funso lililonse ngati ili: "Inde, muli ndi ine, mayi wokalamba, kwina kulikonse!"