Ntchito 5 zomwe umayi umatithandiza

Olemba ntchito ambiri amakhulupirira molakwika kuti kukhala mayi kumasokoneza ntchito: bwanji ngati wogwira ntchitoyo apitanso kutchuthi chakumayi kapena kutenga tchuthi chodwala chifukwa cha mwanayo. Choncho, amayi omwe ali ndi ana monga ogwira ntchito nthawi zambiri amanyansidwa. Ngakhale kwenikweni ali ndi ubwino wofunikira.

Bungwe la ndondomeko za ntchito

Kukonzekera ndi kutha kugaŵira ena ntchito ndi makhalidwe abwino kwambiri amene olemba ntchito amawayamikira. Ndi ndendende chifukwa cha kusowa kwa nthawi yomwe ife, amayi, timayesera kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku logwira ntchito moyenera momwe tingathere, chifukwa tiyenera kumaliza ntchito yonse ndikuthamangira mwanayo ku sukulu ya mkaka kapena kumunyamula kusukulu.

Ndipo mayi aliyense akhoza kulemba moyenerera kukonzekera, luso la kasamalidwe ka nthawi, ndi kuchita zambiri pakati pa mphamvu zake poyambiranso. Ndipo ngati mkazi akulera yekha mwana, ndiye pamene iye amapita kuntchito, iye mosakayika adziwonetsa yekha kukhala wantchito wodalirika.

Kulankhulana ndi anthu ovuta

Ambiri akumana ndi anthu “ovuta” m’njira. Mwachitsanzo, mnzako yemwe sagwira ntchito bwino, kapena bwana yemwe chidwi chake sichingakopeke mwanjira iliyonse. Zomwezo zimachitikanso ndi ana amisinkhu yosiyana. Ndipo mayi aliyense ali ndi njira zake zopezera mayankho oyenera kuchokera kwa iwo.

Choncho, amayi omwe ali ndi ana osakwana zaka zisanu ndi ziwiri amadziwa kuti mwanayo amazindikira zambiri kudzera mu masewerawo. Ndani angatenge zoseweretsa kuchokera pansi mwachangu, inu kapena amayi? Ndani angakonde kuvala pantyhose m'munda, inu kapena mnzanu? Njira imeneyi ingathandize pa ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, angagwiritsidwe ntchito kulimbikitsa ogwira ntchito powaphatikiza pa mpikisano wa mutu wa «Wogwira Ntchito pa Mwezi».

Amayi amatha kukhala akazembe ngakhale pamavuto. Vuto laubwana wa zaka zitatu likutiphunzitsa kukambirana ndi iwo omwe, popanda chifukwa, akhoza kugona pa asphalt ndikulira. Ndipo ngati mwakwanitsa kupeza njira kwa mwana wosakhala wanzeru, ndiye bwanji osayesa kuthetsa mavuto ndi mnzanu wanzeru mofananamo?

Kutha kuchita chidwi

Oyambitsa, eni mabizinesi, ndi oyang'anira malonda ayenera kukopa osunga ndalama ndi makasitomala. Cholinga ndi chimodzimodzi - chidwi chipani china ngakhale pamene maganizo athu sakuwoneka wokongola kwa iye poyamba. Ndi ana, zinthu zoterezi zimachitika ola lililonse: mwina sakufuna kuwerenga, ndiye kuti sakufuna kuchita homuweki, kapena kuyeretsa.

Zonse muzochitika ndi mwana komanso ndi Investor, ndikofunika kusonyeza kuti zidzakhala zopindulitsa komanso zothandiza kuti apereke kwa ife. Amayi apanga chifundo, nthawi zambiri amamva kumverera kwa interlocutor, komanso amadziwa momwe angakhalire ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana. Muyenera kupita kuchita zidule mu mawonekedwe a kusintha innation ndi mwana ndi kasitomala kuti kukopa chidwi ndi kudzutsa chidwi. Amayi, monga palibe antchito ena, amatha kusankha njira zosiyanasiyana mpaka atapeza yoyenera.

Kumvetsetsa zosowa za makasitomala

Kwa maudindo amalonda, oyang'anira akaunti, ogulitsa kuti azigwira ntchito ndi ana kapena makolo, olemba ntchito amasangalala kutenga akazi omwe ali ndi chidziwitso cha amayi. Ngati mkazi mwiniwake ngati kasitomala kapena wogula akudziwa bwino vutoli, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti alankhule chinenero chomwecho ndi kasitomala kapena wogula. Izi sizikugwira ntchito pazogulitsa zokha.

N’zosavuta kuti mphunzitsi amene ali ndi mwana amvetse bwino ophunzira ake, a msinkhu wofanana ndi wa mwana wake wamkazi kapena mwana wake wamwamuna. Madokotala a ana amadziwa bwino momwe zimakhalira zosangalatsa mwana wawo akadwala. Chifundo chimene amayi amakhala nacho chimaonekera m’ntchito imene amagwira.

Mkhalidwe wanzeru pa zolakwa

Ndizosatheka kufotokozera zomwe amayi onse amakumana nazo, koma ndi maonekedwe ndi kulera ana, amayi nthawi zambiri amalimbitsa luso monga kulolerana ndi kumvetsetsa. Poyerekeza ndi kulera ana, mkazi akhoza kusalaza zinthu, kukhululukira zolakwa ndi kusintha mkhalidwe wa timu.

Mwana akamakula, nthawi zambiri amalakwitsa ndipo amaphunzira, amacheza. Wantchito “akakula” pantchito, amalakwitsanso zambiri mwaukadaulo. Ndipo ngati tili ndi ana, tisaiwale kuti n’zofala kuti aliyense apatuka panjira yoyenera. Chifukwa cha zochitika za amayi, amayi amatsogoleredwa osati ndi zotsatira zawo komanso za ena pa ntchito, komanso amaonetsetsa kuti chikhalidwe chonse cha gulu chili chabwino.

Siyani Mumakonda