Njira 10 Zothana ndi Vampire Yamphamvu

Mphamvu ndi mphamvu yathu ya moyo, yomwe timafunikira kuti tikhale ndi moyo wokhazikika, wodzaza ndi wokondwa. Koma ambiri aife timawoneka opanda moyo kumapeto (kapena koyambirira) kwa tsikulo. Mankhwala a Psychosomatic awonetsa kugwirizana kwakukulu pakati pa malingaliro ndi thupi, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti mphamvu zochepa zomwe tili nazo, timakhala titayamba kudwala, kuvutika maganizo ndi nkhawa.

Pali anthu m'moyo omwe amakonda kuyamwa mphamvu mwa ife mwachangu kwambiri. Ndipo ngati ndinu munthu womvera chisoni kapena wachifundo, mudzakhala ndi chidziwitso champhamvu cha yemwe akuyamwa mphamvu zanu komanso liti. Ngakhale kuti anthu ena amanena kuti ma vampire amphamvu ndi anthu omwe sangathe kusunga mphamvu zawo pawokha, ena amakhulupirira kuti ma vampire amphamvu ali ndi zolinga zabwino komanso zabwinobwino, koma anthu olamulira. Nthawi zambiri, ma vampire amphamvu samadziwa ngakhale zochita zawo. 

Momwe mungadziwire vampire yamphamvu

Mukukumana ndi zizindikiro izi:

Kufooka Kupweteka kwathupi (kupweteka kwa mutu, kuwawa kwa thupi, ndi zina zotero) Kutopa kwamaganizo ndi thupi Kukwiya kapena nkhawa.

Mphamvu ya vampire, nayonso, imatha kuwonetsa zambiri mwazinthu izi:

Big ego, amakonda kutsutsana Zizoloŵezi zaukali kapena zamwano Paranoia Kusonyeza mkwiyo ndi mkwiyo Narcissism Melodramatic khalidwe Kudandaula ndi kudandaula Miseche Kufunika kotsimikizirika ndi kuvomereza Kuwongolera, kunyoza maganizo, ndi zina zotero.

Ndikofunika kumvetsetsa kuti ma vampire amphamvu sianthu nthawi zonse. Zitha kukhalanso zochitika komanso zinthu zakuthupi monga intaneti, TV, wailesi, foni, nyama zina.

Chovuta kwambiri ndi pamene ma vampires amphamvu amalowa m'bwalo la banja lanu kapena anzanu. Ndiye, kodi tingaletse bwanji kutuluka kwa mphamvu kuchokera kwa ife ngati tilankhulana ndi munthu amene akuzichotsa mwachangu?

Lekani kuyang'ana m'maso nthawi yayitali

Ndi imodzi mwa masinki akuluakulu amagetsi. Mukamapereka chidwi kwambiri, mumayambanso kukambirana ndipo simuzindikira kuti mulibe kanthu. Pankhaniyi, kuyang'ana maso nthawi ndi nthawi ndikofunikira.

Ikani malire a nthawi

Nthawi yanu nayonso ndi yamtengo wapatali, ndipo simuyenera kudikira maola 1-2 mpaka mphamvu zanu zitatha ndipo ubongo wanu ulibe dzanzi. Malinga ndi kuchuluka kwa mphamvu zanu, ikani malire a mphindi 5, 10, 15, 20.

Phunzirani kusachitapo kanthu

Ndikofunikira kwambiri. Ma vampire amphamvu amadya zomwe ena amachita, ndikukukakamizani kuti muzingodziwonetsa. Ndikofunika kuti muphunzire kusalowerera ndale pochita zinthu ndi anthu ena. Muyenera kuwunika mosamala mawonetseredwe a malingaliro abwino kapena oyipa.

Phunzirani kusakangana

Inde, zimayesa, koma pamapeto pake simungasinthe anthu ena pokhapokha adzisintha okha - mukawakaniza kwambiri, amakukhetsaninso.

Lankhulani naye pamodzi ndi anthu ena

Kuyandikira vampire yamphamvu ndi munthu mmodzi, awiri, kapena atatu kudzathandiza kuchepetsa khama ndikusokoneza chidwi. Kuti izi zitheke, muyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti anthuwa nawonso si ma vampire amphamvu.

Mvetserani kuposa momwe mumayankhulira

Nthawi zambiri, ma vampire amangofuna kumvetsera. Mukamalankhula kwambiri, mumataya mphamvu zambiri (makamaka ngati ndinu munthu wamba). Kugwiritsa ntchito mawu monga "chifukwa", "liti", ndi "motani" kumalimbikitsa ma vampire kulankhula zambiri, zomwe zidzasunga mphamvu zanu. Ingoyesetsani kuti musamvetsere zonse kwathunthu, kuti musatengere nokha komanso, kachiwiri, kuti musasonyeze maganizo.

Yesani kumamatira ku nkhani zopepuka

Zokambirana zanu siziyenera kukhala zopondereza. Ngati kuli kofunikira, wongolerani zokambiranazo ndikusintha mutu wa zokambirana kukhala chinthu chopepuka komanso chosavuta. 

Yang'anirani

Anthu ambiri amanena kuti kuyang'ana zishango zoteteza mphamvu kumathandiza kupeŵa kutopa m'maganizo ndikukhalabe osalowerera ndale komanso bata. Ingoyesani.

Pewani Ma Vampires Amphamvu Ngati N'kotheka

Sizitheka nthawi zonse, koma ndi njira yosavuta yodzithandizira nokha. Komabe, mukangokumana ndi vampire yamphamvu, mipata idzakhala yocheperako yomwe mungakhale nayo kuti mukhale ndi luso lofunikira komanso lofunikira pamoyo.

Dulani kukhudzana

Iyi ndi njira yomaliza komanso yomaliza. Nthawi zina, kuti mukhale ndi thanzi komanso chisangalalo, muyenera kupanga zisankho zovuta zokhudzana ndi chilengedwe chanu. Pamapeto pake, ngati mukupitirizabe kuvutika, njira yabwino ndiyo kusiya kulankhulana ndi munthu uyu. 

Siyani Mumakonda