Chitsimikizo (kuchokera ku English affirm - affirm) ndi mtundu wa mawu okhudza chinthu ndikuchivomereza kuti ndichowona. Nthawi zambiri, chitsimikiziro chimatanthawuza chiganizo chobwerezabwereza kapena mawu, monga cholinga chaumwini ndi chilengedwe kuti chimasulire (cholinga) kukhala chenicheni. Ubongo wa aliyense wa ife uli ndi otchedwa reticular adamulowetsa dongosolo. Kufotokozera mofala, kumakhala ngati fyuluta ya chidziwitso, "kutenga" zomwe zikufunika ndikuchotsa zomwe sitikuzifuna. Pakadapanda kukhalapo kwa dongosolo ili muubongo, tikadangolemedwa ndi chidziwitso chosatha chozungulira, chomwe chingatipangitse kuti tivutike kwambiri. M'malo mwake, ubongo wathu umakhazikika kuti ugwire zomwe zili zofunika malinga ndi zolinga zathu, zosowa zathu, zokonda zathu, ndi zokhumba zathu.
Tiyeni tiyerekeze mmene zinthu zinalili. Inu ndi mnzanu mukuyendetsa galimoto kuzungulira mzindawo. Muli ndi njala kwambiri, ndipo mnzanu akufunadi kukumana ndi mtsikana wokongola. Kuchokera pazenera lamagalimoto, muwona malo odyera ndi malo odyera (osati atsikana konse), pomwe mnzanu aziwonera zokongola zomwe mutha kukhala nazo madzulo. Ambiri aife timadziwa bwino zomwe zikuchitika: mnzathu wapamtima wa mnzathu adadzitamandira kwa galimoto yogulidwa ya mtundu wina wake ndi chitsanzo. Tsopano, titakhala okondwa moona mtima kwa wokondedwa, chitsanzo chagalimotochi chimagwira maso athu kulikonse. Pobwereza kutsimikizira mobwerezabwereza, zotsatirazi zimachitika. Dongosolo lanu la reticular activated limalandira chizindikiro chodziwikiratu kuti cholinga chomwe mukufuna ndichofunika kwa inu. Amayamba kuyang'ana ndikupeza njira zomwe zingatheke kuti akwaniritse cholingacho. Ngati kutsimikizira kwanu ndi kulemera koyenera, mwadzidzidzi mumayamba kuzindikira masewera olimbitsa thupi ndi zoonda. Ngati ndalama ndiye cholinga chanu, mwayi wopeza ndi kuyika ndalama udzakhala patsogolo panu. Kodi chimapangitsa chitsimikiziro kukhala chogwira ntchito ndi chiyani? Choyamba tiyenera kudziwa mtundu wa kusintha komwe tikufuna kuwona - cholinga kapena cholinga. Kenako timachipatsa mtengo waubwenzi wabwino ndi chikhalidwe. M'pofunikanso kuwonjezera kutengeka. Mwachitsanzo, "Ndimamva kuti ndine wathanzi komanso wokondwa m'thupi langa lochepa thupi" kapena "Ndimakhala mosangalala m'nyumba yanga yabwino." Limbikitsani chitsimikizirocho mwanjira yabwino, kupeŵa zoyipa: "Ndine wathanzi komanso wokwanira" osati "Sindidzanenepanso." Ndimagwirizana muuzimu, m'maganizo ndi m'thupi.
Ndimavomereza mosavuta maphunziro ndi madalitso a tsoka.
Tsiku ndi tsiku ndimayamika tsogolo ndikudalira zonse zomwe zimachitika.
Ndimachita bwino pachilichonse chomwe ndimayesetsa kuchita.
Chikondi, nzeru ndi chifundo zimakhala mu mtima mwanga.
Chikondi ndi ufulu wanga wosalandirika woperekedwa nditangobadwa.
Ndine wamphamvu komanso wamphamvu.
Ndimaona zabwino mwa anthu ndipo amawona zabwino mwa ine.